Autistic Interpretations #4 Mental Illness and financial abuse of a disabled adult.

[Booboo01!]

Just watched Monday night crispy live. Jessica was picking her nose bad and this was the first time I have ever seen val put her arm across Jess so her arms and hands stopped and she repeated a few times stop while looking straight at her. I know this came from us talking about it here lol! The problem was it didn’t stop her from doing other things that were gross! Next thing Val you really have to put a stop to that whining baby noise she makes as it makes her look so bad! And now since I know you are reading this I will just post my requests here lol. Next big news Hannah next week is going on some kind of 10 day excursion in Norway. I have no idea with who or why I’m just glad to see her leaving that house for 10 days might do her some good. And of course not only her but Val’s anxiety is going crazy. Jess did not care in the slightest she was happy cause she would have mommy to herself! These relationships are so damn twisted and weird Val!
One last thing she kept doing the face patting thing when Val kept saying no it was hurting from procedure of whatever she had done. Ignored Val and just kept doing it

 

[mountainvibe]

Jessica can see, but she can’t.
She can walk, but needs a wheelchair.
Is independent, but can’t live independently.
Can read braille, but she can’t.
Is a “nurse”, with no degree.
Begs for money, but can take trips to Disney.
A “dog mom” to a pup she can’t stand.
Is “sweet and beautiful”, but is violent to folks during her meltdowns.
Has a “personal assistant”, with a family that doesn’t work.
Has a brother who is a doctor, but really does amateur porn.

Any of these things on one side or the other would be okay. Whether she can or can’t - it is what it is, why the constant need to prove something she’s not? How does anyone think all this twisting makes sense? I don’t want to be down on anyone without cause, but think when things don’t add up, that makes people question the integrity and truth in general. Maybe they tell the stories and frame it like they do to cope? Why would it be ok to lie, especially to your disabled child leading them to believe things are one way when they’re not?

 

[grammacloud]

If by accident, you stumbled onto AI video somewhere, and you didn’t see the title, you would never guess that this site is about autism. You would think it is a site about, trying to get the most out of followers, complaining, invisible ailments, laying around the house, cooking unhealthy food and Disney travel. They have more self care days than anybody I know. The pandemic didn’t help us get out of the house, but these people live in a cave. It’s time to get back to normal, which means, going to work, grocery shopping, yard work and everyday life. They think doing normal everyday activities are a rare event. Really, we all have been back at it for a long while now. Your boring life isn’t any different from anyone else’s. I see lots of families with more than one autistic family member going about their daily lives and aren’t constantly praising their loved ones about each and everything they do. I rarely get a mother daughter day, because my daughter works. They are going to do this once a week? I’m not jealous of them, I am proud that my family is hard working and self supporting.

 

[Booboo01!]

Hey guys nothing to the crispies either as of yet

 

[tellinitlikeitis]

As someone else pointed out on here, these people live a pretty nice life. Excessive trips to Disney, paid for by other people, European vacations ( not sure why they’re vacating from but whatever) payed for by other people, nobody works, constantly eating out, payed for by other people and yet all they do is piss and moan about everything.

 

[rbooth61]

I still find it odd that we never see Marlowe, Mama Joe or Val’s parents anymore in the videos. Seems strange that it all started back around the time Bad Daddy was doing Greedy Thursday and the video apparently got erased. Could it be the others finally felt all of this had left a bad taste in their mouths. Val’s father would always come pick up Jessica for McDonald’s and the post office. The grandmother always taped her baking with Jessica. When you look at Val’s parents you almost wonder what went wrong. They seemed like really nice middle class family. The artistic talent of her mom is impressive. Then you look at Val and she didn’t pick up any of her moms talents. She can’t even cook chicken without it looking like shoe leather. How life could of been so different if Val kept working as a nurse and kept advocating for Jessica to succeed. Maybe after all the years of raising Jessica and her behaviors just wore her down mentally and physically. She had finally made it to the finish line and threw in her towel. It’s actually sad because quitting her career is where her life really unraveled. You could see even in the beginning of Autistic Interpretations what she taped was actually incite full. Then she became greedy and knew that is was easier to ask for handouts vs making a honest living. My actual point of real disgust came with them encouraging Hannah to quit her job. I really don’t see this hanging on much longer because you can see them struggling for content. Everyone who played a big part of keeping the videos entertaining are leaving. She better start focusing on Campbell because she’s going to need it. Jessica isn’t her pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

 

[HartofTexas]

I noticed after all Jessica Disney rides where she clearly expresses her fear Val always makes her say she wasn’t scared. The roller coasters she used the excuse the other person yelling made her nervous or the latest one she was just trying to get it to slow down. First of all how could Jessica hear the other person screaming over her own screaming. Jessica doesn’t like these rides she only does it because Val tells her to. At least Hannah speaks up and tells her she doesn’t like it and won’t ride. But that’s the difference because Jessica puts her trust into Val and doesn’t want to disappoint. That one new roller coaster when Jessica got off her legs were shaking and she couldn’t register why. I thought how stupid and ignorant for Val to even write that on a post. That just makes people realize how horrible she is as a mother. As a mom why would you do that to your adult disabled daughter who clearly doesn’t get it . Jessica just sees it as pleasing mom and after rewards of food and more food.I clearly don’t get peoples obsession with Disney. You would think traveling to Bush Gardens would be closer.


