My 7 year old daughter will not listen to me or her Dad and it's starting to drive us mad. It's not that she's really naughty or in trouble at school it's more that she just doesn't seem to do anything we ask, like brushing hair, getting dressed etc. Whenever she is in trouble it's like she doesn't really care about the consequences. I remember having a healthy fear of my parents at that age Is this just totally normal or are there things I need to be doing to get her to listen to us?