Are you annoying?

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I do this, and it pisses my husband off so much!!!!

I am quite annoying, esp if I've had a drink as I just chatter absolute nonsense and remember none of it the day after (which I find out when I retell a story when sober, and get reminded that I told him that last night... at least twice!!). Also I can be quite lazy, as in I love a lie in on a weekend whereas my husband is an up and out kind of person, and he hates that I waste that time sleeping!!!
Ah I'm the opposite! I'm up early and have things planned and questions to ask, so when my bf finally gets out of bed I bombard him with questions etc. I'm sure it pisses him right off as he needs time to wake up!
 
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Oh yes I am.

I interrupt people and I start jobs and walk away from them.

I'm working with 1 colleague all the time at the moment and we both do the latter, it's hilarious and annoying at the same time
 
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I think so ... I possibly come across as a know-it-all when all I really want to do is help. And I make a lot of threads, because I love to chat online ... and procrastinate from what I should be doing :sneaky:
Are you me??

For me, I hate wasting time or money or just generally illogical people!

I’m always like oh you should of bought that from this shop as they’ve got discount at the moment, why don’t you return it and buy it from there?

Its much quicker if you take this route to work?

Why don’t you go for a wee while your lunch is being microwaved instead of having a wee beforehand and then waiting for the microwave?

I don’t think I could be friends with myself and would probably despise myself but I just can’t help it.
 
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Are you me??

For me, I hate wasting time or money or just generally illogical people!

I’m always like oh you should of bought that from this shop as they’ve got discount at the moment, why don’t you return it and buy it from there?

Its much quicker if you take this route to work?

Why don’t you go for a wee while your lunch is being microwaved instead of having a wee beforehand and then waiting for the microwave?

I don’t think I could be friends with myself and would probably despise myself but I just can’t help it.
You are exactly my best friend, to the detail. Me and her should NOT get along (and for years as teenagers we didn't!), but it works now as we balance we each other out!
 
Yes! I never finish my sentences as for some reason I expect that people can read my mind and know what I'm saying in my head. No idea why or how to stop it 😬
Ha, ha, with my family you wouldn’t get a chance to finish your sentences, they would have interrupted you long before then. One of my nieces is the absolute worst for that. 🙄
 
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I'm pretty sure I fit the criteria for being annoying
a little list of my most annoying traits:
I talk wayyy too much, even in my sleep!
I am also a fidget and duvet stealer
I flick through other tv channels when there are adverts on which annoys some people?!
I am generally quite awkward and weird
I will always take a tea or coffee if someone else is making it but will never offer to make a round myself
My stories end up being ten times longer than they need to be (I think people usually zone out lol)
I'm very untidy and quite lazy
This is me!! I do all of these!
 
I am a total pain in the a 🤣

I have zero tolerance, I get so irate with so many things. Stupid things that shouldn't bother me send me off into rants and rages.

I'm really pernickety about how I want things done then get annoyed when inevitably people don't live up to my standards.

I spend money like water, this drives the husband insane as he's naturally a proper saver.

Terrible back seat driver however I often don't want to drive so I'll tell someone else to drive but criticise how they do it.
 
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I am a total pain in the a 🤣

I have zero tolerance, I get so irate with so many things. Stupid things that shouldn't bother me send me off into rants and rages.

I'm really pernickety about how I want things done then get annoyed when inevitably people don't live up to my standards.

I spend money like water, this drives the husband insane as he's naturally a proper saver.

Terrible back seat driver however I often don't want to drive so I'll tell someone else to drive but criticise how they do it.
I can identify with all of this.
 
I definitely am to some people.
I tend to be quite blunt, just come right out and say things which people don't always react well to!

I probably come across as a know it all. I really hate misquoted facts or people spreading incorrect or even exaggerated information so do tend to correct people when they say things they've blatantly just picked up via reading sensational headlines or click bait stuff.
 
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- I hate morning and evenings, I peak about lunch time and it’s all downhill from there.
- I will tell people exactly what I think, with no tact or diplomacy probably offending them in the process. Am also super quiet and awkward until I get to know someone.
- Can’t do small talk or create a conversation out of nowhere. This irritates my in-laws to death who are the king and queen on small talk. I literally have a notepad of ‘things to talk about’ for when my MIL phones.
- If I don’t like a book or tv program , that’s it I won’t talk about it, show an interest in what other people are saying about it. It’s literally a closed book to me.
-Love routine and hate surprises- especially birthday or Christmas ones.
 
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- I hate morning and evenings, I peak about lunch time and it’s all downhill from there.
- I will tell people exactly what I think, with no tact or diplomacy probably offending them in the process. Am also super quiet and awkward until I get to know someone.
- Can’t do small talk or create a conversation out of nowhere. This irritates my in-laws to death who are the king and queen on small talk. I literally have a notepad of ‘things to talk about’ for when my MIL phones.
- If I don’t like a book or tv program , that’s it I won’t talk about it, show an interest in what other people are saying about it. It’s literally a closed book to me.
-Love routine and hate surprises- especially birthday or Christmas ones.
I feel like I set up your account while black out drunk and wrote this post with no recollection of it haha.

Omg point number 3. I hate all small talk but particularly with work colleagues. They are clearly coming to discuss something work related but start with "how are you" "hows things" "looking forward to Christmas" Just get to point!
 
I don’t like small talk much either, because invariably the question which gets asked the most, “how are you?” the asker is really not interested enough to stick around for the answer. So I see little point in answering. It is all so fake and shallow. But I do hate the “I’m good” answer which everyone seems to say these days. 🙄😂
 
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Yep. I can be very indecisive and also very passive. Sometimes I genuinely do not have an opinion or preference. I have got better over time though.

I am also quite matter of fact and can't handle it when people get too emotional or deep - that annoys some of my friends as they see it as me not caring.
 
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Whenever I hear a song I like I sing along. Drives me OH crazy. I can't help it, I have always done that. It is especially bad when we watch a movie. I guess the issue is also that I am not very good at singing :ROFLMAO:
 
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I'm pretty sure I fit the criteria for being annoying
a little list of my most annoying traits:
I talk wayyy too much, even in my sleep!
I am also a fidget and duvet stealer
I flick through other tv channels when there are adverts on which annoys some people?!
I am generally quite awkward and weird
I will always take a tea or coffee if someone else is making it but will never offer to make a round myself
My stories end up being ten times longer than they need to be (I think people usually zone out lol)
I'm very untidy and quite lazy
are you me? 😂😂
Tea and coffee, especially in the office was the worst. Everyone would offer and I would say yes but I would never want to make 10 cups of tea!

I am quite awkward and so crap at small talk and replay the awkward conversation in my head after and kick myself so being so crap at talking haha.

another thing I do that drives my partner mad is I get obsessed with different ideas. For example, I decided I wanted to move. So searched houses, then all of the furniture I want for the house make spreadsheets of costs for it. Then it fizzles out and I move onto the next thing.
 
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