Definitely edited because they don’t want people to hear Jessica ungrateful comments.

Like in a video a long time ago, Val stated that they work to stop the triggers THEY do not stop the behaviors or Jess’ reactions, such poor parenting

She could care less about about a cookbook. But her idiot mother says "cuz you love to cook". Val your content sucks.

Kinda like she LOVES the dogs!!!!

 

[winnie woo]

I cannot believe how OLD Jessica looks here. It’s terrible.


Are we talking about Marlowe? I’ve never seen anyone talk bad about her on here. Why would be? She is so sweet and tries her best with Jessica. I honestly feel sorry for Marlowe. I hope she doesn’t feel stuck with Jessica. Every other caregiver has left after a year or two because they were sick of Jessica’s verbal and physical abuse towards them and I know she does the same to Marlowe. Val even said once that Jessica had an outburst and hit Marlowe. Of course there was an excuse to follow on why she did it and sweet Marlowe is just left to take it.

i suspect she abuses Marlowe a lot, Val said not long ago she had anxiety over Hannah and verbally abuse Marlowe as she does, doctors, nurses, hair stylists and everyone around her that pisses her off. Someone asked if Marlowe felt hurt, no she-understands was the answer. That’s the problem everyone around Jess and her bad behaviour is supposed to understand.i was watching a live tonite by Autism mom Carrie Carrielo, her son Jack is in a wonderful college program, struggling to adjust. The program he attendo has a moto that they don’t get in trouble for anything she said in their home there were consequences, not horrific consequences but if her son Jack did A he knew B might happen. She said this form of dicipline helped him to check himself on that particular behaviour. They also have boundaries, he’s a tester, it was getting disruptive and constant, and way too often, they set a texting time to manage it. She is a wonderful spokeswoman for autism . Does 1 live a week, a real live not an edited piece of garbage. Her son is not part of it, she answers questions as they’re thrown at her. Her son made one appearance to be introduced to her followers. He is not exploited in any way, there are no gifts no money stars, just a mom and her family and their struggles as well joys of their autistic adult so n Jack. Val could learn from this woman.

 

[grammacloud]

Just watched Monday night crispy live. Jessica was picking her nose bad and this was the first time I have ever seen val put her arm across Jess so her arms and hands stopped and she repeated a few times stop while looking straight at her. I know this came from us talking about it here lol! The problem was it didn’t stop her from doing other things that were gross! Next thing Val you really have to put a stop to that whining baby noise she makes as it makes her look so bad! And now since I know you are reading this I will just post my requests here lol. Next big news Hannah next week is going on some kind of 10 day excursion in Norway. I have no idea with who or why I’m just glad to see her leaving that house for 10 days might do her some good. And of course not only her but Val’s anxiety is going crazy. Jess did not care in the slightest she was happy cause she would have mommy to herself! These relationships are so damn twisted and weird Val!
One last thing she kept doing the face patting thing when Val kept saying no it was hurting from procedure of whatever she had done. Ignored Val and just kept doing it

How can she afford a trip to Norway, she just had her lasik and her brows done, it’s amazing how often these people take trips. We’re not talking a weekend getaway with friends to someone’s cabin.

 

[grammacloud]

I get that Jessica will repeat the same stories over and over again. That’s part of her autism, but do they have to video it over and over for all to see. After ten times, I think they could stop videoing the same conversation. We get it.
also she really doesn’t like the dogs. She is constantly telling them to get away. Someone else is walking them, feeding them, grooming them, picking up after them. I don’t think it a good thing to enforce the good dog, bad dog conversation either. Even if it’s the only thing she says every day, we don’t need it.
One video Val said Jessica’s favorite game is to have someone fake cry, so she can comfort them. This is weird and they do it at restaurants, how embarrassing for the other diners.

 

[winnie woo]

Their delusions are in full bloom. Okay, is Jess blind or is she a videographer? You can’t be both.

Their followers are also delusional. Jess is not smart. Jess is not pretty. Jess is not comedic. She is who she is. Don’t disrespect her by saying those things and making her something she is not.

Nor is she kind, nor does she care about people or dogs. She is selfish and cares about food only.

 

[grammacloud]

No one is their right mind would pay $88 to watch these people.

 

[grammy1955]

Val is a damn RN and thinks canned chili is healthy! I think the world is a much better place with her not practicing nursing.

