I won’t be popular for saying this but I felt so choked for her talking about his drinking.
Unless you’ve been in that situation it’s probably hard to understand how horrendous living with someone with an alcohol problem can be, especially if they change after a drink. You resent everything about drinking and hate what it does to people. Avoid it on every occasion, and put up with people’s shit about how it’s boring that you’re not drinking, that you should loosen up etc etc, and then out of embarrassment you just laugh at yourself with them because you don’t want to say actually, I’ve spent my life around a drunk who turns into the devil after a drink, so yes I hate it!
Sorry a bit deep I know but I totally get why she feels like she does 😞
 
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PBMAKEUP

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Now we know Zoe dislikes Tommy can we imagine her face when she found out they kiss on NYE, when Zoe gave up her evening for Molly to go out.
 
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Upintheair83

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I know i shouldnt laugh because its a really serious problem, and so this isn't meant to offend anyone at all, especially as my cousin lost his life to complications around alcoholism last year. So I understand the heartache being an alcoholic can bring.

But the talk around Tommy behaving at Zoes wedding- iv got visions of Tommy stripping off and banging on his chest like a neanderthal at Zoes absolutely beautiful wedding now!!! iykyk! 🤣🤣🤣
 
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Th2020x

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Also, if there’s ever a reminder to not believe what you see on social media it’s how happy and loved up they looked in that anniversary post from Zoe’s wedding
 
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20wen

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I think Tommy is full of shit. He says he would always go to the pub with his brother, surely if he was getting black out drunk every night they’d stop him going or do something? Why were there no pictures of him from said pubs? He also stumbles on his words at one point he says ‘I was at the pub the other day, last year…’ and he’s not spoken about any sort of recovery, just that someone said he lost his wife so that changed everything? Doesn’t add up. I don’t think he was addicted to alcohol, more like every time he’d drink he’d just take it way too far and realistically mixed with drugs. Molly only cares about herself and her image and it doesn’t look good if she’s not supporting him through an ‘alcohol addiction’. She’d have surely got him help and looked like the saint who pulled him through the dark times etc. He’s defo brought drugs into the house with Bambi there or been a mess in front of Bambi.

but that’s just my thoughts…
 
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20wen

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That’s the other thing I don’t get he kept saying I never let anything interfere with being a dad, I was always up at 7am with the baby doing feeds etc. I’m sorry but if you were black out drunk every night until god knows what time there’s NO chance you’re getting up at 7 with the baby, going to the soft play etc… does not make sense. Well unless he had something strong enough to get him through the day?
 
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I don't think she's done this for publicity. It was obviously all fake perfect and the relationship was horrendous for the most part behind closed doors. Zoe very obviously hates him.

Also with people saying it's harsh she let people say he was cheating etc.... If I was her I wouldn't come out and say 'he's not cheated on me' as let's be honest, he probably has and then she'd look ridiculous defending him. She says 'there's probably a lot I still don't know' so she probably does know/assume he has.
 
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Chatterbox2412

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I actually think it’s refreshing that she has double chins and isn’t a wee skinny Minnie & is also happy to look pretty crap on YouTube etc with her hair slapped back and joggers on.
However I also think the whole split from Tommy was a massive publicity stunt, as somebody above said, she is full as dishwater & her clothing line was crap plus her fans are growing up and naturally stop following her life as they move on with their own…. they needed to find something to keep people interested!
 
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sydneymae

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Not to sound dramatic but it actually makes me feel a bit sick how she can’t even get her 2 year old little girl some colourful balloons for her birthday. No, they have to be soulless and beige. It’s horrible?! And again, the fact she’s got this huge mansion yet Bambis area is confined to a small space in the cold hallway. That speaks volumes to me about who she is as a mother.

