they’ve spent a whole year together now and they still haven’t done anything as a couple to have as just ‘their’ memory or to look back on or where he’s even put in any effort, not because it’s expected but because he actually wants to.
every single trip/holiday they have been on has involved his mates being present on it at some point and DJ booths.
his birthday they got the train into London at 3pm on a Sunday where he was watching the football on his phone as they ate their meal then came straight back home. Romantic scenes.
She tagged along on her own birthday to Amsterdam to watch his mates DJ and have dinner with them.
they spent Christmas Day eating bacon and eggs off a cardboard box and she excused the lack of Xmas day celebrations as they moved in that week but it’s a new build, not a renovation project, there was a brand new kitchen to make a Christmas dinner together or do something remotely Christmassy.
Valentines day (their first one) she didn’t get so much as a card until the evening time where he had clearly bought the last bunch of supermarket flowers in the shop for her and because they were that awful, she even had to mix them with a gifted bouquet of roses from a brand she works with to make them look like something worth putting on Instagram -even she was embarrassed it seems but had to prove he eventually bought her something.
then there was the number of times he’s left her alone in events like creamfields whilst she wanders aimlessly around the place pretending to have fun on her own coz there was no room for her behind the DJ booths and he quite literally chose to be there with his mates rather than his girlfriend at that point, clearly.
oh and guess what…. Still no Instagram grid post that he has actually uploaded and tagged her in…. But he can do it for all his DJ mates and himself and this is ok by her standards?
why wouldn’t he want to upload some pictures of him and his girlfriend from the summer or something? it’s laughable when you think of it… and this is only the stuff I can remember/she thinks is acceptable to put online!