Another sad, pointless ...video to add to the THOUSANDS of others of Jessica holding the arm of someone pouring boxed ingredients bought from the dollar store into a bowl ...nothing new to see here.....just a 6 minute video of family members snickering at Jessica who at almost 37 still can't pour slowly, stir unprompted and is obsessing over food.
Notice Jessica mentions dinner...when she's still stirring her dessert. Food is all she focuses on, ever.
This video ...like all the others absolutely breaks my heart....sickens me beyond belief. All I see is a 37 year old whose been so abusively neglected and exploited for profit ..used as a gimmick to make money for a woman who doesn't want to work,but stay at home (someone else's home) and make money by selling her IDD middle aged daughter online..pimping her out to monthly subscribers wanting to pay money for personal interactions with Jessica , by text,live videos, face time....phone calls...even visits.
Jessica unfortunately has fallen through the cracks being that great changes have happened within the autism world in the last 15-20 years..just as Jessica's education was wrapping up...New advancements new therapies new medications and very new approaches in understanding and teaching our children with autism.
It's clear Val has done the bare minimum of that as a mother, a teacher and caregiver ....and the proof is in the lives of all her children....all three broken, desperate, mentally unstable with copious amounts of emotional baggage and " illnesses" .
Jessica had far more potential when professionals were involved in her life...but the struggles really began with Jesse in her high school years....because Vals lack of discipline and afterschool follow through wasn't happening ..Jessica began being more bossy, verbally abusive , physically aggressive ....and being taught by Val there are no consequences for bad behaviours ....so Jessica really started acting out..hitting teachers,students ,nurses ..and when Val was confronted about these unacceptable behaviours, asked to have jessica rediagnosed because she was and still does show significant signs of schizophrenia....Val declined blaming autism ....and slowly jessica was asked to not return to class, not return to her volunteer position , not to return to the bus....So instead of addressing Jessica's violent obsessive behaviours ...Val simply takes her " blind " daughters can be away....refuses therapy, and cries victim on a blog...and blamed every teacher, school and professional instead of taking any responsibility...or addressing and correcting Jessica's behaviours.
So fast forward to today ...look what Jessica has become. ...isolated , Gray haired , middle aged , recluse that is a puppet for Val to use and manipulate online for money.
Jessica has absolutely nothing going on in her life ....she's regressed to an unclean, violent, verbally abusive ,feral being....unable to toilet on her own, brush her hair or teeth. Put socks on, her food obsessions and extremely poor diet and nutrition are taking a physical toll on jessica who looks older than her mother.
There's no dietician helping or therapist helping ....no regular dental checkups... Jessica is soley reliant on Val....for everything and the neglect is obvious .
Jessica has an extremely bleak future unless APS steps in and advocates for jessica ....but sadly since she's not a child .....no one in the state of Georgia seems to care.
I've contacted APS on three occasions , a Canadian therapist with ties to another therapist in the States... I've down loaded a few of Vals videos to send to an advocate for autism in Georgia ...
But it seems my concerns are not enough....
But..hopefully ..some one will catch site of this abuse ....