Noonoosanne2

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I know Ashley & Saf are a bit of a touchy subject after what they have been through & I wouldn’t wish it on anyone, I may be in the minority here but I just wish they would both take a break away from social media, I know we only see a snippet of their lives but they really need to step away & grieve alone for a while, I feel Ashley is on the verge of a breakdown I know exercise is good for the Mind but he actually worries me that he doesn’t rest, it would be good to see them go away as a couple, I know they are starting The charity which is fantastic that Azalyias legacy will live on.
I will probably get slaughtered for saying this but I think the party in the cemetery tonight was a bit much it really isn’t the place for something like this I found it quite disrespectful towards the surroundings. Saf is looking more fragile and lost, it’s such a weird one as I cringe when she asks where she can get things from & recommendations on her stories when she knows she’s going to get gifted something
Sorry I’m really going on I just needed to get a few things off my chest ! I really do like the both of them and like I said I just think they need to step away & grieve
 
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Make It Stop

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Saf has done a story in the Sun. Said Ashley initiated the break up when he was drunk, that he’d taken to the drink after A died and would stay out all night or come home late and stay on the sofa. He asked her to have another baby at the grave but then went on to get someone else pregnant. She’s basically admitting that he is a Narc and she did everything to pacify him in the hope he’d want her back. Fair play Saff 👍🏻
 
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Millsy

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Long time lurker here!
Finally plucked up the courage to post. I’m Nuneaton born and bred and still live in the town. I also have a baby in the same cemetery as A, actually opposite A’s grave ( It’s not a chuffin garden!)
I’m actually furious they are allowed to decorate the grave the way they have. How are they allowed a plot 10 times bigger than any other child? My baby’s grave is tiny in comparison. I find it so difficult now to visit the grave, for me it’s a place of quiet reflection, I would be so intimidated if their clan was there while I was visiting my Son. The plots for babies are directly opposite A’s. Why wasn’t she with all the other babies? I now find myself going less and less as I just can’t face going in case they are all gathered partying and playing music. It’s so disrespectful. It also baffles me how they are allowed to visit very late at night, as the cemetery closes to the public during certain hours. I just feel as though they are getting special treatment, my baby matters too.
 
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Poppysmimi

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I don’t often share details of my own family but my son died aged 6 months from a heart defect. It’s true you need something to help channel your grief before it swallows you whole but I can’t imagine grieving in public like this. I already felt vulnerable enough. Personally, I was angered when people called my son brave. I don’t know why. He was six months old and didn’t know how to be brave. What occurred was all he knew. It was shit and unfair. I certainly didn’t post pictures of me holding his dead body on Instagram when he passed away. Nor did I have loads of family members around with loud music playing, bouncing him up and down. He died peacefully, in private, with dignity, with his dad and me, surrounded by his favourite teddies and his favourite songs from CocoMelon playing.

I had family members who never even met my child banging on about it over social media and one person even set up a go fund me to pay for the funeral without asking. I reported the page as my boys funeral was free. I didn’t need the money.
I absolutely can’t fucking abide grief tourists. They are sick in the fucking head.
 
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SipTea4

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I had to unfollow them. When saf shared a video when Azaylias nose was bleeding in her final days. I felt extremely uncomfortable, That poor baby had no privacy in life and death. Even my mum mentioned to me she felt there Instagram where a bit much. They need to grieve away from social media, It is not real life
 
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gigilouxx

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The one thing that has never sat right is the "my daughter" as though Safiyya was a vessel and just a womb.
His fucking cousins get more gratitude than his own baby mum. Yet everyday she gets up and carries on. My heart breaks for her, I don't even care if she wants free shit, she deserves free shit when even her own partner seems to do absolutely anything possible to avoid spending time with her. I wish I knew her personally, mum to mum she'd get the biggest hug going.
 
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gigilouxx

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Putting the scamdation aside for a second, my heart hurts at the thought of her alone in the house her daughter died in, whilst the one person who understands what she’s going through is getting pissed and not coming home, wondering where he is. He’s 100% abusive scum and I hope women now steer fucking clear.
 
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So glad saffs told her side and confirmed she didn't congratulate him bet he's pulling on that beard hard stressing how to swerve this one 🤣
 
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Redtea2

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She was on a talk podcast the other day and she said when A died the day she had to put her in the coffin Ashley was nowhere to be seen so she had to do it alone she said her last goodbyes which Ashley didn’t do

That broke my heart what a bastard that pig is
 
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That it girl get him straight under the bus
She’s no angel by all accounts but she was clearly madly in love with Ashley and he used that to his advantage and manipulated her while playing this grieving Dad. Guaranteed he was sleeping with Saff and several others. It’s likely she was completely blindsided by this.
Hopefully she can move in with her life, meet someone decent and have the family she wanted. Ashley is a total wrong un and he was punching in the first place.
I bet he’s sat fuming that his facade is about to start falling down like a house of cards.
 
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