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Ok but is anyone else honestly concerned for these kids or is it just banter? Cos this sort of rage isn't normal towards young children. Coming from an extremely abusive childhood this isn't the flex in parenting or even personality that she thinks it is. I cant believe she shares so aggressively. This isnt just 'banter' to me, this rings alarm bells. This really feels like pure rage. Why don't any of her friends or family intervene/help/support? Or have they? Has she ever considered taking a parenting class and learning how to parent? These are small humans who need to learn amd grow, they do this by testing boundaries, running around, playing, being messy. My kids would have revolted if I'd put them in prams at that age too, far worse than the few small issues she's listed here. These are normal behaviours of that age group ash! Please do yourself and your girls a favour and chill out a bit, go seek some therapy, take up some realaxation/mindfulness and if that's not enough, take some valium babe's.
I am telling you now this woman is a raging witch. This kid is going to absolutely cop it.
Some of the outrageous tit she has posted regarding these kids is insane.
The worst for me was those daycare stories when the child wet her pants and she was just pure rage posting, it was very scary. I have zero doubt she is verbally abusive, uncaring & evil to her children.
 
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What is Claude wearing to the footy? Seriously, some French getup? And what 3 and 4yo wants to sit & watch the footy? They don’t even understand the game. And those bloody glasses Ash, I don’t care if they cost $10,000 or whatever, they are seriously weird
 
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Ok but is anyone else honestly concerned for these kids or is it just banter? Cos this sort of rage isn't normal towards young children. Coming from an extremely abusive childhood this isn't the flex in parenting or even personality that she thinks it is. I cant believe she shares so aggressively. This isnt just 'banter' to me, this rings alarm bells. This really feels like pure rage. Why don't any of her friends or family intervene/help/support? Or have they? Has she ever considered taking a parenting class and learning how to parent? These are small humans who need to learn amd grow, they do this by testing boundaries, running around, playing, being messy. My kids would have revolted if I'd put them in prams at that age too, far worse than the few small issues she's listed here. These are normal behaviours of that age group ash! Please do yourself and your girls a favour and chill out a bit, go seek some therapy, take up some realaxation/mindfulness and if that's not enough, take some valium babe's.
She has no friends. It’s normal behaviour for a 3yo. She’s bleeping crazy
 
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Sorry but her dot pointing what her kid did was no reason to leave? Little kids can obvoously be annoying when you take them out but you still should because how do you think they learn to be out?! They miss out on life being locked in a house or pram 24/7 and being aggressively escorted home because she spilled some sauce and touched random surfaces. I didn't see one thing on its own or collectively that I would leave an event over. Shes an absolute psycho.
 
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Wow so she spilt some sauce and didn’t wash her hands! Wowwwwww I’m mind blown! Why didn’t she just wipe her hands with an antibacterial wipe if she was that concerned and who cares that she spilt sauce she’s bloody 3!!! If she didn’t dress them in designer clothes you wouldn’t care as much. This woman is bleeping unhinged and an absolute mental case! Who takes two young children to a footy game and expects them to behave! They woukd be bored out of their brain!
 
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I did the same thing last year and took my 3 and 4 year olds to the footy. We ended up leaving at quarter time and I was PISSED… at myself for thinking it was a good idea. They didn’t do anything “wrong”, it just wasn’t the right environment for their ages. I guess the difference between Ash and I is that I am capable of self-reflection and recognising that maybe I ducked up and should blame myself, rather than take it out on the kids for just doing what normal kids do 🤷🏻‍♀️

(Also I’d like it on the record that neither of my kids were in a pram!)
 
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Sorry but her dot pointing what her kid did was no reason to leave? Little kids can obvoously be annoying when you take them out but you still should because how do you think they learn to be out?! They miss out on life being locked in a house or pram 24/7 and being aggressively escorted home because she spilled some sauce and touched random surfaces. I didn't see one thing on its own or collectively that I would leave an event over. Shes an absolute psycho.
Ash has chronic ocd I believe, I find it very sad actually because the kids have to live by her germ phobic rules, she’d have scrubbed that kid like there is no tomorrow when she got her home. I think this is the reason the kids are always strapped in to the prams and kept inside, ocd can be very debilitating on the families.
 
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I did the same thing last year and took my 3 and 4 year olds to the footy. We ended up leaving at quarter time and I was PISSED… at myself for thinking it was a good idea. They didn’t do anything “wrong”, it just wasn’t the right environment for their ages. I guess the difference between Ash and I is that I am capable of self-reflection and recognising that maybe I ducked up and should blame myself, rather than take it out on the kids for just doing what normal kids do 🤷🏻‍♀️

(Also I’d like it on the record that neither of my kids were in a pram!)
My kids are a little older and we take them to 1-2 games a year. It's always known between my husband and I that there's a good chance we're not watching much of the game and/or we're gonna have to leave early.

