LilJesse

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These influencers are just pissing me off now with their unrealistic portrayal of the early days of motherhood… I had a really shit time as a first time mother, third degree tears, a baby that never slept and screamed 24/7 for the first year, colic, reflux, absolute torture! That baby is now 3 years old and it’s only now that I’m starting to feel like myself again… I know my experience was probably on the extreme end of difficult but these women are doing a total disservice to their following by portraying everything as “perfect, wonderful, a dream, so in love, my life finally makes sense” etc. etc.

Sometimes being a new mother is a fucking shitshow and you know what, thats’s ok!! It doesn’t mean I love my child any less than someone who had an easy time of it. I felt totally robbed of the lovely newborn stage everyone talks about, there was no love at first sight instant bond, it was hell! I have an amazing bond with my child now but that experience will never be repeated and I’m firmly one and done because I can’t see myself going through that ever again…

I already unfollowed Joanne Larby and Terrie McEvoy because they made me feel shit about myself when compared with their “wonderful” experiences and now I’ll be hitting unfollow on this eejit too… I never comment on these threads but she has seriously triggered me in the last few days!!
 
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Charlotte has been locally announced as the Fianna Fáil area representative for the under 5s.

If you are under 5 and you have real life social economic issues like the below please get in touch:

1. Your local play centre is full of common children, whose parents had them in the public maternity system
2. You have been invited to a birthday party and the toys for pass the parcel are from DEALZ and not Brown Thomas
3. Your BMW buggy got scratched at a local event & you know the riff raff toddler who did it, only one of his parents has a job.
4. You are forced to spend time with babies who are being bottle fed.
5. You have a medical card.

Email:
[email protected]
 
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This thread is bizarre tonight..
some women don’t like being called out on their behaviour..riding a guy who is engaged with kids obviously isn’t a good look and shows the level of desperation there..I feel bad for her sometimes but making fun of a death is really messed up..
We know that new account posting here was you. Imagine making a second account and then posting to complain about the posts you made!

And this was you also - https://tattle.life/threads/sandra-...n-we-blame-it-on-the-japs.33734/post-12082717
 
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90sChild

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I’m a long time lurker and I don’t usually comment but this is just madness. I know Randy years and she was the first to look at me like I was diseased when my incredibly unplanned pregnancy went public back in the day..

I’ve been in social settings where due to my work she has attempted to talk to me and I’ve blanked her noticeably because I have no time for that bullshit. When asked by colleagues why? I explained straight what a two faced judgemental wench she is and was met with a collection of similar “she is a cow and here is why” stories.


So I’m not even ashamed to admit that while I can sympathize with her ailments, I also know she hasn’t a NOTION what is about to hit her when she is hit with a needy newborn. And that’s just a normal newborn.

I genuinely wonder what will happen if she gets a colicky baby or a baby with tongue tie or something. She has zero life experience or depth of character to pull from and honestly I don’t think she will cope with the demands a baby will place. I don’t know “himself” so I’ve no comment to make on him but from what I’ve read here I doubt he will be much help or support to her.

I never forgot the sneering and the shitty comments made to me as a single mother. Never fails to amaze me how the circle of life keeps turning.

It will kill her if he doesn’t make a ‘respectable woman’ (in her eyes) of her
 
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Lovelula

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Was it Daniel Kinahan or us that rant was for??She sounds like she swallowed Graham Dwyer lol...

She was absolutely seething..and then to come on in her dressing gown and give the dig about the likes of us on Tattle "not having deep pockets" so we're not worth pursuing compensation wise.
Dont be looking down your nose at any of us when your fannys being stretched down a boreen....
The International Police dont give a shit about me typing away on Tattle..I'm doing nothing wrong ...if this is all shes going to do with her law degree from UCC she may aswell wipe her arse with it...I can well believe the people now who said she is a nasty characher...she is after showing it....the thread is going to get busier now and she will direct more eyes here...that's what she gets for her smartness...
 
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