Quarrantinemadness
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I won’t be popular for saying this but I felt so choked for her talking about his drinking.
Unless you’ve been in that situation it’s probably hard to understand how horrendous living with someone with an alcohol problem can be, especially if they change after a drink. You resent everything about drinking and hate what it does to people. Avoid it on every occasion, and put up with people’s shit about how it’s boring that you’re not drinking, that you should loosen up etc etc, and then out of embarrassment you just laugh at yourself with them because you don’t want to say actually, I’ve spent my life around a drunk who turns into the devil after a drink, so yes I hate it!
Sorry a bit deep I know but I totally get why she feels like she does
Unless you’ve been in that situation it’s probably hard to understand how horrendous living with someone with an alcohol problem can be, especially if they change after a drink. You resent everything about drinking and hate what it does to people. Avoid it on every occasion, and put up with people’s shit about how it’s boring that you’re not drinking, that you should loosen up etc etc, and then out of embarrassment you just laugh at yourself with them because you don’t want to say actually, I’ve spent my life around a drunk who turns into the devil after a drink, so yes I hate it!
Sorry a bit deep I know but I totally get why she feels like she does