Autistic Interpretations #10 Users, abuser, fakers and takers

[Susan830]

So the first 40 minutes the Val show....her hair, her grey, her eye surgery her thyroid disease ( I have thyroid issues too Val take some synthroid and get over it you're fine) her cheese phobia her texture issues...all while her schizophrenic side kick had a conversation out loud with coach Jess...playing both parts of course...( No ones talked or seen coach jess in almost 2 decades btw) but " crazy Jess" can conjure her up and have a full blown conversation ..again...NOT autism....but BAT tit crazy.

Jess obsessed over how many waterproof UNO decks she has in her room...even though Val has told her about 10 times..she doesn't have that kind...Jessica LOVES to argue!
Val and Hannah have their lap tops up, both their phones, all their devices so they can log into ALL their fake accounts and leave comments and delete what they don't like.

Notice there's only 8 comments left..

Val s " working " on another Q&A...which is really her attempt at damage control after reading here from REAL families , mothers and care providers of autistic families...who see the Brooks bullshit a mile away.
she's going to give her EXPERT advice!

I couldn't watch Hannah...I just want to slap the stupid out of her hypochondriac ass.

Spot on!!!!

 

[grammy1955]

So the first 40 minutes the Val show....her hair, her grey, her eye surgery her thyroid disease ( I have thyroid issues too Val take some synthroid and get over it you're fine) her cheese phobia her texture issues...all while her schizophrenic side kick had a conversation out loud with coach Jess...playing both parts of course...( No ones talked or seen coach jess in almost 2 decades btw) but " crazy Jess" can conjure her up and have a full blown conversation ..again...NOT autism....but BAT tit crazy.

Jess obsessed over how many waterproof UNO decks she has in her room...even though Val has told her about 10 times..she doesn't have that kind...Jessica LOVES to argue!
Val and Hannah have their lap tops up, both their phones, all their devices so they can log into ALL their fake accounts and leave comments and delete what they don't like.

Notice there's only 8 comments left..

Val s " working " on another Q&A...which is really her attempt at damage control after reading here from REAL families , mothers and care providers of autistic families...who see the Brooks bullshit a mile away.
she's going to give her EXPERT advice!

I couldn't watch Hannah...I just want to slap the stupid out of her hypochondriac ass.

I came to say, that live was the Valdawg show. Must be a sad life Dawg if all you can do is try to prove us wrong and make Q&A's to educate us.

 

[grammacloud]

Isn’t it sad that they sit and talk to a camera and people, asking and saying stupid things. Why would you sit there every Thursday and talk to people that want Jessica to say dumb things about her dog, or what should I name my new doll. They don’t even know who is behind the followers computers. It could 80 year old men, 35 year old women with obsessive compulsive disorder. It could be someone who gets off on seeing Jessica scratch herself. Kinda scary that you are putting your daughter out in the public eye and you don’t even know who the public is. All because you can’t get yourself out of the house and get a real job. Putting your handicapped daughter to work instead. But look how porn boy and nymphogirl make their living. Something bad is just around the corner, you don’t know who is following you, on the computer or in the car. Too much exposure, Val. Too many perverts out there. Have you, Hannah and Marlow taken self defense courses. You don’t only have to protect yourself but your blind daughter. Mighty risky way to earn a living.

 

[Dalmationdog]

Val is correct in saying routines are important ... Routines like a sleep schedule, hygiene schedule, education, therapy ...LEARNING all routines with purpose, structure ....eating chicken nugs, chocolate cake every day and Thursdays McDonald's with presents from the P.O...are NOT a crucial routine...in fact...it's the exact circumstance we as parents take the opportunity to TEACH change and practicing our COPING skills...to learn that change happens and you're going to okay..

Val...the " autism" mom and nurse doesn't know this???

35 years she's had Jessica and she doesn't know how to gently guide, teach, prepare her..HELP her cope with change of disappointment??

That's one of the first and most important things to work on! COPING skills!

Breathing techniques, patience, listening, learning HOW to express yourself, CALM..dealing with meltdowns, violence brought on by change ( fear)....weighted blanket...or a hundred other tools we teach our autistic children from the moment they have their first meltdown.

At 35...Jessica has no skills in coping...her violent tantrums are severe...I mean she still can't get past Abby....she is allowed to obsess and as we see it only gets worse.

