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Aoibhe,
I was one of those people who you blocked for messaging you about your abdominoplasty.
I couldn’t give a fuck what you do to yourself.
But as you say yourself, long term followers here on tattle will remember me.
I had to go for surgery last Feb. As my pregnancy & birth caused issues with my MS. And now I’m a young mum with a colostomy bag.
Three weeks in CUH with infections, despressed, feeling less feminine. Learning how to empty shit out of a bag, and stay a wife, mother, manager at work. My husband couldn’t visit me for 22 days until I got home. Couldn’t see my son, who was 7 months at the time. Couldn’t lift him for another few weeks after that. Didn’t want to burden my parents to ask for childcare help at the time.
I messaged you saying you don’t NEED this surgery during lockdown. That only because my surgery was an issue of quality of life, otherwise I would wait so my husband could hold me when I sobbed walking up to my new colostomy bag. Instead, PPE’d nurses held me as I face timed. I messaged you to say your situation is cosmetic, it’s not life or death & you should rethink it for a time you can have more physical help and visitors. You blocked me.
The difference between you & me is, my husband loved me the same before & after my surgery as I did it for all of us. My workmates supported me because I don’t treat them like shit.
Nobody slagged you for having a tummy tuck, but urgent surgeries around the country were halted & all you could think about was looking ‘slim’ to get SEANs attention.
You’re as much of a disgrace the day you block me as you are now.
I was one of those people who you blocked for messaging you about your abdominoplasty.
I couldn’t give a fuck what you do to yourself.
But as you say yourself, long term followers here on tattle will remember me.
I had to go for surgery last Feb. As my pregnancy & birth caused issues with my MS. And now I’m a young mum with a colostomy bag.
Three weeks in CUH with infections, despressed, feeling less feminine. Learning how to empty shit out of a bag, and stay a wife, mother, manager at work. My husband couldn’t visit me for 22 days until I got home. Couldn’t see my son, who was 7 months at the time. Couldn’t lift him for another few weeks after that. Didn’t want to burden my parents to ask for childcare help at the time.
I messaged you saying you don’t NEED this surgery during lockdown. That only because my surgery was an issue of quality of life, otherwise I would wait so my husband could hold me when I sobbed walking up to my new colostomy bag. Instead, PPE’d nurses held me as I face timed. I messaged you to say your situation is cosmetic, it’s not life or death & you should rethink it for a time you can have more physical help and visitors. You blocked me.
The difference between you & me is, my husband loved me the same before & after my surgery as I did it for all of us. My workmates supported me because I don’t treat them like shit.
Nobody slagged you for having a tummy tuck, but urgent surgeries around the country were halted & all you could think about was looking ‘slim’ to get SEANs attention.
You’re as much of a disgrace the day you block me as you are now.