Lets put this situation into perspective here..
Arthur wanted kids, Brian not so much, he couldn't care less - so I guess Arthur pursued the idea. Then randomly one day whilst out for a walk, Aoife offered her womb to them. Don't tell me she wasn't coerced into it & that Arthur hadn't been harping on about it for years!
So then starts the surrogacy journey - the lads making sure that the egg came from a woman who was 'model' material - first red flag that they wanted the child to 'look good' so they could benefit from it in the future in terms of modelling, social media etc
Then Bu-lake is born - Arthur is her genetic father but Brian has no genetic connection to her. So he is afforded the token privilege of naming her. And he is quite explicit in the media that he chose a name starting with the letter 'B' so that she would have least have the same initials as him - BDG,. Another red flag - Brian's need to feel connected to her, why when you are in Daddy mode??. Then came the book, 'documentary', TV shows about how Brian is so hard done by when it comes to birth certificates, legalities around surrogacy etc. Has he pursued his 'rights' since?? No, because he couldn't care less!!
Similar naming concept when Bah-luu arrived... same initials - here is Brian once again trying to show he is connected to those kids. It is pathetic. He couldn't care less about them. Tokenism
And where is Aoife in all this mess?? Oh yeah, living in the box room as an au pair.
Fuck you Arthur & Brian - those children deserve so much better.