Anna Bey #22 Removed video, backlash, apology, TheAList, SOTEW 3.0.

laurensanchez said:

Such a great way to explain it!

Randomly, Shanghai and Singapore spring to mind. If the local people there follow British colonial norms, they are upholding a legacy that diminishes their own culture and norms.

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You guys just refuse to read all my text. I can understand because my english is not good. I précise that every country has elegance and maneers customs etc and if someone want to follow it nothing wrong or white about that. Maneers or étiquette in South Korea is not a result of white supremacy. For exemple : in South Korea It is considers polite and good etiquette to turn slightly away when drinking alcohol with olders. But we don't see that in Europe because it is not the norm. Every cultures have their own codes.

Mahaut said:

Every country on hearth have etiquette, maneers and elegance codes, so every country is white? I came from 2 countries France in Europe and Benin in Africa and etiquette etc are really differents. Something will be perceive as rude in France but polite in Benin, and the other way around is true.

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These codes clashed just like everything cultural, some were supressed while others became the norm to the point the majority of people don't even notice. We're talking about something that affects mostly women and, as a matter of fact, was pushed into women in order to please man in certain degrees. Poise, the way to eat, the way to sit, the way to talk, the way to stand, the way to pick something from the floor, the way to dress, the way to behave... How do you then explain how women worldwide are so inclined to listening to what Aija says? How do you then explain the similarities on behaviour between women from different countries? It's not out of nowhere that we refer to elegance and etiquette as universal concepts. They were and are intented to standardize conduct to the point of becoming a habit, washing (whitening) away their old selves. I mean, look how the first "students" used to be and how those who have their own YT channels, courses and "private clubs" behave today! You "upgrade" by denial.

J.Tarac said:

These codes clashed just like everything cultural, some were supressed while others became the norm to the point the majority of people don't even notice. We're talking about something that affects mostly women and, as a matter of fact, was pushed into women in order to please man in certain degrees. Poise, the way to eat, the way to sit, the way to talk, the way to stand, the way to pick something from the floor, the way to dress, the way to behave... How do you then explain how women worldwide are so inclined to listening to what Aija says? How do you then explain the similarities on behaviour between women from different countries? It's not out of nowhere that we refer to elegance and etiquette as universal concepts. They were and are intented to standardize conduct to the point of becoming a habit, washing (whitening) away their old selves. I mean, look how the first "students" used to be and how those who have their own YT channels, courses and "private clubs" behave today! You "upgrade" by denial.

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Many are just trying trying to " bag" a man. And before talking more about "elegance" she use to just talk about men, men and hypergamy ( how to act around men, behaviors that turn men aways etc) And again I do not see Ann as a maneers or etiquette teacher. I'm just saying that the principe of etiquette is everywhere so not just a white thing and nobody is have to learn it. It is a choice.

Mahaut said:

Many are just trying trying to " bag" a man. And before talking more about "elegance" she use to just talk about men, men and hypergamy ( how to act around men, behaviors that turn men aways etc) And again I do not see Ann as a maneers or etiquette teacher. I'm just saying that the principe of etiquette is everywhere so not just a white thing and nobody is have to learn it. It is a choice.

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What kind of man are we talking about? And what do these women have to do to bag a man according to these "experienced ladies"? How must them proceed? How must them behave? What do they have to change in order to get the guy? What are the signs, the images Aija loves to use as example? It's all intertwined. It's not as simple as it seems. The same with white supremacism. The roots go deep and the seeds and fruits are very well disguised.
If It's all a matter of simple choice then I must say Aija has been really lucky and blessed by the "universe".

Seems like the word etiquette has been perverted by the growing number of online self-proclaimed etiquette gurus .
The definition of etiquette according to the dictionary:the set of rules or customs that control accepted behaviour in particular social groups or social situations.
Nothing to do with whiteness.Each social group in each country has etiquette.For instance the Dos and Don’ts in Cameroon and Tunisia are different even though both countries were colonised by the French .
Learning about etiquette is also learning about cross-cultural differences .I believe Institut villa Pierrefeu offers training programmes on international customs.
Unfortunately a self-proclaimed etiquette guru like Anna Bey , only associates the word etiquette with pasta and croissants .Everything about her teaching is narrow minded , shallow and mind-numbing .She promotes an euro-centric view because she is selling the “ultimate European high society fantasy”to a global audience.Well, when I hear Anna , the first word that comes to mind is scam supremacy.

sashabunny said:

Lainey Molnar is an illustrator from Budapest and she is using her creative expression mission to empower women. Her illustrators show how normal things are about the female human body and our natural looks and how we shouldn't be shamed for things that are normal.

I like her drawings and so do 650,000 others and counting. Lainey's drawings are inspiring women to be more comfortable in our own skin after dealing with sexism, discrimination, violence against women. The opposite of what Anna and the likes teach and judge other innocent women by... as if women don't already face enough unjust and disgusting judgement from unfortunately a lot of toxic males. I don't even want to call them "men".

