Oh really? That's interestingIf you scroll back thru old vids neither of them used to look the way they do now.
Her whole schtick around larger lady gets someone to love her shows how low the bar is
I had this thought when she posted about him buying her some gifts when she got back from whereever she went. And it was all snacksInteresting, maybe he is a feeder
I know he does clearly love her but the commenters act like they can’t be exclusive from one another. He can like bigger women and be madly in love with her :/ but the comments seem to suggest your a fat phobic if you suggest he might like a larger lady. I don’t see the problem? Some people like smaller people some like larger, obviously she is his type and he loves her. Why is everything fat phobia in the commentsI had this thought when she posted about him buying her some gifts when she got back from whereever she went. And it was all snacks
She also used to be a bodybuilder! But I couldn't find the photoOh really? That's interesting
Just scrolled back on Instagram to have a look!
Caveating this with I don't actually know who this person is, I just followed the link in the plus size threadI know he does clearly love her but the commenters act like they can’t be exclusive from one another. He can like bigger women and be madly in love with her :/ but the comments seem to suggest your a fat phobic if you suggest he might like a larger lady. I don’t see the problem? Some people like smaller people some like larger, obviously she is his type and he loves her. Why is everything fat phobia in the comments
I am similar! When I met my partner, I was a size 26. He has never weighed more than 10 stone his whole life.Caveating this with I don't actually know who this person is, I just followed the link in the plus size thread
But on your point about fatphobia - I wonder if that comes from people feeling like it's fetishising? I.e. the only average weight or muscly men who go out with fat women must have a specific thing for fat women, rather than just liking the person they're with for the person they are, regardless of size.
As a sample of one, as a fat woman whose in a relationship with a slim man, it's the sort if thing that's bothered me in the past. Probably a reflection of my own insecurities but I've been worried that people might think my partner is with me just because he's got a thing for fat women (which he doesn't), and I've worried before that people might talk about it/laugh about it behind his back.
Obviously some people do have strong preferences and there's nothing wrong with that. Generally, 'fatphobia' as a reason to be outraged often makes me cringe and roll my eyes so they probably are being unreasonable in the comments
Oh yeah totally get you! There are lots of lovely men out there who do genuinely go for personality and looks do not come into it nor does size. It’s her own outrage and comments suggesting men who do have a preference have a “fetish” which why is it? I must have a beard fetish then as I love a beardI am similar! When I met my partner, I was a size 26. He has never weighed more than 10 stone his whole life.
He doesn't 'prefer' fat women. His ex was a size 8. He just doesn't care.
I worry he would get laughed at behind his back to the point I don't like being seen by anyone he works with and if I have to pick him up from work, I park at the back of the carpark.
I 100% agree!Oh yeah totally get you! There are lots of lovely men out there who do genuinely go for personality and looks do not come into it nor does size. It’s her own outrage and comments suggesting men who do have a preference have a “fetish” which why is it? I must have a beard fetish then as I love a beardI would just like it to be normal if people do have a preference for bigger people because rn the comments seem to say anyone who does prefer bigger and would choose bigger has a “fetish”
I feel like I’m rambling but for an account that says she’s body positive she likes a lot of comments that seem to suggest men liking bigger women is a fetish when I disagree; you can be a person who has no preference and just goes for personality and you can also like a bigger or smaller person or whatever and that’s all ok!
I dunno just feels like she has her own insecurities around her size just going by the comments she likes and gets aggy over!
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