thegirlscout
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These are so horrendous just to warn you. But this feels so wrong that it should be illegal? He’s not even denying it and it’s been a few days so I would hazard a guess that this is all true...
Hardly offensive, when the actually disturbing things are so much worse than that simple word!!
I read some tea on LSA and apparently Elizabeth would contact his whores often and block them on his channels and sometimes pretend she's him breaking up with them. No clue how accurate, but was interesting.
Yes, my ex-husband. He mentioned something about being a 'Master' right at the beginning of our relationship, I shrugged it off and said I wasn't into that, and thought that was the end of it. But once we got married, after living together for three years, he became more and more controlling and I got more and more worn down by it, until I hit 30, had a bit of an epiphany, and told him I wanted a divorce. Which did not go down well, but I got rid of the bugger eventually. After we split up he went full-on BDSM lifestyle. One of our mutual friends once contacted me in horror to say he'd put a 'seeking' advert up on FetLife looking for a maschoistic submissive that contained the words 'You will need to ensure you have someone to take care of you for a few days after you leave. The only thing I can promise you is that you won't be hospitalised.' I heard last year he'd died of a heart attack at 55 and I can't say I was sorry.Has anyone been unnerved while reading all this that they have seen some of these traits in someone they know/once knew?
Cannibalism and wanting to physically hurt someone like that (not like its a spank etc !!) is not a fkn kink.is anyone else into kink here? bc I definitely think his messages were extreme but there’s a lot of people who would be into that and idk... I guess assuming it’s all consensual it doesn’t really seem that bad to me?
And like Armie, Graham went after her cause she was mentally very unwell. All she wanted was a boyfriend and to be loved. Literally the only thing that was on the news at the time here and it was on the BBC, Sky News everyday around when he was convicted.This case and the similar stories shared here are so upsetting. I was listening to a podcast on a famous murder in Ireland and it made me think of this. It's the murder of Elaine O'Hara if anyone wants to look it up. She met a wealthy married architect on a BDSM site. He was into stabbing, like it sexually aroused him. Anyway without going into too much detail because it's so devastatingly sad, he ended up murdering her and he went to an awful lot of effort to hide her body and played happy normal husband with his wife and kids for years afterwards. The wife said in court their sex life wasn't abnormal at all, she had no idea what he was really like. Just struck a few cords with this.
Even if AM didn't go that far with these women, he was obviously out of control and did not give a fuck about their wellbeing. I think BDSM and even rape play is fine if you're into it and everyone's 100% on board but there's a duty of care that has to be respected. He obviously didn't care about anyone but himself.
I really hope Ronan Farrow is looking into it. It deserves serious investigation. Post-MeToo, there's no excuses now.
And when he went beyond agreed upon points and they were left scarred physically and psychologically and needed medical care.The only reason I think there may be more to it than that is that his reps have dumped him. They must know some shit is about to hit the fan, as his family are very rich and powerful.
Also, I don't think it was disputed that it was consensual. The problem for me is that he was trawling his young fandom for girls when he had a duty of care as an older man and a famous person who they thought they knew. Its bad enough if he was getting them into 'normal' sex acts, but to get them into violent BDSM when they had limited sexual experiences and weren't in the BDSM community is problematic to say the least.
Don’t want to derail the thread but I’m a lawyer in the UK and...want to clarify a few things. 1) Amber’s ex partner came forward saying that Amber should have never had a domestic violence act filed against her and the police at the time were being very homophobic. The ex also stated that while they had heated arguments Amber was never physically, emotionally or financially abusive towards her or anyone else she knew.Tbh Depp didn't have a history of abuse as far as I gathered, whereas Amber did with previous partners, was arrested etc.
They were vile to each other, thoroughly toxic relationship.
This is one instance though where I can see why Amber received more blame by fans than Depp.
Depp's career took more of a hit than Amber's, even though (afaik) Depp has no history prior but Amber was known for such behaviour (i.e. domestic abuse).
this is exactly why people should stop calling what he’s into BDSM. That’s NOT what it is. BDSM has a structure in place. You have code words, boundaries and trust. He’s just a tiny man with a big ego who likes to hurt people.He also got rid of safe words and wouldn’t allow them so just did what he wanted to them
When I asked for a divorce after 17yrs of marriage my ex went into a tailspin about me fleecing him and doing well out of him. His friends enabled and encouraged that narrative. Crazy middle-aged woman wants freedom to fuck and shop with her poor hard-done-by ex’s money.This is what I mean - the minute a woman marries someone who has a lot of money/ a job - she’s a gold digger according to the fans - regardless of whether they have their own career and money