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Oh she’s fucked me off today.

“I am sat here working on my phone and I don’t like it” boo hoo sad face.

I’d fucking love to sit on my sofa and open a free box of crap drinks for payment, but I have to work a 12 hour nightshift tonight on no sleep, and no sleep tomorrow either because someone still has to look after the children while my husband works. I got up with my toddler at 6am and I won’t get back into bed until 8pm tomorrow night (we can’t afford childcare like cat can, which is the sole reason I work nights and some days when he can take holiday, because a 12 hour day shift is a break for me compared to the killer night ones!)

I hate it when these dickheads moan about being “so super busy and stressed” when all
they do is get freebies, film crap, talk rubbish on podcasts and go to free events. Oh and spend entire days writing raps Gosh, how fucking stressful. Swap with me for a month, you wouldn’t hack my job and I would feel like I was in heaven.

She’s just told people not to listen to people without researching them - she’s literally written a book despite having absolutely no childcare qualifications whatsoever. She’s telling people her experience and implying it’s ok for other people to follow or, despite having no childcare qualifications whatsoever.

If she can’t see the irony in what she is saying….!

WTAFisthis27 said:

Her stories this morning. Ffs. Someone has a well thought out opinion that differs to yours Cat, so you rip them to shreds. In your own words, don’t be a dick.

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I like how she can focus long enough to take apart someone else’s opinion, in depth, over several stories, yet her adhd brain won’t usually let her focus long enough to pack a suitcase or remember which day her appointment is on (unless it’s a freebie of course).

Renewing her vows and displaying her minge, cat the twats giving big time cringe.

Never seems to get confused with appointments for her free hair extensions, camping trips, film premieres, envelope openings

Oh for fucks sake.

So her “job” today entailed going eating breakfast, surrounded by other braying middle class influencers listening to people talk about the menopause and sleep. And probably walking away with a bulging goody bag to boot.

My god, that is sooooooo 2017 Are they still doing that shit with the state of the world today?

I live in quite a deprived area and my child’s school has stated a free, no questions asked breakfast in the playground for children, their parents and other family members who want to come to drop off with them and have bagels, toast and sandwiches as they know that so many people are going without food to feed the children instead and while the breakfast club for children was great, they decided to help the families too.

And instagram dicks are still having these fucking breakfasts where they all sit around patting themselves on the back and feeling all important.

I see she’s talking about gift match again - “give me free shit but give it to a poor person too”. Fucking spare me.

monkey12345 said:

She is always complaining. She doesn’t know how lucky she is. Can drop her kids to and from school, has a cleaner. No job from 9 till 5pm , paying for childcare, rushing to work and from work, got invited to free stuff with kids.. and she doesn’t like to spend time with her own kids or her parents

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I’m SO sick of hearing ”influencers” who don’t actually have a job, have cleaners, kids at school etc moan about trying to carve time out for themselves. How about all that time when your kids are at school, you’re not working and someone else is sorting out your house for you? If you can drag your arse out for long walks, dick about on Instagram every day and get extensions then you don’t have to try to carve time out for yourself.

I am burnt out from working full time and having young kids. My house is a shit tip, my mental (& physical) health is non existent and I suspect I look as bad as I feel. Carve time out? From where? These clueless idiots need to shut the fuck up.

I’m perplexed by how trendy it is nowadays for influencers to have an adhd diagnosis. Her mate, style me Sunday has one too. Cat is desperate not to be a basic white girl, and like a lot of them, wants to be a marginalised person.

It really offends me. I work with teenagers with ADHD and like the PP said, it is a long route to diagnosis: observations, different stakeholder perspectives and is done through CAMHS/NHS. For the children I work with, it’s really genuinely debilitating: many of them aren’t safe in the community and risk really poor academic and social outcomes. It’s a big deal! But somehow these fools have hijacked (ie paid for via private psych!) neurodiversity and made it into ‘a thing’ that they think gives them an edge (im sooo scatty and wacky me!) and gives them carte Blanche to be twats. They think ADHD is edgy and charismatic when the reality is actually very very difficult for a lot of people.

I also think inattentive ADHD is something a lot of us have traits of. Being forgetful, zoning out and sometimes being a bit wired is part of a lot of peoples personalities and is not a disability, unless it impedes your ability to function in every day life. I tick nearly every statement on the checklist for inattentive adhd but I manage it, and it’s not something I’m about to make a big deal of as I’m not a twat.

People like her and her mate really make it worse for people with genuine, debilitating needs.

Only just seen the “when people ask what’s it like being a parent” reel and genuinely in tears.

I get being a parent is hard - I’ve supported my single mother sister a lot, and appreciate its gruelling and thankless at times.

But - as someone whose health means they are extremely likely to never have children, I wish I had children to clean up after. Happily accept the ‘snack bitch’ title. I’d cook for my mini humans daily knowing it kept them alive and it was my duty as I’d created them - and loved them. And I’d want them to be in a loving household free of resentment like I felt for being born.

And I can’t. Instead my partner has tears in his eyes for the children we wont have. The jokes about our future children have had to stop, because now we know it’s too painful.

I can’t get my head around how someone can be so utterly ungrateful for having children and seem so spiteful for their existence.

Cat, if you read here, just be aware that your content is a dagger in the heart to many. That’s why people, myself included, need to unfollow you. Hold your children tight and praise beans you were healthy enough to have them. Some of us will never be able to.

This is all I see when Cat tries to pose.

Unfortunate choice of clothing too