The fact she asked this morning if her dogs love her says a lot.... She obviously overheard Val and Hannah talking ...probably Hannah complaining about how Jess treats the dogs...which is horrific...and no the dogs are terrified of her.

How many times do we hear Jessica scream at Darryl? Or Benny..... The scariest thing is when Jessica seethes...with that mean low voice......she's seriously derranged filled with hatred in those moments.

Val...has done no favours for Jessica ...her future is very bleak.

Val would be well served to read your take on routines. Perfect example of how she uses autism to excuse her poor parenting.
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Also on the “live” Val whines and whispers and says I guess it’s okay to say this. . . . And talks about Campbell having food issues.???????

So they are afraid to ask Campbell to use his bathroom scale and row machine? What is this relationship? I can see Val but Hannah? He’s her dad.

 

[grammacloud]

Val would be well served to read your take on routines. Perfect example of how she uses autism to excuse her poor parenting.
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So they are afraid to ask Campbell to use his bathroom scale and row machine? What is this relationship? I can see Val but Hannah? He’s her dad.

Maybe she was brainwashed against her dad by her mom. Divorce can bring out the ugly in people. Val has come to terms with the divorce but maybe Hannah never did. Val is using Campbell just like she uses the followers. For her own gain. Hannah is such a cold fish, she doesn’t realize what she has in her father. She is lucky he is 1. Around 2. Generous 3. Isn’t an alcoholic 4. Abusive. A lot of people think they have suucchhh a horrible life. Until the are left to deal with real life.

 

[WallFly]

I spoke with a counsellor who knows a few professionals who work at the ABS in Chattanooga...to inquire about various autism facilities and services available in and around that area...( This was last week)

There are quite a few outreach programs , therapist, ABA..etc...a good number of groups support programs all geared towards autism clients as well as family.

Seems..Val from Autistic Interpretations is known in the autism community ..and not for good reasons.
I guess it's not just us calling out the lies,manipulation and ABUSE of " autism" that come from the Brooks.

 

[HartofTexas]

I spoke with a counsellor who knows a few professionals who work at the ABS in Chattanooga...to inquire about various autism facilities and services available in and around that area...( This was last week)

There are quite a few outreach programs , therapist, ABA..etc...a good number of groups support programs all geared towards autism clients as well as family.

Seems..Val from Autistic Interpretations is known in the autism community ..and not for good reasons.
I guess it's not just us calling out the lies,manipulation and ABUSE of " autism" that come from the Brooks.

I have no doubt the agencies, just like the schools have herd of or experienced Val and have horror stories to tell

 

[WallFly]

Autistic Interpretations #11 Bessy's family is batshit crazy, manipulators & extremely lazy!

 

[FattyPatty2.0]

Val is correct in saying routines are important ... Routines like a sleep schedule, hygiene schedule, education, therapy ...LEARNING all routines with purpose, structure ....eating chicken nugs, chocolate cake every day and Thursdays McDonald's with presents from the P.O...are NOT a crucial routine...in fact...it's the exact circumstance we as parents take the opportunity to TEACH change and practicing our COPING skills...to learn that change happens and you're going to okay..

Val...the " autism" mom and nurse doesn't know this???

35 years she's had Jessica and she doesn't know how to gently guide, teach, prepare her..HELP her cope with change of disappointment??

That's one of the first and most important things to work on! COPING skills!

Breathing techniques, patience, listening, learning HOW to express yourself, CALM..dealing with meltdowns, violence brought on by change ( fear)....weighted blanket...or a hundred other tools we teach our autistic children from the moment they have their first meltdown.

At 35...Jessica has no skills in coping...her violent tantrums are severe...I mean she still can't get past Abby....she is allowed to obsess and as we see it only gets worse.

The fact she asked this morning if her dogs love her says a lot.... She obviously overheard Val and Hannah talking ...probably Hannah complaining about how Jess treats the dogs...which is horrific...and no the dogs are terrified of her.

How many times do we hear Jessica scream at Darryl? Or Benny..... The scariest thing is when Jessica seethes...with that mean low voice......she's seriously derranged filled with hatred in those moments.

Val...has done no favours for Jessica ...her future is very bleak.

Not a single favor. Doing everything/removing all obstacles/pandering so your child (adult child) doesn’t have to learn how to face adversity may seem noble, but it really just leaves them bereft of skills and tools to navigate issues when you’re gone. Momma’s not always going to be around. Scary days will come when she does pass on. What a nightmare
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Autistic Interpretations #11: Bessie’s always in charge, Hannah’s brows are extra large, and Val’s ass is big as a barge.

