Cooksie

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I'm not feeling bitter.......I had severe sickness but, had no other option to work as a nursing sister up to 39 weeks. I had five days in hospital with my first as I started haemorrhaging at 29 weeks....I was pumped full of steroids in case I went into labour early but, the bleeding stopped and my scan was fine. After a 27 hour labour, the midwives realised my daughter was coming out face up and was stuck. Forty minutes of the midwife and on call ob/gynae registrar pulling and tugging.....and 33 stitches later , my daughter was born.......who was then diagnosed with learning difficulties.....the sickness has long been forgotten but, the day I gave birth hasn't!
My dog ate a McDonald’s napkin earlier this evening. I feel this is also relevant to Soph’s thread because like you have a baby and she will have a baby.. I have a dog and she has a dog and some dogs eat napkins and some don’t but I’ll put together a big story about my dog for the thread when I have a moment
 
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Cooksie

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I came off the pill after being on it for 2 years after the birth of my first child. 1 week and 1 'try' later i was pregnant.
The worst part of influencers getting pregnant is the amount of people that use tattle threads to babble about their own kids and getting pregnant 🥱 Let’s have this thread for talking about boring Soph and the relevant tattle thread for people to discuss their kids / mumsnet for your own pregnancy!
 
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Pip30

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You may find it boring but she’s stuck to the same content as before! It’s a good thing she hasn’t gone down the mommy blogger route and showing the baby constantly. Respect her for that.
 
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Spencerskates

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ngl I hate this attitude. She’s experiencing pregnancy for the first time, and being sick IS awful. When I was pregnant, I was so sick of other women telling me “just wait, it gets worse” 🙄
Two HG pregnancies down and I personally found the neverending sickness infinitely worse than any part of labour. I’ve said it before on this thread, but it isn’t a competition. I get that Soph likes to complain, but pregnancy IS tough, it’s made tougher by the ‘just you wait’ attitude from others who are feeling bitter!
 
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Spencerskates

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I'm not saying the shoes are great though. It's the wording she's chosen to use for them which is, as I said, ignorant.

"Just ignorance" isn't a great thing either and regardless if she meant harm or not she needs to think about the words she uses to describe something. She would be more mindful of other cultures so why not the Japanese?
Not a massive Soph fan, but genuinely, is she (everyone?) expected to know everything that is culturally significant to every country/culture in the world?
 
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hlngrg

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....if she thinks vomiting is bad.....wait until she experiences labour.....:oops:
ngl I hate this attitude. She’s experiencing pregnancy for the first time, and being sick IS awful. When I was pregnant, I was so sick of other women telling me “just wait, it gets worse” 🙄
 
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I think even if the labour and birth itself wasn’t ‘traumatic’, the baby being resuscitated and then being too unwell to hold your baby for several hours is serious!
She must’ve been in a bad way to not have been able to hold him.
 
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blondelolita

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In fairness to them I love that an influencer has adopted a dog and not just bought a insta dog. Well done to them, I liked that they addressed that and spoke about the process and how important it is to rescue - they both seem so happy with her and as Soph works from work it is genuinely A good thing to do. Genuinely pleased for them!
 
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Wills315

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I actually think is refreshing to see her still doing make up etc and not move towards all baby/parenting content. So many "influencers " have a baby and then all of a sudden the baby is the new content and they are essentially making money of the kid which is so wrong. I quite liked her friend Jazzy but literally since she peed on the stick, that's all her content has been about, also sharing bathtime pics 😖 At least soph has the sense to keep the little man away from all that and protect his privacy.
 
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Blueblue123

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What was with the massive rant about the shade of a special edition bronzer?! She came across really bad there - like a forced effort to try and be woke. She never complained like that before. Besides its a one off limited edition etc why the hell does there have to be a shade range to it?!

It is so obvious to. Like you said it is a special edition item i doubt they would sell well in every shade .
It's a valid point though. Wouldn't sell well? Smh at your ignorance. That's like the number one excuse for lack of shades in makeup.