Lainey posted this on her Instagram stories less than 24 hours ago

There is a major difference between elegant etiquette vs. being unfairly condescending, rude and judgemental. All of Anna's Tik Tok and Instagram short clips are condescending and "holier than thou". It shows more about her (and people who are in no position to judge in the first place, who still judge others with no context) than it does about the people they're judging.

I could not care less how someone chooses to eat a banana, their croissant or their pasta. If they aren't hurting anyone or making a scene, who cares?! Seriously... leave innocent bystanders alone.

I HIGHLY doubt Anna even follows any of her at times ridiculous 'rules' when she is at home, relaxing sitting on her couch eating a snack.

https://www.instagram.com/lainey.molnar/?hl=en

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I think she does these things to come across as a white rich girl! I bet she loves it when someone calls her that!

Mahaut said:

She is super weird and many of her advices are weird. Telling that floral print is for farmer girls and is not elegant, poker dot is for plain Jane, thinking that elegance and femininity is the same . At least she seems to find it important to have a goal other than bagging a man. This weirdos want women to be just the same, same type of granny clothes, attitude etc. I didn't eve' know that she is also selling courses.

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Aija and this amili girl is a danger for women nowadays. they want nothing but money and fame. these types of influencers also make dating game even harder.

Mahaut said:

You guys just refuse to read all my text. I can understand because my english is not good. I précise that every country has elegance and maneers customs etc and if someone want to follow it nothing wrong or white about that. Maneers or étiquette in South Korea is not a result of white supremacy. For exemple : in South Korea It is considers polite and good etiquette to turn slightly away when drinking alcohol with olders. But we don't see that in Europe because it is not the norm. Every cultures have their own codes.

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Mahaut said:

You guys just refuse to read all my text. I can understand because my english is not good. I précise that every country has elegance and maneers customs etc and if someone want to follow it nothing wrong or white about that. Maneers or étiquette in South Korea is not a result of white supremacy. For exemple : in South Korea It is considers polite and good etiquette to turn slightly away when drinking alcohol with olders. But we don't see that in Europe because it is not the norm. Every cultures have their own codes.

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some countries haven't westernized as much as most others have. South Korea is one of them with so many cultural codes. even when I think , most of those codes are expected from some group of people (women, youth) to server/please some others (elderlies and men). but the etiquette we all are talking about is not such example of cultural practices that you mentioned.

Although I like when a woman is real famine and behave with proper manners without trying ...& I can spot the reals... but many of Aija's " etiquette tips" are just outdated aristocratic codes, some may disagree, but again femininity and elegance cannot be thought unless you're a 3 year old growing up in such environment, because it screams fake. please note I am not talking about manners.

A Real happy/cool/loud/peasant/...anything is 10000 times more attractive than a fake elegant


I live between two cities/countries . at this moment in Toronto/Canada. these days I see many more Aija-like-Style women in cafes and restaurants and a big change in the way those girls dress walk, talk, move ,.... everything about about them and their attitude is just so AijaRaty/AnnaBey. sad to see/say many of them WOC and they scream whom they follow. (sad since Aija is a racist)

Also I happen to live in affluent areas (I am not affluent) ... there's not a single house less than 6 millions in these areas. but I wish I could take a video of my neighbors' houses vs their cars! so Aija wouldn't humiliates herself the way she did in her deleted video.. forbidden sin, these "plane Jane" girls wear ripped jeans too and date normal guys(average according to Aija) !

Most of the countries were colonised by the British. British culture and etiquette stuff had a lot of impact on the rich and influential people of these countries.

Till date it is believed on a mass level that English speakers are superior to native language speakers.Those who eat English food, practice English manners are perceived to be superior due to Colonial mindset. Fairer looking women are considered to be more beautiful preety.

Peasants are perceived to be poor. It may or may not be the truth but People like Aija hates them and their manners for this reason only (and not for their manners)

I don't think elegance is the right word for codes of conduct of other 3rd world countries. Custom may be the word.

Edit: Also kings and queens and monarchy stuff is long gone in most countries today. Yet "wanna be rich" people look upto British queen (colonial influence) and her family despite their own country having a history of being destroyed by the British.

Aija is just trying to take benefit of this colonial mindset and her being white and blonde. Women following her have no idea as to what modern rules of elegance are. They think that Aija is white, blonde and rich. Therefore superior to them, and whatever she says must be correct.

