I'd like to thank the universe for
@TheMedicine and
@laurensanchez for seeing through some of these members. It seems like some of the things being said about Anna are being twisted and then taken personally by some people.
For all genuine members reading -- no one here is denigrating women over 30. No one is saying women over 30 should be married. No one is saying all women over 30 are ugly and wrinkled and damaged goods. Ffs we aren't a bunch of deranged incels here, most if not all of us here are women!! I'm 25 and I certainly don't think in the next 5 years my life is going to reach its conclusion and I will turn into a dried out prune unworthy of existence -- in fact I look forward what awaits me. My life isn't dictated by the Leonardo DiCaprios of the world -- i.e all worthwhile female life ends after 23 years of age.
We bring up looks, age, marriage and behaviour because this is a forum about Anna Bey/Aija Raty whose entire course and teachings are based on those superficial things. If she's going to preach about how (physical) "transformation never ends" and that plastic surgery, fillers and endless beauty treatments are part of the JSB lifestyle then yes -- the quality of her looks will be a topic of discussion. If she preaches about traditional gender roles and how you've failed unless you find a high society wealthy man who worships you and provides a luxury life for you in exchange for nothing from you but your presence -- then yes, we want to see what millionaire aristocrat or heir from old money she's happily married to. Essentially, we want to see proof of her own success in her own teachings, that's basically the entire premise of every thread about her.
And I don't understand defending Anna on the age issue as if she's on your side? The glorification of the ephemeral beauty of (already beautiful) women in their 20s is something we have repeatedly criticized Anna for. It's ultimately an exercise in futlity to base your entire life plan on your looks and effortless ability to attract men (and thus, their money) in your youth. To constantly chase this idea of "transformation never ends" by going on crash diets and injectibles and weird butt procedures all in the hopes of looking like an eternal young doll for rich men. Forget any educational, cultural, spiritual and charitable pursuits, it's all about the image and the subsequent attention and gifts. I thought this point was in agreement? Weird how the message got twisted/derailed by a few members.
Thank you for this perfect summary.
And thank you as well to
@TheMedicine &
@laurensanchez for adding clarity to some of the gaslighting that was going on.
It seems like some women come on here thinking this a typical gossip thread where people just post random stuff to vent, rant, project their insecurities, etc. But NO, it’s not.
A LOT of research and due diligence has gone into the posts that have been shared. WHICH MEANS, if there’s something you disagree with, at least go back and read every single post in every single thread before you assume that we’re just making stuff up about Anna without any back-up.
We have NEVER shamed women for their age. We don’t even talk about women in that way here at all. What we have done is follow-up on themes & topics that Anna highlights in her course, podcast, IG stories, YT videos and overall marketing brand, directly & indirectly.
In Anna’s world, age is a big deal (by default) because in her mind there is a certain “type” that “high caliber men” prefer! What is that “type”? Go look at the titles of her YouTube videos as well as the pictures that she shares in them PLUS the pictures she shares in her course. All surface level crap that has nothing to do with being educated, cultured, well read, charitable.. NOTHING.
She basically narrows it down to: “act like this/ dress like this/ say these things/ make sure you never say this to him.. in order to attract and keep a high-value man”. This is not real life! Men are multi-faceted too, but NO.. she only focuses on two-dimensional/ surface-level topics because that’s what she’s personally most familiar with.. transactional behavior (sex), the JSB life ..exchanging a pretty face for access to trips/ gifts/ sponsorship, etc.
So, yes.. Anna may be 34, but in the JSB world that she so desperately (still) wants to be a part of ..(
until apparently this recent trip where all of a sudden Michelin stars & fancy table utensils set-up PERFECTLY like she “learned” in that etiquette school don’t matter anymore)..
cannot stand how she constantly contradicts herself.. all that to say, IN HER WORLD, the one she sells you on, saying “you too can learn the secrets of being an elegant babe who will be provided for” .. in
THAT WORLD, SHE IS considered OLD. Do you get it?
We are following up on HER line of thinking and using THAT METRIC to size HER UP! And guess what? She doesn’t pass! She is old looking (her face is not rested & happy). Her skin looks dull & dry.. probably due to sun damage & smoking. Her hair is thin. Her style is boring. She comes across masculine, bitter, jaded & conceited.. can’t speak English well, invests very little in her personal education.. basically isn’t even the bare minimum when it comes to being “elite”. She is not graceful, feminine, educated, stylish, discrete, charitable, humble, elegant AT ALL! She fails by her own metrics.
So the next time we mention something about Anna being old at 34 and almost 40, remember that she has set the stage and we are simply using her own teachings/ words/ METRICS against her.. not all women, just HER as this thread is about HER.