savefloss
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As a parent and teacher it’s never ok to publicly “call out” a parent like Carly did..in front of the children too. She could have responded in many different ways, such as calmly explaining that she has skin that is a bit different to other people- no need to be scared or by just completely ignoring the situation and allowing the parent to parent…Yes, agree that it’s horrible. But no matter how good our parenting, kids are kids and will say the wrong thing sometimes. Maybe the mother will speak to them later and next time they’ll do better. She doesn’t know their life or how they’ve been raised. We try to do all the “right” things, but my kids will still comment on something if it’s out of the norm for them. Books and social media aren’t the same as seeing something in real life.
I try very hard to teach my children to be anti racist, anti classist, accepting, kind etc etc but at the end of the day, my 4 year old is never going to be super worldly- the other day she pointed at a man in a wheel chair and asked him what happened to him. He very kindly did not take offence and explained he very sadly lost his leg in a car accident and reminded her to wear her seat belt. Carly has an insane victim and warrior complex and is now taking on children? And parents…when she isn’t one her self either. I think she needs to practice some mindfulness or something