Very well said and I agree 100%. I do believe that it is good for all of us to have dreams, however, I also believe in kind honesty - you can be honest without being unkind and bursting bubbles. If Jess really believes she’s going to do all these things but none of them come to fruition (which they won’t!), how is she going to feel then? Realise she’s been lied to all her life? Feel a complete failure? Yet apparently they are always honest with her. That’s a lie in itself!
Autistic Interpretations #9 Jess gets over medicated while the Porn Palace gets renovated
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They have broken all these rules so far - I hope that Disney does follow up of the reports they receive
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It’s dumb how they lie to her even with a self driving car they’re not gonna give her license being blind!! As soon as Val passes away they will put her in a home.
That is what I am getting at…
Somewhere, she needed to be told that certain things aren’t within her possibilities.
My oldest is 19 and has Autism (with seizures). When it came to driving, she knew before it was time, that until her seizures were more controlled, there was no way she was driving. She also has a girlfriend (in Florida) but knows that she will need to stay in our state, due to her benefits because she cannot go without medical care or waiting on a waitlist. These are things we have delicately approached with her, over time, when she was in a good mood. We went through steps to get to certain things and where we see her being able to live and set realistic expectations that we see and she has had input too. All of this wasn’t overnight and we used her therapist to help navigate some of these obstacles too.
I just see, eventually, Jessica snapping because her voice isn’t being heard and her goals never being achieved.
How many rides do we really need to see her on? These videos could be the same as all other trips so freaking boring. Her screaming watch out bad daddy telling Jess stay in your seat. Hannah just repeating what everyone says and feeding her treats saying we are adults. Not funny first time and still not funny today. Did everyone love Val coaching her to say that dumb sight seeing train is her favorite ride because it is wheelchair accessible and she feels more safe. It’s not a ride idiots of course it is more safe. She just wants to keep her fat butt sitting down while everyone else caters and she yells out demands. Lastly how is this a vacation when they are racing to get ride after ride done and off her checklist. That would be a vacation from hell for me!
Well Jess ate risotto....call the press!!!! She would probably eat anything in exchange for the brownie her mother hand fed her afterwards! And with the promise of chicken nuggets later!!!
Then the other food they got looked like tit! I can just imagine the $$$ that went out for that meal or snack and none of them but Campbell liked anything! They try to act like they are all that and such food connoisseurs and they just aren't! Stick to the basics Brooks family!!! And no one really looks like they are having the amount of fun they want people to believe! And of course Jess had to pat her mother and squeal! Hannah the eyebrows are awful...get a refund!
Then the other food they got looked like tit! I can just imagine the $$$ that went out for that meal or snack and none of them but Campbell liked anything! They try to act like they are all that and such food connoisseurs and they just aren't! Stick to the basics Brooks family!!! And no one really looks like they are having the amount of fun they want people to believe! And of course Jess had to pat her mother and squeal! Hannah the eyebrows are awful...get a refund!
Risotto is rice, not a new food to her. Just not nuggets. It’s her other go to instead of nuggets or shrimp. But she gets nuggets tonight and a brownie for lunch and Chocolate cake for dinner dessert. I would love to know her calorie count at the end of this trip. She will probably gain 8 pounds minimum with no walking just riding. My butt would be numb and my legs asleep after the first morning.
Thanks for the affirmation, Susan830.
They must have left the flower chart at home.
As we all know the autism spectrum is vast..from high functioning to severely dependent, and keep in mind Jessica may have mild autistic behaviours ..but her primary diagnosis was not autism ...and definitely not high functioning.
Jessica was born missing part of her brain which is the root of her disability ...with that comes her vision impairment , her schizophrenia, severe OCD, anger issues, congestive issues, memory issues...among other things.
That being said...she has never had the ability to process most things, she can't read or write, she doesn't problem solve or have much interest in anything except for cards, rap, food and videos...
She requires constant promoting ....so I highly doubt at any time in her life did she " day dream" or read about nursing, or ponder buying furniture for her own apt. She simply doesn't think like that...she really only thinks about what she hears...or what Val tells her.