It's not an amazing environment for kids, especially these days because it's so bleeping loud with music and ads blaring.

It looks like she was in the MCC so she's probably just crappy Claude was "playing up" in a place where she wanted her to be seen and not heard.
 
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Sorry my post earlier about you should take out kids was talking about Ash in general and not just her ridiculous list of reasons why she left the game. When I said you should take kids out so they can learn to be out in public was aimed at the fact that apparently her two kids ruin absolutely everything all the time when really they're just being kids. Kids touch tit, kids spill tit. If my kids were being absolute tubes and screaming and carrying on I'd absolutely leave a footy game too. But that list she shared just makes it seem like ASH can't cope being out with kids and wants them gone all the time. She's a monster for leaving the game purely because one of the girls could have farted and they would have been skull dragged out of the game and man handled back into the car.

I would hate for anybody here to think my post was aimed at their situation because guaranteed you are the mother Ash wishes she could be. And sometimes kids just lose it and we have to miss out and leave, its hapoened to the best of us. This wasn't the case at all last night, Ash just expects her kids to sit down and shut up and if they don't then that's it for them.
 
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Sorry my post earlier about you should take out kids was talking about Ash in general and not just her ridiculous list of reasons why she left the game. When I said you should take kids out so they can learn to be out in public was aimed at the fact that apparently her two kids ruin absolutely everything all the time when really they're just being kids. Kids touch tit, kids spill tit. If my kids were being absolute tubes and screaming and carrying on I'd absolutely leave a footy game too. But that list she shared just makes it seem like ASH can't cope being out with kids and wants them gone all the time. She's a monster for leaving the game purely because one of the girls could have farted and they would have been skull dragged out of the game and man handled back into the car.

I would hate for anybody here to think my post was aimed at their situation because guaranteed you are the mother Ash wishes she could be. And sometimes kids just lose it and we have to miss out and leave, its hapoened to the best of us. This wasn't the case at all last night, Ash just expects her kids to sit down and shut up and if they don't then that's it for them.
Oh no, we definitely know what you mean.
Our normal kid experiences aren’t like these things Ash is feeling, she’s next level.
My kids have driven me insane in public on many occasions, it’s what kids do. It’s like she just has zero tolerance or patience for those girls, kids are not quiet & perfect 100% of the time, she needs a bleeping reality check, many people would kill to be in her shoes, being a mother.
 
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I am telling you now this woman is a raging witch. This kid is going to absolutely cop it.
Some of the outrageous tit she has posted regarding these kids is insane.
The worst for me was those daycare stories when the child wet her pants and she was just pure rage posting, it was very scary. I have zero doubt she is verbally abusive, uncaring & evil to her children.
Verbal abuse is just as bad a physical abuse and is so damaging especially when these girls are so little.
 
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Once again, im very concerned for those girls after this mornings stories recapping their 'walk' to kindy. Imagine being so cross at your child that you swear at them in the street and 'yeet' their scooter over your own front fence, in front of neighbours, amd then force them to walk the way while crying their eyes out. These girls must be so unregulated in their emotions. I really think she needs to go and see a specialist about this anger, she said herself that she cannot control the rage. That's so concerning to me.
And if this is what you post for the whole world to see, what are you doing/saying when the camera's off?
 
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She wants them in the pram when it suits her. Then she doesn’t want them in the pram. Poor confused kids. She’s a bleeping disgrace. You are dead set right, she tells everyone about throwing the scooter over the fence cos she can’t regulate her temper tantrum, how does she act behind closed doors? She has a tanty meltdown at 39yo but she won’t tolerate her “toddlers” at 3 and 4 to do the same.
 
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I have had some moments where I’ve lost my tit and thought afterwards, wow, you need to calm the duck down and sort yourself out. And then apologised and repaired with my kids. It’s usually when I’m overstimulated, stressed out, just bleeping having a hard time. It’s usually been after a hard week/month so I get the frustration. But holy tit, pick your battles. If you can’t carry the bags, strap them to the pram so she can go in or drive there. Of course she wants to go in the pram, she’s a 3 year old who sees her pram and wants to go in it. Just drive if it’s a battle. Kids are stubborn and sometimes want something even if it doesn’t make sense. But Ash can’t seem to look past what she needs to do/wants to do/wants things to look like. Sorry but kids and life in general don’t always so what you want.
Take some time to calm down, pick your battles, get some goddamn therapy or medication because others are right, if this is what is posted publicly, it’s a worry what happens in private.
I’m ashamed of myself when I’ve lost my tit, I’m actually going back to therapy now to get some better strategies as the last few years have pushed me to my limit at times.
 
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