Eve's not expected to make sandwiches or anything like that. She's grabbing fruit and protein bars from a drawer and putting them in her lunchbox.
I really don't think putting things in a lunchbox is a difficult task for a child of 5. She can dress herself.
If she was expecting her to cook alone and cut things with a knife then yes absolutely. She's putting things into a bag. I'm sorry but my 2 year old niece knows how to put her toys back into her toy box. Eve can manage grabbing snacks from a drawer.
When is an appropriate age for a child to pack their own in lunch in your opinion? Cause they have to learn eventually.
I'm sorry but who doesn't put a sandwich or roll in child's lunchbox, it's fills them up & when I hear the phrase make a lunch, I think of sandwiches/bagels/rolls, maybe it's due to me being from Ireland and sandwich is a staple part of lunches. I feel this isn't appropriate for children of 5 to be able to do on their own.
Also you say grab some fruit is easy, kids at 5 start to lose their teeth and I know from my kids & from volunteering with youth groups, they find biting into apples/pears difficult, so they need them to be cut up. Kids at that age also have difficulty opening bananas, so what a lot of parents do is cut the top off, so all kids have to do is peel the sides off. Kids of this age also aren't great at being able to do portion sizes, so if you expect them to be able to get some berries & grapes and put them in a container they either overfill the container try to close the lid and end up squashing the fruit & there is mess all over the place & half the fruit is inedible or they barely put any in, which means they aren't getting enough food.
As for protein bars, I personally don't feel these are appropriate for children, I feel they are for adults & should not be given to kids. I know from my kids schools, if you sent then to school with one, they would be taken & you would get a phone call from the school saying not pack one in the childs lunch in future. But our schools all have healthy eating rules,so no junk food allowed in lunches.
I feel it's appropriate for a child of 5 to pack a lunchbox in their own bag, when the lunch has been prepared for them. I think kids should start making their own lunches at about 7/8 with a bit of help & by 9 make they can be responsible for their own lunches.