 

[grammacloud]

Give me a break, Val has more vacations in one year than I have had in 5 years. She has Marlow there 3 days a week and Campbell and Hannah full time there. Not to mention, Jess goes to Nonnie and Grandads once a week for an overnight. She has plenty of time to herself, if she would let Marlow do her job and not hover over them. It’s what she chooses to do with her break time, if all you do is lay around in bed, she is wasting precious time she could use for private walks, meditation, yoga and other self care. As far as feeling depressed and sick, quit thinking about yourself and get out and do for others. And I don’t mean Jessica. Anyone can talk themselves into being sick or depressed or anxious. Keep busy, and stop analyzing every little ache and pain. Some people can make a stubbed toe into a broken foot, if they focus only on that one thing. Quit over analyzing everything to death Val.

 

[BrooklynMarie]

I don't think exposing Madison's new line of work will have the impact that some people on here believe it will. Does it show that Val lies? Yes. But, I think people (i.e. Crispies) are more likely to feel sympathetic towards her as a mother who loves her child but is embarrassed by his recent decisions and give her a pass for lying.

That's probably the reason why they removed the name of this site and not the mention of Madison's porn career. It's more detrimental for people to find out about this site than Madison's career change. If they find this site, they find out that Bad Daddy is not Jess' bio dad, that they had to move out of the house early because they couldn't make the payments, they'll find critical comments about the inconsistencies in Val & Co.'s stories, etc.

 

[Twiddle]

Unbelievable and very sad that .Val allows such rude comments to anyone on the vlog

I agree. Most pages I follow are well moderated and this would not be allowed. They don’t take into consideration that some of those who ask questions may well be on the spectrum, or have other special needs, themselves. Instead of showing them the same kindness and respect that they expect people to show Jessica, they come down on them like a ton of bricks! I’ve noticed that Val/Hannah are getting quite tetchy in their responses too - obviously they don’t like being challenged about anything. There needs to be more of it!

 

[FrenchieMama]

This mornings video was all about picking….guess the no dessert if you pick didn’t last long since she’s obviously picking and every other video is her shoveling chocolate cake in her face

 

[grammacloud]

In our area, they are called “staff”. Again, Val is trying to make Jess something she isn’t.


Does anyone remember when Val said she didn’t want Jess wiping tables at school because none of the other students were doing it? She doesn’t recognize that this is what Jess CAN do. She isn’t going to do high level jobs. She doesn’t have the ability. Many people with disabilities do jobs that they love. I know one young man who flattens used, plastic grocery bags to use at a thrift shop. She only sets Jess up for failure due to her high opinion of herself and her family. Val wants Jess to be a caregiver at a nursing home but Jess can’t do it because she doesn’t have the ability to control her emotions or becoming obsessed with someone. Perfect job for Jess would be inventory control of the food in the house. She knows exactly what’s in the cupboard.

I knew a woman with Down syndrome and she cleaned the dining room of a fast food place. No table was ever dirty, salt and pepper were always full, would help any customer with a question. She was so proud of having her own job and money. It didn’t matter to her that it was a small job, it was her job. And she was good at it and took pride in it and herself. She isn’t with us anymore sadly, but Jessica and Val need to get down off their high horse and get real and get a job. They are so sad, all of them laying around all day long, dreaming up ways to con people out of money instead of working for it.

 

[Twiddle]

Being a caregiver to somebody as needy as Jessica it can't be easy. My dad had dementia which is like Alzheimer's and he was super demanding and difficult. It very stressful and all consuming until his death

I feel so sad that you went through that with your dad, Alzheimer’s is a horrible disease.

It certainly isn’t easy - I have two young adults with autism and other special needs, (one foster son and one biological daughter) so I agree 100% with this statement - however, what people seem to forget is that Val has a lot of help and support with Jessica and gets plenty of down time. There is Campbell, Hannah, Marlow, Nonnie and Grandad, who all help look after Jessica. Many caregivers have no support or respite whatsoever - I’m one of them - and although I love my children dearly, there are times when I would love to have even 10 minutes to myself. It would be great to be able to go get my nails done, or go to the spa or something, even if it was only once a year! I don’t begrudge the help and support Val has, but it kind of grates on me at the constant moaning of both Val and Hannah about being tired and stressed etc., when there are so many others who aren’t as fortunate. My dear old grandma always used to say, “Count your blessings” - she not only said it, she put it into practice - and, although it’s not always easy, it is a great principle to live by and I try to follow her example in that. I am not always successful, but I do try and when I do make a conscious effort to count my blessings, I have a completely different mindset. When Val puts on her ‘Poor little ole me’ face and voice, I feel like reaching through the screen, shaking her and telling her to count her blessings - there are so many others in much worse situations.

 

[HartofTexas]

imagine if Jess was on a supervised, organized, regular schedule where she had responsibilities and wasn’t sitting around listening to crap rap and doing nothing - immediately her hands would be busy and she wouldn’t have time to pick! But that would never happen it’s Val and Hannah leading the way, it’s their daily schedule to do anything but eat and sit and whine!
if Campbell was in charge I think Jess would be healthier and happier and on a schedule that included activities and perhaps an appropriate job placement in time, but Val won’t let her money train stop!