My sister and I have had a bit of a strained relationship lately.
It's her 40th and she had a massive party and didn't invite me at all, which was hurtful. We haven't fallen out over it but she knows I'm upset.
She is holding a big 40th birthday meal tonight and only invited me late last night. It's at a really expensive restaurant and I politely declined because of cost, instead offering to do something else with her tomorrow and explaining that I'm a bit strapped for money this month due to various reasons. For context a main is around £30 - £40 and of course adding drinks on top etc it'll be fairly expensive for my budget this month.
I explained I'm happy to do something else with her tomorrow and would like to see her because I have a gift and card.
She's now being very cold with me through texts and I just know she's being 'off' with me. I feel like I can't win at all.
I'm not sure how to play this? Am I being unreasonable here?
It's her 40th and she had a massive party and didn't invite me at all, which was hurtful. We haven't fallen out over it but she knows I'm upset.
She is holding a big 40th birthday meal tonight and only invited me late last night. It's at a really expensive restaurant and I politely declined because of cost, instead offering to do something else with her tomorrow and explaining that I'm a bit strapped for money this month due to various reasons. For context a main is around £30 - £40 and of course adding drinks on top etc it'll be fairly expensive for my budget this month.
I explained I'm happy to do something else with her tomorrow and would like to see her because I have a gift and card.
She's now being very cold with me through texts and I just know she's being 'off' with me. I feel like I can't win at all.
I'm not sure how to play this? Am I being unreasonable here?