The chinese even complain about themselvesMany mainland chinese NEED etiquette coaches!!! I say this from asian perspective ... even in asia, we asians complain about mainland chinese
A job where you barely work but affords you to self-fund this lifestyle!! Can you be my mentor, pretty please? <3Because she’s giving away secrets she learned at the €20billion finishing school!
What is so hard to understand?!?
She is the equivalent of wearing a ballgown everyday because you are supposed to wear it at very specific events.
I stupidly commented in her fb group recently (anyone who saw my comment will identify me). It was about that girl who wanted to ask a guy to fund her life so she could quit her job.
As someone who essentially has that lifestyle (but self-funded - i have a job and get paid but I barely work), I asked the OP the questions of what she intended to do all day. Not the vague « work with charities! » but actually day to day list. I received SO much hate about how I was jealous and didn’t know what I was talking about.
Aaah yeah sure ok.
These women are so far removed from this fantasy lifestyle. They truly think a man will come and rescue them and their life will be perfect forever.
When someone actually living it contributes anything they are told to mind their own business and don’t know what they are talking about.
Ok élégant ladies. Keep discussing which pets are élégant.
And these mythical « rich men » who notice and always compliment your nails. « I’m in debt but I have to ensure I have my weekly manicure and trainer because men, especially rich men notice my nails. » Never in my life have I met a man who noticed my nails. And trust me I’ve been around very wealthy ones.
But I guess my nails were just ugly, right? I don’t know what I’m talking about.
My coworker does this. Goes around showing everyone photos from this « fancy » charity ball she attends every year and this celebrity performed etc.
Me - what charity was it?
Her - I actually don’t know
Me - is it the same every year or does it change?
Her - I don’t know
I walk away.
I adore your healthy, internal locus of control! You've nicely juxtaposed it with Anna's external preachings. There's plenty of (scientific) psychological support for higher well-being and happiness with views that are consistent with your own (and in contrast with Anna's). It's things like this that make her a potentially (<-- I'm being gentle) unhealthy role model.No one got the power and will to change your life but yourself.
By transfering that to someone else, one that hasn't done a thing but point out common sense, you let go of control and the outcoming success you might achieve. Frankly, she doesn't deserve such a prize, when most of the work is done by yourself. She's not by your side, not even at reach. She can't be called a mentor. Shouldn't be treated as "the bigger sister you never had". Shouldn't be praised at all. She's a stranger taking advantage of whatever lacks in you and selling you a dream, as if "high society and big figure men" is the answer to all of your problems. I mean, look at her! She hasn't found the solution to her problems herself!
Speaking of not genuine people, I have a friend who once married a rich guy, became all about the rolex he got her, the new Chanel coats she likes to wear. It is not jealousy, it is almost like her new identity is about what clothes she can afford and a subtle undertone of "I am better than you" as she can afford things like that. I am considering ending the friendship, it is not jealousy but her whole persona is a bit artificial, Aija like. Any advice girls?
Correct.@laurensanchez .... do you mean that purchase of the mini h bag was not even her own pruchase???
She posted that because we said she never goes out never buys luxury things, etc.wow. @laurensanchez ....
At least anna can finally be proud she set the bar so high.
Too bad it's the lameness bar.
First thing that came to mind was, “Actions speak louder than words”. Just my advice.. but I would distance myself from someone like that. Not in an obvious way like cut them off completely, but little by little, I would stop making them a priority in my life.. especially energetically speaking. When people show their true colors or when you find yourself giving more than you receive (in friendship/ relationships).. it’s best to step back and only MATCH their efforts. Don’t invest one minute more of your energy on them than what they invest in you. Otherwise, you end up missing out on living YOUR LIFE to the fullest.Speaking of not genuine people, I have a friend who once married a rich guy, became all about the rolex he got her, the new Chanel coats she likes to wear. It is not jealousy, it is almost like her new identity is about what clothes she can afford and a subtle undertone of "I am better than you" as she can afford things like that. I am considering ending the friendship, it is not jealousy but her whole persona is a bit artificial, Aija like. Any advice girls?
Yeah, and? It's pure virtue signalling. She posted something once in her story when it comes to the tragedy in Beirut (I don't remember her mentioning donation), once briefly about fires in Australia, and once about blm when she asked others to donate and "educate themselves" (why those words are always coming from people who lack education the most?).Hey as long as I remember she was posting in her stories about fires in Australia and explosion in Beirut. I think she donated something to Beirut but not sure.
She posted about BlackLives Matter despite calling black women "ratchet" and her fiasco with The Pink Pill.Yeah, and? It's pure virtue signalling. She posted something once in her story when it comes to the tragedy in Beirut (I don't remember her mentioning donation), once briefly about fires in Australia, and once about blm when she asked others to donate and "educate themselves" (why those words are always coming from people who lack education the most?).
Even the charity thing she's engaged in now - if that's really as important for her as she claims, why won't she promote it more? This is the least she could do if she doesn't donate herself. Why won't she mention anything on her YouTube platform? Since it's significantly bigger than her Instagram, she could get to many more people. Unless she's not being honest with her followers, which I guess wouldn't be the first time.
Her only concern isNot to mention the earthquake that happened while she was in Turkey some months ago. All she did was inform she was safe, didn't feel a thing and went on a buggy ride. That speaks volumes to what kind of human being she is in my opinion.
Yes!! Thank you bringing this up! Completely shows how self-centered, ignorant and out of touch she is. When many of us say that she’s disgusting, this is exactly the types of behaviors we’re referring to.Not to mention the earthquake that happened while she was in Turkey some months ago. All she did was inform she was safe, didn't feel a thing and went on a buggy ride. That speaks volumes to what kind of human being she is in my opinion.
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