Athomewithliv #1 thoughts?

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Does anyone think the reason her son is constantly ill because she is obviously a hypochondriac and constantly literally sterilising the house so he has literally no immunity building up?!
 
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Does anyone think the reason her son is constantly ill because she is obviously a hypochondriac and constantly literally sterilising the house so he has literally no immunity building up?!
In my 9 plus years of parenting I've never steamed a teddy. Occasion vac them over or would throw in the wash.
 
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In my 9 plus years of parenting I've never steamed a teddy. Occasion vac them over or would throw in the wash.
In my nearly 4 years of parenting, I've only washed her favourite cuddly toy once. 😂🙈 I'm obviously a terrible parent.
 
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In my nearly 4 years of parenting, I've only washed her favourite cuddly toy once. 😂🙈 I'm obviously a terrible parent.
We've only washed the favourite teddy and that's after sickness or an accident! Only cleaned her toys when we've had friends over and they went in mouths! What an awful mum I am not to do it every week! 😆
 
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She is deluded! I dont disagree with the crazy high house prices but she's a first time buyer on effectively one salary as she is self employed and can't currently be considered for a mortgage. Yet she's looking at detached 4 bed new builds!

You can't have everything you want straight away. She'd have been far better off buying a small two bed (like she currently rents) this year to get onto the ladder and then moving to a bigger home in another year or so!

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I don’t know where she’s looking, but £530k isn’t bad for a 4 bed detached house. Where I live a house that size would be at least £650/£700k. Totally agree with you though. Nobody can afford to buy a house that size as their first house. Buy somewhere cheaper & work your way up

She is deluded! I dont disagree with the crazy high house prices but she's a first time buyer on effectively one salary as she is self employed and can't currently be considered for a mortgage. Yet she's looking at detached 4 bed new builds!

You can't have everything you want straight away. She'd have been far better off buying a small two bed (like she currently rents) this year to get onto the ladder and then moving to a bigger home in another year or so!

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I think her and her boyfriend are very immature. I mean, he doesn’t seem like he has two brain cells to rub together and she just lives on a different planet.
 
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I don’t know where she’s looking, but £530k isn’t bad for a 4 bed detached house. Where I live a house that size would be at least £650/£700k. Totally agree with you though. Nobody can afford to buy a house that size as their first house. Buy somewhere cheaper & work your way up
It's not impossible to buy a house that value as a first time buyer, but it definitely isn't common! However she is definitely being unrealistic and probably living beyond their means to try maintain a mortgage for somewhere like that. But she's probably too busy thinking of all the crappy content she can make up with having a house like that to care and also, society, "influencers" in particular are all definitely now all very Verruca Salt "I want it now". (am I showing my age with th to reference? 😂)

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So she’s tried to cash in on the SEN thing (much like her depression, trauma, ptsd, adhd) and they’ve said they won’t do a referral because he doesn’t show any signs 👀🙄
 
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IMO he has presented as a normal toddler of the age he was at whatever given time and that she has struggled desperately to cope- so went down the there must be something ‘wrong’ with him route with little hesitation. What concerns me most is that she has struggled this much with him and yet flippantly speaks of wanting another one soon. I call a 2025 pregnancy for Liv.
 
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So she’s tried to cash in on the SEN thing (much like her depression, trauma, ptsd, adhd) and they’ve said they won’t do a referral because he doesn’t show any signs 👀🙄
Oh really?! I don't think his speech is great. That might account for his frustrations, he's quite a handful... Always clobbering someone over the head with something. Her fella looks like he cannot cope at all!
I reckon she's pregnant already. Constantly going on about Christmas will be different and they'll be 4 for Christmas. Surely you'd know that you might not get pregnant in 3 months, even if you started TTC on New year's Day, it's highly likely that they'd still be a family of 3 next Christmas.
She's incredibly immature. Used to like her but she's silly and childish
 
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Oh really?! I don't think his speech is great. That might account for his frustrations, he's quite a handful... Always clobbering someone over the head with something. Her fella looks like he cannot cope at all!
I reckon she's pregnant already. Constantly going on about Christmas will be different and they'll be 4 for Christmas. Surely you'd know that you might not get pregnant in 3 months, even if you started TTC on New year's Day, it's highly likely that they'd still be a family of 3 next Christmas.
She's incredibly immature. Used to like her but she's silly and childish
Yep I think she's already pregnant too. Interested to see how she manages if she is!
 
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how in the actual hell is she making the equivalent of a good full time wage from her social medial? i’m really baffled. she puts out the bare minimum and doesn’t have an large following- is there an Only Fans side hustle or something? the math in her latest video ain’t mathing but then again i don’t follow her on her other platforms so am i missing something?
 
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Oh really?! I don't think his speech is great. That might account for his frustrations, he's quite a handful... Always clobbering someone over the head with something. Her fella looks like he cannot cope at all!
I reckon she's pregnant already. Constantly going on about Christmas will be different and they'll be 4 for Christmas. Surely you'd know that you might not get pregnant in 3 months, even if you started TTC on New year's Day, it's highly likely that they'd still be a family of 3 next Christmas.
She's incredibly immature. Used to like her but she's silly and childish
I think a lot of his behaviour is due to her clueless fella and her "gentle parenting" approach which is no boundaries and too much pandering to Arlo and him getting his own way! You can absolutely be a gentle parent but kids need boundaries!
 
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I think a lot of his behaviour is due to her clueless fella and her "gentle parenting" approach which is no boundaries and too much pandering to Arlo and him getting his own way! You can absolutely be a gentle parent but kids need boundaries!
She's not gentle parenting. The fundamental thing was gentle parenting is boundaries.
She's permissive. I gentle parent as much as I can and I'm quite firm and strict. It's more about natural consequences and holding your firm boundaries so your child knows where they stand.
 
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Forgot to add - I think shes 100% already pregnant now - by the way she said .. along the lines of "either way we will be moving in April before we have a baby" - she is pregnant and the baby is due in the Summer - calling it right now.
 
“living a Mum’s worst nightmare at the moment” - I’m not trying to belittle her/disregard her feelings but surely every mum in the world knows that not being sure where you’ll move to in April is not a Mum’s worst nightmare. Stressful? Sure. But when there are Mum’s losing their children, or whose children are seriously ill it puts things in to perspective. Before anyone says it, I’m not saying she isn’t allowed to feel stressed or worried or sad, they’re all valid feelings, I just hate the way she’s captioned it “a mum’s worst nightmare”.
 
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