Athomewithliv #1 thoughts?

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She chooses something that’s going to get views and runs with it. Traumatic birth, PD, autism, adhd, depression, homelessness…
 
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I think like other people have said she might already be pregnant. Her floaty clothes and pyjamas in her latest reel look to be lifted slightly at the tummy.
Really do think it’s daft though when she struggles so much already with Arlo. If you’ve got a child who you can’t get to go to nursery, who hits you etc. and no support network, how on earth will she manage with a baby in the mix too when her partner is at work?
 
I think like other people have said she might already be pregnant. Her floaty clothes and pyjamas in her latest reel look to be lifted slightly at the tummy.
Really do think it’s daft though when she struggles so much already with Arlo. If you’ve got a child who you can’t get to go to nursery, who hits you etc. and no support network, how on earth will she manage with a baby in the mix too when her partner is at work?
Not to mention all of her mental health issues and apparent birth trauma and PND. It’s not up to anyone else to judge when you have a second baby I realise that, and lots of parents have MH barriers and are fine, but she openly admits she isn’t and that she can’t cope. Not to mention, isn’t she about to be homeless? And her fella has about the same mental capacity as a jacket potato.
 
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She's still banging on shared ownership vs. Reno and how she can't cope with a reno. She's said she has £350,000 to play with in April. There are plenty of 3 beds in her area for that price. Some beautifully decorated ones too! A reno doesn't have to be a huge extension, it could just be a lack of paint. She's already proved herself capable of that ffs!

Fact is she can't afford a new build unless it's shared ownership and if she does that she's still got to pay some form of rent which clearly she doesn't want to do! 🤦‍♀️
 
I used to like her but her vlogs have become painfully dull. Also, has the Shan friendship thing fizzled out? Have not heard either of them mention each other in a while now
 
I may have misunderstood the latest video but it looks like she leaves arlo alone in the bath whilst she gets into her pyjamas and does a couple of things - I know people will think this is over the top but I’d never leave a 3 year old in the bath unattended even if it is just for a short time.
 
I may have misunderstood the latest video but it looks like she leaves arlo alone in the bath whilst she gets into her pyjamas and does a couple of things - I know people will think this is over the top but I’d never leave a 3 year old in the bath unattended even if it is just for a short time.
My little boy is 5 in a few days and I would never!
 
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She's always saying how her son is always "2 hours late to nursery".

If its taking her 2 hours to get ready and him out the house, either set an alarm clock earlier or change the morning schedule. She's going to be screwed when he starts school in September, unless she decidea homeschool.

Yes he may be SEN or whatever title she's giving him for content, but I know a couple of mums who have SEN kids and they manage to get ready for school on time?!
 
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She's always saying how her son is always "2 hours late to nursery".

If its taking her 2 hours to get ready and him out the house, either set an alarm clock earlier or change the morning schedule. She's going to be screwed when he starts school in September, unless she decidea homeschool.

Yes he may be SEN or whatever title she's giving him for content, but I know a couple of mums who have SEN kids and they manage to get ready for school on time?!
She doesn't do anything to assist A from what I can see. He runs away from you, put him on reins so she gets safe freedom and can move his body safely. He won't go to nursery, find a SEN nursery, or send him afternoons only. He dumps toy buckets on your head, lose the aesthetic and don't put toys in buckets. That kid must live in a constant state of disregulation, it's mean to him.
 
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I think it’s a bit naive that she thinks when she moves house it will end her depression.
 
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I think it’s a bit naive that she thinks when she moves house it will end her depression.
I can understand the outlook of a new start to help tackle your depression but the fact she thinks it'll just disappear just confirms my belief she's using the claim of depression for content.
 
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In her most recent reel, she calls herself a "full time working, stay at home mum" is it just me that finds that phrase she's used a bit of an oxymoron.

To me (and this is coming from a sahm), a sahm is someone whose primary "job" is to look after the children and some of household duties RATHER than work a job to bring home money. There's nothing stopping or wrong for a sahm earning money through a side hustle or part time work but it would still mean that you probably spend more time being a stay at home parent over being at work, but saying you supposedly work full time and a sahm makes no sense to me?! Just because she "works" from home and she's a mum she's chucking that word salad about. 🤷🏽‍♀️
 
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You’re other a full time working mum or a sahm I don’t think you can be both. She’s a stay at home lazy mum that chucks out some content for SM
 
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Taking Arlo out of nursery doesn't seem like the wisest move.
 
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They’ve finally bought their cookie cutter new build
To be fair with her, getting onto the property ladder isn't easy, especially if you also need to do up somewhere so it's added expense. So while I would never go for a new build, I can see why people do.
 
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