I’d love an explanation in a TikTok please Roly poly about why you feel it’s appropriate to have a 13 year old boy hitting puberty sharing a room with his younger sister, while your two eldest boys have their rooms and their girlfriends over constantly/they’re out of the house. Shall I tell you why I think you do this?
You see Charlie and to a lesser extent Cooper, as the cool kids in your family and your validation comes from them and their friends as well as kids online. You being able to be in on that cool gang (as shown with the pork crackling video and the lads in the garden) is your *ultimate* validation.
You’ve found a niche. A father who uses TikTok, not for other parents, but to come across like a cool Dad so teenagers say how cool you are and how much fun your household looks. Remind you of anyone? I’ve read the comments on your videos, kids comment, the adults give actual opinions which you don’t like so delete and block. You want to come across as this amazing family man who’s down with the kids, but to me as an adult you seem to be blowing your kids career and social media presence up in smoke. When Charlie’s first employer searches his name, theyre going to find a video of him simulating sex in a kitchen with his father filming. When Duclie’s friends at gymnastics and clubs find your account and see her behaviour, why would they want to be friends with a kid who screams and shouts when she doesn’t get her own way? I wish you could see the damage you’re doing to your children and their lives going forward, but you’re so caught up in validation via TikTok, Charlie and Cooper I don’t think you’ll ever let it go. Nobody would care about your cooking videos and the odd pop-up from them, but whether they see it or not, you are massively overstepping boundaries and invading their privacy at such a pivotal point in their development either into independence in Dulcie and Clark’s case, or adulthood for the other two. It’s a shame, because you could’ve had a brilliant account if you concentrated on cooking and food rather than filming every movement of your family.
Never would I EVER think about doing that. Yes, they look untouched, but how do you know they haven’t dropped on the floor, been licked by human or dog in that pub, touched my unwashed hands etc 
) so the comments blowing smoke up your arse are making you feel a big man. 
no money, no ego, no nothing could convince me this is ok. Why do you think there are so many saves on certain videos? 