It's not like one day at 17 she said I want to be an RN when I graduate and go to college ...she has no concept that college is even a requirement ...she wouldn't know what a college is ...unless she was told.
So all these stories and lies she's been fed by Val... Like when Val said Jess quit her volunteer position because she wanted a paid position ...Jessica doesn't understand the word volunteer ..nor do I see her negotiating with her employer for a paid position! She doesn't understand the difference between a dollar bill and a $20 dollar bill.
So...to lie to Jess and convince her she will do things that we know she won't was cruel and simply done for the camera ...why else?
A good parent, family...team would praise her accomplishments, help her cope, grow, get her involved in community, volunteer work...give her realistic goals like a bedroom renovation or her own space down stairs if she wanted, helping others by doing volunteer work, the family paying her for jobs...like dog walking ....there are many realistic goals Val could of given Jess...but she lies...and it's all about feeding whatever narrative Val has going whatever lie she's living in that moment.
Jessica could have a FUN, ACTIVE, BUSY life...but doesn't because of Val, the lies of her sickness, the autism sham...the fact Val has Jess isolated from any and all professionals and agencies .... Jessica has been lied to told she's autistic and blind and has CP, etc... But if any of that were true....why are there no professional agencies helping out? No services, no therapist no care providers... Because Jessica's illnesses and diagnosis don't match what Val pretends she has.
Bottom line, Jessica is at the hands of a very sick mentally ill woman who refuses to have Jessica treated for her real mental issues she is clueless to any future ..she can't think past her next meal..unless you say chocolate cake next Wednesday ..THAT she will obsess about ,ask, repeat a million times a day all day every day until it's in her mouth.
Sadly....that's the only future she understands.
Well said I agree wallfly Jessica has hydrosyphilis , fluid on the brain relieved by her shunt. It’s the reason for all her problems. They blame it on autism because hydrosyphilis does not qualify as a disability to receive benefits. Val travelled out of state for the autism diagnosis! She writes in her blog how happy she was , how disturbingly sad!
Lizaable I agree, al is setting her up for more failures
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It shows how warped Val is and how she should NOT be guardian for anyone.
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On the post from yesterday I glanced at what was written . . . . . . .
it’s hilarious in places and scary in others.
Doesn’t Val regularly say Jess doesn’t NOT nap much of the time???????
Mental Health is mentioned????????
Jess expresses anything that isn’t prompted?????
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Jessica is tired because of all the crap food she eats. They should try 1 week of no fried foods, chocolate cake, sugary snacks and actually give her some proteins. I saw some one say on here, she could make muffins with carrots, applesauce or zucchini bread. But Val, lay off the fried food. We have relatives in the south and they have the worst health and have been told to lay off the fried foods. The dr said people in southern USA die from more heart problems than from anywhere else. Everyday Jess has at least 3 fried foods.
It’s like they have a little baby or young child. Everything revolves around a nap.
She had something new!! Risotto! Oh wait. Same food she eats on the regular.
Nice try! Maybe next time we’ll hear that she tried the brand new French dish “nuggets de poulet” or perhaps the famous French dessert “Gateau au chocolat”… how fancy!
Nice try! Maybe next time we’ll hear that she tried the brand new French dish “nuggets de poulet” or perhaps the famous French dessert “Gateau au chocolat”… how fancy!
Exactly it was basically rice to jess which she eats at home....and that was lunch near the end it was mentioned she'd have chicken nuggets later tonight..I'm assuming dinner.
What we eat...matters.
Especially as we get older...take into consideration the fact Jessica also gets little to no exercise as well, and very little sunshine.
Daily she should be eating 5 full portions of fruit and veg..every day!
Colourful food is healthy food
All Jessica eats is grey fried foods.
No berries, no melons, no apples or pears, no bananas, no citris...no cucumbers, lettuce, no greens, no salads ....no juices, smoothies, yoghurt nothing healthy..EVER.