 

[WallFly]

Not a single favor. Doing everything/removing all obstacles/pandering so your child (adult child) doesn’t have to learn how to face adversity may seem noble, but it really just leaves them bereft of skills and tools to navigate issues when you’re gone. Momma’s not always going to be around. Scary days will come when she does pass on. What a nightmare

The scary thing is Val doesn't seem to care about Jessica s future ..as you said one day Val won't be here..then what?

My husband and I work today for our child's tomorrow. We have no intention of saddling our children with their autistic sibling when we are gone...its simply not fair for anyone.

We pay huge amounts of insurances for the future, have legal council, investments, our daughter does volunteer work in the adult faculty she will more than like stay in in her later years...it's assisted living specializing in autism...we want her to be very familiar with it...for later in life. Just like going to her swimming classes and physiotherapy...regular doctors and adult peer groups ....so she sees and gets to know it and is comfortable with the surroundings, people, routines so they will continue for her when the time comes.

The world will still be here long after my husband and I are gone...and our autistic daughter deserves to have a good life still! Family will always be close but it's our responsibility to ensure our daughter is SAFE, has the means and tools to adjust to changes , coping skills...the finances and trusted lawyer to work with our other children to fulfil the arrangements we have worked on for years....so all the children can have their lives and no ones left unsure what to do.

Val can't even teach Jessica how to cope with not having McDonald's....Val doesn't even have her own home...she's living out of boxes still.at her ex 's, Jessica has no coping skills, no peers, no community involvement, just the lies this make believe life of ...she's a nurse , Keeley is her girlfriend, she's buying a house with a pool in Disney...and buying a car that drives itself......

It's heart breaking seeing that Jessica has no future ...how Val sleeps at night I have no idea..

 

[HartofTexas]

The scary thing is Val doesn't seem to care about Jessica s future ..as you said one day Val won't be here..then what?

My husband and I work today for our child's tomorrow. We have no intention of saddling our children with their autistic sibling when we are gone...its simply not fair for anyone.

We pay huge amounts of insurances for the future, have legal council, investments, our daughter does volunteer work in the adult faculty she will more than like stay in in her later years...it's assisted living specializing in autism...we want her to be very familiar with it...for later in life. Just like going to her swimming classes and physiotherapy...regular doctors and adult peer groups ....so she sees and gets to know it and is comfortable with the surroundings, people, routines so they will continue for her when the time comes.

The world will still be here long after my husband and I are gone...and our autistic daughter deserves to have a good life still! Family will always be close but it's our responsibility to ensure our daughter is SAFE, has the means and tools to adjust to changes , coping skills...the finances and trusted lawyer to work with our other children to fulfil the arrangements we have worked on for years....so all the children can have their lives and no ones left unsure what to do.

Val can't even teach Jessica how to cope with not having McDonald's....Val doesn't even have her own home...she's living out of boxes still.at her ex 's, Jessica has no coping skills, no peers, no community involvement, just the lies this make believe life of ...she's a nurse , Keeley is her girlfriend, she's buying a house with a pool in Disney...and buying a car that drives itself......

It's heart breaking seeing that Jessica has no future ...how Val sleeps at night I have no idea..

It is extremely sad and totally selfish of Val. She is using Jess for her own gain, exploiting and neglecting her future

 

[rbooth61]

Val would be well served to read your take on routines. Perfect example of how she uses autism to excuse her poor parenting.
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So they are afraid to ask Campbell to use his bathroom scale and row machine? What is this relationship? I can see Val but Hannah? He’s her dad.

I find it weird to say she had to purchase a truck because in a car it bothers her shoulder but a few minutes later she says she uses her fathers rowing machine. Like how can you exercise with a rowing machine with a bad shoulder and neck . The constant lies we catch them in constantly. I also find it odd after a Live so few comments left. That means people are finally getting it. But I am sure there was a lot a negative comment surrounding Jessica’s fiasco in the restaurant. But really what ever made them think taking her to an Indian restaurant wasn’t going to be less than a flop. We all know they did it just to record her at her worse to get people to watch. Let’s not spare her dignity when they can make money off it !!
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The scary thing is Val doesn't seem to care about Jessica s future ..as you said one day Val won't be here..then what?

My husband and I work today for our child's tomorrow. We have no intention of saddling our children with their autistic sibling when we are gone...its simply not fair for anyone.