African American women spend $1.3trillion a year on beauty products so get out of here with the "won't sell well" nonsense. If it's produced for them, trust and believe they will buy it.

Black and poc love makeup as much as fairer people do. It's attitudes like this that shut deeper skinned people out of the beauty industry.

So it's not "wokeness" it's a valid point.
 
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To be honest , if he didn't work people would say he was living off soph. I have respect for people that chose to work , even if they don't need to. Like Mrs hinches husband is generally seen as a bit of a layabout by her "trolls" because he quit work and now faffs around boosting his wife's ego all day and enjoying the good lifestyle without having to do very much. I think Soph and her fella are pretty normal and down to earth compared to some of the other beggars *cough Solomon and swash cough*.
 
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Don’t get me wrong, I love all animals, dogs included, but Pinky is quite badly behaved! At the end of her recent vlog she won’t stop barking at Soph ‘because she wants to play’. Soph also says she can’t take Pinky anywhere because she tried to steal food (which to be honest, my dog was a huge foodie and also would try, but he soon learned it wasn’t ok). I understand that she’s a rescue dog, but it doesn’t seem like Soph actually trains her! Pair that with allowing Pinky to lick her mouth and face (sorry but that’s grim to me) and sleep on the bed and sofa (this is controversial I know but dogs smell, I don’t want my bed and couch is smell), it seems like Soph let’s Pinky do whatever.
I personally don’t think letting a dog on a sofa or bed justifies them as badly behaved. That’s down to the owner, if the owner allows it then there is nothing wrong with the behaviour. Also dogs bark sometimes. I don’t want to start an argument here. But how other people live with their pets and what they allow them to do shouldn’t be anyone else’s business. People chose to raise kids in different ways and pets shouldn’t be any different. Long as a pet is loved, fed and looked after properly nothing else should matter to outside individuals.
 
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roundzip

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I like Soph and I think the fact she’s “boring” works for her. It means she’s genuine, unproblematic and isn’t stuffing her face with fillers. She shares what she likes, she does ads with products we know she likes. I think she’s done so well cos people can actually relate to her and almost see her as a friend rather than an influencer. That’s why I still watch her whereas I’m fed up of all the
 
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hrh89

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This is just a bit OTT. The girl is a bit bland and can be tone deaf, but calling her a cunt because she wants to go away? I'd hate to be someone in your life who dares tries to have a little moan about the mundane. I can imagine most people at this point want to go anywhere other than their home no matter what they do.
agree with you. Plus there are WAY worse youtubers than her. She’s saying she wants to go away but hasn’t AND staying in the country. You’ve got the likes of ana and saffron and many others who have jetted off abroad multiple times throughout this pandemic. I don’t blame Sophie for wanting to go away, okay her job isn’t massively taxing but everyone needs a change of scenery.
 
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Liswit87

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Oh my god she is so ignorant! When you pay for wedding catering you're not JUST paying for food, you're paying for a team of professional and experienced waiting staff, who will be on their feet all day, literally waiting on you and your guests hand and foot, keeping an eye on the drinks, serving canapes... etc etc. Not to mention you're paying for a (usually small) kitchen team to produce 70-100+ mostly identical meals, to come out hot, perfectly cooked, at around the same time. It takes an extraordinary amount of expertise and coordination. Even more difficult than a commercial/restaurant kitchen which is a feat in itself. It's absolutely nothing like just going out for a meal in a restaurant. Does she think the food just materialises?

Add this to her moaning about wedding dress prices and saying that she'd sooner buy something from a high street brand that was probably made in a sweat shop. The level of privilege is insane. The worst part is that there's no doubt she can afford all of it and some. A lot of people would dream to be able to have the kind of wedding an influencer can afford. I think she thinks her horror at these prices makes her relatable, that she's not lost touch with the pauper, but it just highlights her complete lack of perspective.
 
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