I've never seen anything like it..her vitamin deficiency must be off the charts. The lack of fruits , veg, calcium ,nutrients in her diet for so many years very much contributes to her overall health! Nurse Val should know this.
I mean...just LOOK at her! She looks the same age as VAL..if not older..Jess looks old enough to be Hannah's mother. She has grey dry brittle hair, her skin in ashen..her eyes sunk in with dark brown circles ...she has no muscle tone.
Why exactly did Val have to quit her job to stay home for.? She should be actually CARING for Jess, cooking REAL food, baking her healthy snacks and muffins etc.. WITH fruits and veg. Hide it in her food if you have to, blend it in a smoothie! DO something to help this girl instead of laying around watching movies cuddling the dog and eating out once a day. for
I mean seriously ...food...basic nutrition !! Val can't even do that!
It's all too much work...and Vals not interested if there's nothing in it for herself.
Being a mom, a parent is a tough job...raising children to be productive good HEALTHY adults, autistic or not...it's work...but Val doesn't want to put the time in work with Jessica, teach Jessica ...it's beyond disgusting this woman is permitted to be a caregiver. It's neglect and abuse of someone whose severely mentally incompetent with psychological issues...and Val should be ashamed of herself.
That tit...would never fly here.
She not only eats fried foods daily, when it’s not that it’s frozen dinners in family sz portions, or something unhealthy from a can. Btw, I don’t believe for a minute she chose the risotto over chicken nuggets, I believe it was an appetizer, when Jess said someone got chicken nuggets Val replied, like you’re going to in a little while. Nice loud slaps in the face Val got, followed a few seconds later by what is it time to do, it’s time to Pat you. Their coverups and bs statements are so obvious.
I can’t believe how terrible Jessica looks in the latest Disney video. She looks like a little old crippled lady hunched over in her wheelchair being fed that damn brownie. I am the same age as her but she looks about 30 years older than me! They really have no shame and intentionally make her look as disabled as possible at Disney.
Interesting that she could see the icing on the brownie and that someone else had chicken nuggets! I wish they would stop referring to her as blind - she’s clearly not! As for Hannah, she looks as disabled as Jess the way she’s holding that fork! She’s also as bad-mannered - no thank you to her dad when he passed her a knife, which she practically snatched out of his hand. I don’t get all these people saying what an amazing family they are, I certainly don’t see it.
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I agree. I have two young adults with autism and other special needs and have always been honest with them about everything, whilst at the same time working hard, with the help of experienced professionals, to ensure that they reach their utmost potential. I believe that is much kinder in the long run than making them believe in things that I know they will never be able to do - without dampening their spirits. I have never believed in ‘anything for a quiet life’ as it is not fair to them. They have both already achieved far more than some of the professionals have given them credit for and I know they will continue to surpass some expectations BUT the fact remains that, realistically, there are things they will not be able to do unless a miracle happens. They are both delightful young people (who, like all of us, have their moments) and they have impeccable manners. There is absolutely no excuse for Jessica’s behaviour and lack of manners and I feel quite sorry for her as it’s not her fault.
I'm sorry but looking a Jess eat ..is revolting ..talking with her mouth full, food oozing out, her hair in her face all hunched over like an animal.
And you know they purposely ask her how is it...two three times every mouth full knowing she will grunt back...' It good" " I love it"
She's 35 and eats like a dog...enormous bites, barely chewing, shaking her head and looking for more....that's not autism..that's lazy parenting.
She should of been taught to BREATHE between bites! Also taught to slow down...put her fork down after a couple bites, have a drink...chew with her mouth closed!
She's eats like a feral pig....it's disgusting.
And you know they purposely ask her how is it...two three times every mouth full knowing she will grunt back...' It good" " I love it"
She's 35 and eats like a dog...enormous bites, barely chewing, shaking her head and looking for more....that's not autism..that's lazy parenting.
She should of been taught to BREATHE between bites! Also taught to slow down...put her fork down after a couple bites, have a drink...chew with her mouth closed!
She's eats like a feral pig....it's disgusting.
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