JayMar

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i knew she would be one of those type of influencers....that whips the nips out whenever she gets the chance! i understand the baby needs feeding but why not find a more private spot to do it.
Sorry I don't agree, women have the right to breastfeed where ever they want to, wherever they feel comfortable.
 
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Emogoo

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Yea exactly, I took pictures on my phone and rang my family etc but the first thought in my head every day wasn’t ‘gotta go on social media’ you want to soak in all those precious memories together (and sleep, lots of sleep!) while you can.

ahh so jealous you had a private room! I was in a ward with 5 other ladies who had had their babies. It wasn’t awful, luckily I was on the end of one of the rows so could pull the curtain round for private time. I remember though there was an African lady and she went for a shower and left her baby and the baby started crying and it felt like it went on forever till the midwives came to check on him. I remember her walking past my bed too and the baby was just hanging off her arm like she wasn’t even supporting him. That scarred me a little bit. Sorry for the story time!
this sounds just like my experience....the indian lady next to me kept leaving her baby unattended whilst she went god knows where and her baby would just be crying! she left her baby for over an hour and the nurses were having to take care of the baby! :O
What does the ethnicity of each lady in both of your texts have to do with either of your stories? :unsure:

Anyway... I’m looking forward to an update from Carys regarding Amber! Hope they’re doing okay.
 
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Corona

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For fun, let's do a poll! 😂

Is Carys pregnant?
If you think 'yes' put a 'sick' react emoji :sick: (cos you know, the deed with James... ) and if you think 'no' put the 'wow' emoji 😲
 
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jazyblu

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I actually think all the comments about being GLAD Carys is on her own in hospital with the baby are awful. I get its fun to bash them on here when they basically ask for it so much but its borderline cruel how much some people wished she would have to stay in hospital on her own and now she has had a bad birth she does.
So many people assuming they know what is best for her but the reality is no new mum wants to stay in hospital for 5 days with their brand new baby after problems with the birth and no support from their partner.
 
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Anonemxoxo

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Do we all think she's in labour now? Like for yes, angry react for no. Curious to see what everyone thinks. I feel like she actually could be this time
 
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jawidjanqndn

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james just hovers like a bad smell. he is everywhere, just piss off. you can imagine him saying shit like ‘oh carys amber isnt latching onto our boob’. i’d kick him out
 
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Disneylifeonly

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Come on folks let's not do parent shaming, especially over tiny things.
If James suddenly comes through holding Amber by her ankles then yea maybe comment, but they're first time parents finding their feet, give them a little chance here
 
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Anonemxoxo

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Sorry another stupid question from a non mum here... is breastfeeding in public legal? Like in terms of having boobs out. Isn’t that indecent exposure? Or does it not count if it’s for feeding. I know some women put a thin blanket over themselves when they do it. Also I’ve heard of cafes asking feeding mothers to leave. Just not sure what’s actually accepted! Please don’t feel in making a judgement, I genuinely just don’t know - most mums I know bottle feed.
Quite the opposite actually in the UK, breastfeeding in public is entirely legal, you do not have to cover up because breast aren’t viewed as “genitals”. It is also against the law for any business etc to ask a woman who is breastfeeding to leave or to cover up.

I am very disappointed how on this thread there are people shaming Carys for breastfeeding in public. I get she does love to whack her boobs out despite knowing there’s a twisted Reddit thread about her HOWEVER breastfeeding in public is an entirely different issue. Breastfeeding is natural, breasts aren’t disgusting or sexual when used in this way, they are the ways in which a woman’s body provides for the baby. A woman has the right to breastfeed without covering up as she is not doing anything wrong, it’s not not modest to feed your baby as breasts aren’t genitals and she is not using them in any way that is sexual at all in this situation. Also in regards to covering up the baby with a Muslin etc, would you like to eat with a blanket covering your head? Or eat in the toilet as some people say the mother should go if she needs to feed?

Society is what has sexualised breasts and the act of breastfeeding, and I am entirely disappointed to see that coming out on this thread.I actually Applaud Carys for having the guts to do it knowing society’s judgement. If you view a mother breastfeeding as something sexual, then you’re part of the problem. We should empower women to breastfeed wherever they want, instead of shaming them.
 
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James says Amber has a stronger bond with Carys as they’ve been in hospital together.

No James! She’s her mother, she grew her, she birthed her, of course she’s going to have that stronger bond, especially in the early days. It’s like he’s jealous of Carys. I hate him!

And if he says ‘positive’ one more time I will drive to Wales & punch him in the face 😂
 
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WhiteOrchid

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James took this picture of his wife and an empty pram purely for the 🍑 She’s hiked her jacket up to show it, It doesn’t naturally sit there, it covers her bum almost. Who does that?! He most definitely knows about the Reddit thread and the fact that his wife will have a good amount of people wanking over her pics and that’s she posts to appeal to them. Either they get kicks over it or it’s just very, very sad
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Too busy posing with her arse out to realise Amber fell out of the pram half a mile back down the road because she wasn't strapped in properly #mumlife 🙃
 
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Aaaaaaaaa12

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Can’t believe I’m moving to Lanzarote next week for 7 days. Might cry the day we leave that it’ll be the last time I brush my teeth at my bathroom sink 🥺
 
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