BTW I caved and skimmed through the documentary (pointless really as it’s all on TikTok) but one thing I thought was horrible was actually her nana..! Such a cold woman, you can see where some of Deb’s coldness originally came from. There’s a moment when Molly, her nana and Deb are with Bambi at Deb’s house and the nana complained about love island being a ‘sexy show’ she kept repeating it clearly showing her distain.. (fair enough). But what really got me were two things; first was when Molly and Deb essentially confronted her about the fact that she used to always call Molly ‘vain’ and it just got really awkward. It was clear that Molly was really hurt by that growing up and the nana responded awkwardly and was like ‘I’m sorry I was so mean to you’. Then the second thing was when the documentary showed little clips of Molly as a young child ‘vlogging’ with the family camcorder, just making innocent little videos and in one of the clips her nan repeatedly tells her to ‘Shut Up! Shut Up!’ :oops:

I actually felt sorry for her or at least child Molly Mae. I know that Molly Mae now can be considered vain, though clearly very insecure but there’s nothing worse than someone repeatedly knocking a child’s confidence especially someone who should love you and be there for you such as her grandmother. Probably where some of that insecurity came from who knows.
 
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sydneymae

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Forgive me for I’m probably about to get crucified for this but does anyone else lowkey miss when Molly Mae was a bit ‘chavvier’ for lack of a better term lol? It somehow felt more novelty and authentically her compared to the super refined and ‘demure’ curated Pinterest aesthetic she has going on these days.

Obviously her style was atrocious and she looked a bit comical but it was at least a bit more interesting and clearly fit the vibe Tommy was after. Even the hair made more of a statement back then! But all that to me was what made ‘Molly Mae’. The long fake blonde hair, excessive filler & veneers, the fast fashion with a dash of Louis Vuitton 😂

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Chatterbox2412

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I don’t think he has an actual drink or drug problem at all, I think he is miserable and uses them in a recreational way that many lads his age do.

Molly is very very boring and likes to stay in watching Harry Potter and hugging a toy elephant, he strikes me as wanting to go out & live his life whether that means partying or not.

She admits to never having sex with him - not ideal for a young handsome lad like him regardless of the reason as he probably has girls throwing themselves at him.

He will forever live in his brothers shadow.

I think the alcohol & drugs situation has just been heightened for content to be honest but I do believe he would be happier with somebody else
 
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Hamandmushroom

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Finished watching it now. Really disappointed with how vague they kept things - felt like we didn't really know what was going on like what her and Tommy were arguing about or what incidents took place. She didn't open up or disclose any feelings really either.
I felt like all I learnt was that she was actually aware and did actually care about the Maebe blazer fuck up.
Fair enough if you want to keep things private, but don't market the documentary as a "tell all" especially heavily teasing the break up and barely revealing any details! It's uncomfortable seeing her whole family slagging Tommy off without giving us any context. How is the viewer supposed to conclude that it's justified - it just looks mean! Their relationship will never be the same again.

Also, 3x30 minutes episodes is the best they can do??? Boring and unprofessional!

Edit: her name should be Molly Mae VAGUE
 
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Instafamousssss

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In a nutshell what we can all take from this is that instagram and perfect couples ‘who never argue’ are utter bullshit. Tommy asked her to marry him because he knew she was probably on the verge of leaving him. Yet she posts a high production amazing proposal video in Ibiza where everyone is gushing over the pair of them when in actual fact molly thought he was a cheat for the car journey there and their relationship was falling apart because Tommy couldn’t commit to family life. It’s fake and hopefully this makes the young followers of hers realise that MM is not little miss realistic like she claims on her YouTube. She infact does everything in her power to make sure no body knows anything that really goes on in her life.
 
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MammaTubbs

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I stopped liking Zoe when she quit the army to be an influencer, basically riding Mollys success rather than carve her own path.
Maybe I have the morals of a cat, but if it was my life I'd rather churn out content on Insta than have someone shoot at me and cold showers 🤣

I'm the first to support our boys and girls, but that lifestyle is not for me 🙈🤣
 
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bananabutter

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Mollys mum is coming across very well. Which is strange considering the way sometimes she’s come across as cold on Mollys YouTube. She seems very wise and it seems she can see straight through the issues they are having.
 
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