We pay huge amounts of insurances for the future, have legal council, investments, our daughter does volunteer work in the adult faculty she will more than like stay in in her later years...it's assisted living specializing in autism...we want her to be very familiar with it...for later in life. Just like going to her swimming classes and physiotherapy...regular doctors and adult peer groups ....so she sees and gets to know it and is comfortable with the surroundings, people, routines so they will continue for her when the time comes.

The world will still be here long after my husband and I are gone...and our autistic daughter deserves to have a good life still! Family will always be close but it's our responsibility to ensure our daughter is SAFE, has the means and tools to adjust to changes , coping skills...the finances and trusted lawyer to work with our other children to fulfil the arrangements we have worked on for years....so all the children can have their lives and no ones left unsure what to do.

Val can't even teach Jessica how to cope with not having McDonald's....Val doesn't even have her own home...she's living out of boxes still.at her ex 's, Jessica has no coping skills, no peers, no community involvement, just the lies this make believe life of ...she's a nurse , Keeley is her girlfriend, she's buying a house with a pool in Disney...and buying a car that drives itself......

It's heart breaking seeing that Jessica has no future ...how Val sleeps at night I have no idea..

Wallfly you’re truly the example of amazing parents. Looking out for your daughter not only now but for her future. The community involvement by all in your family to secure your daughter is in a better place now and in the future is admirable.
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Oh Val was in the eating out video, smacking and eating with her mouth open and giving Jess pity as usual
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Mature, grown up behavior???? Ummmmmm no never
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I think it was from previous years
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I think comments about him have been blocked, one I put I can see, but think it’s blocked from others seeing
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Jess is not mentally capable of making a decision and asking her any question and her saying yes or no does NOT make her capable or responsible.

I have put up numerous comments about porn boy on YouTube. I know yesterday I did after someone commented saying Madison was still busy going to college to be a doctor. I can see it still on my end but I know it’s blocked from being viewed. Because we all know Allyson and Kate would be all over those comments denying the truth. I did recently slip one in on Val’s travel page which I know got viewed but got me blocked. I think it was recently (screenshot) and posted here so I am hoping it had some impact . Same with instagram you can comment but they block those from view.

 

[Twiddle]

I went on to the live for a few seconds, just in time to see Jess slapping Val’s face and then quickly saying, “Don’t do that,” - seems like she’s been told not to do it, otherwise why would she say that? I know they’ve had a lot of negative comments about her face slapping, so maybe she’s been told not to do it on camera. I didn’t watch it all and will definitely not be wasting an hour watching the replay, but I saw Jess discard what was in the big box as she felt all around for cards. When will these people wise up and stop wasting their money?!

 

[Susan830]

The last video posted of Jess opening gifts at her Grandparents house from a couple weeks ago, right on the ball there, shows Val in a tee shirt advertising Caroline's Cart!!! She should be ashamed of herself. She puts her able bodied daughter in one every chance she gets and leaves some person who may not be able to get one out of luck! How dare any of you put her in one! Just like the stupid expensive stroller when you went to the race! Val do you enjoy making your daughter look like a deranged idiot? She is pretty sad looking as it is with the hunched back, shuffling, gray hair and eyes that roll back in her head while she talks to and answers herself!!! And that part is her schizophrenia Val, not autism. People are wising up to you and your schemes....we are all watching and waiting for your house of cards to tumble down and it will!!

 

[misty.]

The scary thing is Val doesn't seem to care about Jessica s future ..as you said one day Val won't be here..then what?

My husband and I work today for our child's tomorrow. We have no intention of saddling our children with their autistic sibling when we are gone...its simply not fair for anyone.

We pay huge amounts of insurances for the future, have legal council, investments, our daughter does volunteer work in the adult faculty she will more than like stay in in her later years...it's assisted living specializing in autism...we want her to be very familiar with it...for later in life. Just like going to her swimming classes and physiotherapy...regular doctors and adult peer groups ....so she sees and gets to know it and is comfortable with the surroundings, people, routines so they will continue for her when the time comes.

The world will still be here long after my husband and I are gone...and our autistic daughter deserves to have a good life still! Family will always be close but it's our responsibility to ensure our daughter is SAFE, has the means and tools to adjust to changes , coping skills...the finances and trusted lawyer to work with our other children to fulfil the arrangements we have worked on for years....so all the children can have their lives and no ones left unsure what to do.