Ladies of the Tattle, the elite of this world have a lot in common. I've said it before. People from elite said it before and pretty famous one as well wrote about it and is known to Tattle (again, dance, Anna, dance and do your digging whom I am talking about - I will reveal their name after the scum is exposed officially). Weather you follow British royal family or Chinese modern elite or even American new money (with a few exceptions), you cannot go wrong. Those who know - know. Cliche? Yes! But one does really need to know to understand. Now, the minuscule 'elegant deportment' Anna teaches belongs to the server/escort/entertainer class. Some tattlers pointed about the differences in champagne and wine glasses and why it matters to serve it by the stem and not hold it by the bulb. When you work in upscale restaurant you will be taught the exaggerated version of serving and it's a kind of a show and quality people pay for. When an escort is hand-feeding her man (yes, I've seen that too often and it's a bit hilarious), she makes sure he hardly needs to touch his fork and knife and hardly fills his own glass. All while listening and laughing to whatever he says, looking pretty and scanning to deter any of the potential man-hunters like herself. No wonder an escort needs to know how to behave like Anna teaches because she's an entertainer inside out. No pun intended. I am convinced this is not what women have signed for when they bought into Anna's scam.

She posted a little bit of a car-inside, my man is car maniac an maybe he will figure out xd but for now he can say 100% it's not Mercedes, bmw or audi... maybe something cheaper, maybe more expensive... But no Porshe or Ferrari has such steering wheel That's all for now, we'll be working on it... And what i see in the background... Not so affluent house, not hers, but when you live in affluent society you don't build a house in "poor" / less affluent neighborhood.. It's not elegant

We're talking at pluriel now, we have a "husband" now, we are a Lady you know.
This woman really reads here and takes our lessons, see few pages above, it's so hilarious! She has no pride.

DominiqueFr90 said:

She posted a little bit of a car-inside, my man is car maniac an maybe he will figure out xd but for now he can say 100% it's not Mercedes, bmw or audi... maybe something cheaper, maybe more expensive... But no Porshe or Ferrari has such steering wheel That's all for now, we'll be working on it... And what i see in the background... Not so affluent house, not hers, but when you live in affluent society you don't build a house in "poor" / less affluent neighborhood.. It's not elegant

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one month? Hasn't her whole "long break" been only 2 weeks?

Oh, ladies! We have a new Hermesa fake in town.
Looking granny as always.
Maybe these shoes cost a lot but they look so tacky.

Esprit_de_Corps said:

I think she’s a MLM. I don’t trust her at all.

Similar to our Anna, her content is devoid of meaning. She can speak for 10 minutes and not say a single, worthwhile thing regarding building wealth or cultivation of self. I don’t find her to be elegant in appearance, but at least she looks pretty natural.

However, I watched a skincare video from her that’s reasonable- she recommended inexpensive products, retinol, vit c, niacinamide, and sunscreen.

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Not familiar with her but she is pretty, looks natural. Reminds me of one of Di Caprio's exes, Nina perhaps?

DominiqueFr90 said:

She posted a little bit of a car-inside, my man is car maniac an maybe he will figure out xd but for now he can say 100% it's not Mercedes, bmw or audi... maybe something cheaper, maybe more expensive... But no Porshe or Ferrari has such steering wheel That's all for now, we'll be working on it... And what i see in the background... Not so affluent house, not hers, but when you live in affluent society you don't build a house in "poor" / less affluent neighborhood.. It's not elegant

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This is a range rover although I can’t tell which model exactly but as I drive one it has the same steering, perfect car for the middle east. However, I’m surprised it’s not one she’s mentioned in her “affluent” cars section. Isn’t she ashamed of only a range rover and not an Audi or BMW?

DominiqueFr90 said:

She posted a little bit of a car-inside, my man is car maniac an maybe he will figure out xd but for now he can say 100% it's not Mercedes, bmw or audi... maybe something cheaper, maybe more expensive... But no Porshe or Ferrari has such steering wheel That's all for now, we'll be working on it... And what i see in the background... Not so affluent house, not hers, but when you live in affluent society you don't build a house in "poor" / less affluent neighborhood.. It's not elegant

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Could be a range rover

Aija's expression in the blue dress is her whole personality.

Her feet in the blue dress looks abnormally tilted. (Maybe edited)

Why does she advertises brands (for free) by tagging them in the photo or in the post ? Is it some kind of etiquette peasants don't understand?

She arrived back in Geneve way before that post.

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Aija's expression in the blue dress is her whole personality.

Her feet in the blue dress looks abnormally tilted. (Maybe edited)

Why does she advertises brands (for free) by tagging them in the photo or in the post ? Is it some kind of etiquette peasants don't understand?

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I like how sometimes she has boobs, sometimes she doesn't and now in that picture one is bigger than the other. Must be a new trend.

lalalander said:

When an escort is hand-feeding her man (yes, I've seen that too often and it's a bit hilarious), she makes sure he hardly needs to touch his fork and knife and hardly fills his own glass. All while listening and laughing to whatever he says, looking pretty and scanning to deter any of the potential man-hunters like herself. No wonder an escort needs to know how to behave like Anna teaches because she's an entertainer inside out. No pun intended. I am convinced this is not what women have signed for when they bought into Anna's scam.

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The word geisha comes to my mind... The difference is, that back then (and even know) they were highly respected.