Long rant...sorry.
This may be an unpopular post and not paint me in a good light to some ..but since no one knows me and I think I'm known for at least being truthful I'm going to say this only one time..because it's really just my opinion based on the last 26 years of living with and dealing with others who have autism, IDD in their home along with REAL diagnosed illness..such as cancer, lupus, diabetic , thyroid disease, dementia and bouts of depression in my family.
What bothers me is that whenever a " new" illness disease or the like becomes popular or gets a lot of attention all of a sudden everyone jumps on the band wagon..I see it a lot with autism , fibromyalgia, OCD, ADD, " chronic fatigue " ....and it seems it's always younger people who have worked for a short period of time decide they don't like working and then their lives become all about being sick.
Yet... My generation and older...we struggled through and still do. In my 40s I battled breast cancer while having lupus and still raised 4 children one autistic ....of course I had family support and wonderful husband.. But he worked 50 hours a week to support our family so a lot was on my plate.... That being said...one of the ladies in my Families of Autism group... Is right now 58 battling cancer recently diagnosed with early onset dementia and has two autistic boys at home...her house is clean , meals made, boys get to their appointments etc....
So...when I see Hannah with her sore shoulder and headaches ...unemployed Laying around with her cold cap on editing her 10 day Italy vacation photos while mommy makes her " salt free" dinner it makes me sick.
Both Hannah and Marlow have really taken to playing the victim ...Val has definitely influenced these ladies.
Hannah is desperate to have an illness....she had some mystery illness years ago that they hint at but don't mention by name....which leads me to believe it was probably self induced or self diagnosed ...we've caught her in so many lies she contradicts herself consistently....
Lactose intollerant, chronic fatigue, insomnia ..she even had a sleep study done twice ..., Claims food allergies , anxiety, Claims she can't sit for 2 minutes? Yet manages to sit on 10 hr. Drives to Disney, 9 hour flights to Italy.... No reason she cant sit at a desk. She can walk around Disney, Italy , stand for 4 hours at a Taylor Swift concert....she can stand at a check out.
All of her ailments are to get her out of working a job outside the house, get her sympathy to live rent free back at home in her old bedtoom, be lazy and have zero responsibility...play on social media put up her wish lists and get pity presents from strangers online she's conned playing sick...
She is a clear case of munchausen and Val munchausen by proxy..... They are both the same .
Bottom line is we all have stuff going on in our lives, we all have real issues, aches, pains, problems and still manage to have homes, lives, kids, responsibilities and some of us are twice Hannah's age with REAL health issues.... But she acts like she's on her death bed whenever that camera is rolling.
It's the people like HER who abuse the system ....crying wolf... Taxing the limited resources made for REAL people who need it, who have family, kids, mortgages, responsibilities ...not living with mommy going to concerts, Italy and Disney.
This may be an unpopular post and not paint me in a good light to some ..but since no one knows me and I think I'm known for at least being truthful I'm going to say this only one time..because it's really just my opinion based on the last 26 years of living with and dealing with others who have autism, IDD in their home along with REAL diagnosed illness..such as cancer, lupus, diabetic , thyroid disease, dementia and bouts of depression in my family.
What bothers me is that whenever a " new" illness disease or the like becomes popular or gets a lot of attention all of a sudden everyone jumps on the band wagon..I see it a lot with autism , fibromyalgia, OCD, ADD, " chronic fatigue " ....and it seems it's always younger people who have worked for a short period of time decide they don't like working and then their lives become all about being sick.
Yet... My generation and older...we struggled through and still do. In my 40s I battled breast cancer while having lupus and still raised 4 children one autistic ....of course I had family support and wonderful husband.. But he worked 50 hours a week to support our family so a lot was on my plate.... That being said...one of the ladies in my Families of Autism group... Is right now 58 battling cancer recently diagnosed with early onset dementia and has two autistic boys at home...her house is clean , meals made, boys get to their appointments etc....
So...when I see Hannah with her sore shoulder and headaches ...unemployed Laying around with her cold cap on editing her 10 day Italy vacation photos while mommy makes her " salt free" dinner it makes me sick.
Both Hannah and Marlow have really taken to playing the victim ...Val has definitely influenced these ladies.
Hannah is desperate to have an illness....she had some mystery illness years ago that they hint at but don't mention by name....which leads me to believe it was probably self induced or self diagnosed ...we've caught her in so many lies she contradicts herself consistently....
Lactose intollerant, chronic fatigue, insomnia ..she even had a sleep study done twice ..., Claims food allergies , anxiety, Claims she can't sit for 2 minutes? Yet manages to sit on 10 hr. Drives to Disney, 9 hour flights to Italy.... No reason she cant sit at a desk. She can walk around Disney, Italy , stand for 4 hours at a Taylor Swift concert....she can stand at a check out.
All of her ailments are to get her out of working a job outside the house, get her sympathy to live rent free back at home in her old bedtoom, be lazy and have zero responsibility...play on social media put up her wish lists and get pity presents from strangers online she's conned playing sick...
She is a clear case of munchausen and Val munchausen by proxy..... They are both the same .
Bottom line is we all have stuff going on in our lives, we all have real issues, aches, pains, problems and still manage to have homes, lives, kids, responsibilities and some of us are twice Hannah's age with REAL health issues.... But she acts like she's on her death bed whenever that camera is rolling.
It's the people like HER who abuse the system ....crying wolf... Taxing the limited resources made for REAL people who need it, who have family, kids, mortgages, responsibilities ...not living with mommy going to concerts, Italy and Disney.