Val can't even teach Jessica how to cope with not having McDonald's....Val doesn't even have her own home...she's living out of boxes still.at her ex 's, Jessica has no coping skills, no peers, no community involvement, just the lies this make believe life of ...she's a nurse , Keeley is her girlfriend, she's buying a house with a pool in Disney...and buying a car that drives itself......

It's heart breaking seeing that Jessica has no future ...how Val sleeps at night I have no idea..

WallFly you are the kind of mother that changes the world for their kids. Compassionate Caring Happy. Setting gentle boundaries and working together. I've actually never known such a disgrace of a woman as Val. She has failed all 3 of her children terribly. And all for Jessica. Even now,the importance of Jessica comes before Hannah and Madison. Why?! Guilt is the only thing I can think off. Whatever she did during her pregnancy caused Jessica's disabilities and this is her way of trying to make up for it.give in.never say no.take her out constantly. She's such a mess. She's certainly ruined that whole family. Completely destroyed it.

 

[WallFly]

WallFly you are the kind of mother that changes the world for their kids. Compassionate Caring Happy. Setting gentle boundaries and working together. I've actually never known such a disgrace of a woman as Val. She has failed all 3 of her children terribly. And all for Jessica. Even now,the importance of Jessica comes before Hannah and Madison. Why?! Guilt is the only thing I can think off. Whatever she did during her pregnancy caused Jessica's disabilities and this is her way of trying to make up for it.give in.never say no.take her out constantly. She's such a mess. She's certainly ruined that whole family. Completely destroyed it.

Thank you for the kind words.

It's funny because there is a guilt that happens.we blame ourselves play the what did I do wrong game....the day my daughter was diagnosed I was sure it was all my fault ...and We live with that...but...I went to therapy as did my husband..we worked through those emotions because we had to focus on the now..the future...and raise ALL of our children.

I think that's the first step ....so I do understand the guilt ...every now and then...it peeks in , again...but we deal with it. And THAT'S the key to deal cope and continue.

That expression it takes a village to raise a child is true. Val has made Jessica's disability about Val. That's the biggest issue. Val is a narcissist through and through ...and she can't put anyone's needs above her own.
I'm certain MANY MANY professionals have addressed various treatments and paths for Val to consider for Jessuca...with experts in their field but Val is lazy and gets called out b because she doesnt follow through ...it's work and Val is the laziest person I've ever seen...

Val s energy is spent making excuses and planning Disney Vacations ....Vals next Q&A is in the works....as she reads here and takes notes to address.. " I get asked a lot" she doesn't get asked...she and her crew of dysfunctional delete 90% of the comments ..she and Hannah read here...and attempt damage control.

We see you Val.( Not just us)

 

[grammacloud]

Everyone ok with Wallfly’s title. Autistic Interpretations #11 Bessy’s family is batshit crazy, manipulators & extremely lazy

 

[winnie woo]

Val doesn’t answer hard questions..like why do u keep insisting she’s worried and filled with anxiety when she says she isn’t. Why do you sleep with your adult daughter? Does Jess still have bathroom accidents when she anxiety riddled. Why does Jessica’s mannerless behaviour hold no consequences?Why is campbell treated like an outsider in his own home? Where do you see Jess as a member of the community when you’re gone. Do you really think Jessica’s siblings should carry your burden. Why don’t you follow up on some of your blog comments Val, when u didn’t seem like such a liar. Why do u block and delete comments from anyone who disagrees with you or gives an honest opinion. Is your childish behaviour just an act to attract vulnerable, disabled followers, who will send gifts and money just to be part of the joyful life they think u have.

 

[888MHBB]

I’ve noticed that Susan Ayer hasn’t posted on any of the videos lately, she is always on the livestream. Anyone else notice this. She is the one that “loves them soooo much” and sends boxes of stuff (when she has the money). Someone told her about this site a while ago on her FB page and she blocked them. Wonder if she finally read this and have given up on the family?

 

[Susan830]

I’ve noticed that Susan Ayer hasn’t posted on any of the videos lately, she is always on the livestream. Anyone else notice this. She is the one that “loves them soooo much” and sends boxes of stuff (when she has the money). Someone told her about this site a while ago on her FB page and she blocked them. Wonder if she finally read this and have given up on the family?

Or they blocked Susan!!! She was becoming quite the pest about recipes she sent! Asking many times during the lives especially.