Jbf
Chatty Member
ALEXANDRA.. OTHER GIRLS HAVE LOST THIER PERIODS FOLLOWING YOUR PLAN.. TAKE SOME F*UCKING RESPONSIBILITY AND ADDRESS THIS.
How to update your story, Alexandra Cane style:
1. Try to smell your top lip, take a selfie
2. Look thoughtfully into the distance
3. Make sure to include a notebook in shot to prove how knowledgeable you are
4. Post an unrelated caption about your 'profound' spiritual wisdom, to give the illusion that you're trying to help people and don't just fancy posting a selfie
5. Voila!
1. Try to smell your top lip, take a selfie
2. Look thoughtfully into the distance
3. Make sure to include a notebook in shot to prove how knowledgeable you are
4. Post an unrelated caption about your 'profound' spiritual wisdom, to give the illusion that you're trying to help people and don't just fancy posting a selfie
5. Voila!
Heyguysswipeup
VIP Member
What I hate with people like her is that when she had a fuller figure, she would talk about body positivity etc which is great. But now she is tiny, she keeps talking about how exercise is great and working out will make you feel better and keeps posing in her bra and undies (same again, this is fine) ...
BUT.. like a lot of other influencers.. this won’t last forever. She will eventually go back to her original fuller size and will probably do a sob story that she was actually mentally struggling when she was skinny and that she had a bad relationship with exercise/food!
I see this happen to so many people but when you have a large following, you are influencing sooo many young girls and for you to turn around in a few months time and say how truly unhappy you were when you were skinny will mess with a lot of heads.
Sorry if that makes no sense but this is why I never take advice from people like her as I know her behaviour/opinions will change soon after.
BUT.. like a lot of other influencers.. this won’t last forever. She will eventually go back to her original fuller size and will probably do a sob story that she was actually mentally struggling when she was skinny and that she had a bad relationship with exercise/food!
I see this happen to so many people but when you have a large following, you are influencing sooo many young girls and for you to turn around in a few months time and say how truly unhappy you were when you were skinny will mess with a lot of heads.
Sorry if that makes no sense but this is why I never take advice from people like her as I know her behaviour/opinions will change soon after.
Unbearable. It's no wonder she is alone all the time. Who wants to hear her preach her shit every minute.
And hold on a minute. So she made a fitness plan that resulted in an ED for herself and others, which she sort of admitted, yet she didn't even address the situation. She moved away from the business and left others to suffer, whilst going on holiday during a global pandemic and preaching to her followers about self healing? No accountability whatsoever???
And hold on a minute. So she made a fitness plan that resulted in an ED for herself and others, which she sort of admitted, yet she didn't even address the situation. She moved away from the business and left others to suffer, whilst going on holiday during a global pandemic and preaching to her followers about self healing? No accountability whatsoever???
WritersBlock
Well-known member
I find Alex’s public documentation of her journey so sad. I see a neverending descent into something really bizarre and unhealthy. I really liked her on Love Island and I’ve loved her honesty and bravery about overcoming adversity but she’s not right in the head, is she?
She’s become a thinly disguised anti-vaxxer and a sham. She talks a lot about body autonomy but never once does she highlight the benefits of modern medicine, and scientific advancement (of which there are many). She blanks out the word ‘vaccine’ as if it’s a derogatory term and presents a one-sided view of medicine through the distorted prism of own ongoing inner turmoil.
she acts as if the vax is compulsory: it is not. We still have choices and autonomy over whether we have it or not. She seems to be saying ‘you have a choice but don’t do it’ That’s not autonomy, that’s passive aggressive bias.
She doesn’t help her followers make informed decisions at all, nor does she use her influence for good. She lacks credibility and gives the appearance of someone stuck in a cult.
She’s become a thinly disguised anti-vaxxer and a sham. She talks a lot about body autonomy but never once does she highlight the benefits of modern medicine, and scientific advancement (of which there are many). She blanks out the word ‘vaccine’ as if it’s a derogatory term and presents a one-sided view of medicine through the distorted prism of own ongoing inner turmoil.
she acts as if the vax is compulsory: it is not. We still have choices and autonomy over whether we have it or not. She seems to be saying ‘you have a choice but don’t do it’ That’s not autonomy, that’s passive aggressive bias.
She doesn’t help her followers make informed decisions at all, nor does she use her influence for good. She lacks credibility and gives the appearance of someone stuck in a cult.
AllSeeingEye123
VIP Member
In the comments to her latest Instagram post that she's stopped everyone being allowed to reply to is a comment from mother_of_girls_82 asking what's happened and part of her reply says "something which is personal to me and doesn't need to be aired publicly". So you're that upset you want to get your phone out, add a filter whilst crying and then post for the world to see, but ban comments being put on the Instagram post and claim it doesn't need to be aired whilst adding the fuel to people wondering by you posting it in the first place.
Lovethegossxoxo
Well-known member
She’s said she’s grieving something which is personal to her and doesn’t need to be aired publicly. But shes puts a video of her supposedly crying with a full face of make up for publicity. Honestly so disgusted with her.
Iv suffered an ED and am also a qualified nurse who has worked in the field.... All I'm saying is that she's absolutely taking the p+++. It does not just take a couple of days and insta posts to recover. You don't just "gain weight" with an ED and be "happy about it". It takes therapy and time and medical observation in some cases. She's making it look a breeze to recover from a condition that can kill, just so she can make more money. Narcissist!!!!!
I guess she will be refunding all those who bought her plan? Wonder if people who bought her plan feel like a failure that they didn't develop an ED then?
I guess she will be refunding all those who bought her plan? Wonder if people who bought her plan feel like a failure that they didn't develop an ED then?
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So sick of her nonsense... ‘I don’t feel safe online’ ‘I’m not a professional’
WELL you behaved like one when you pushed your poxy plan down the throats of thousands of impressionable ladies.... it actually makes me sick, I cannot stand her! I used to like her and feel sorry for her but she is a disgrace.
WELL you behaved like one when you pushed your poxy plan down the throats of thousands of impressionable ladies.... it actually makes me sick, I cannot stand her! I used to like her and feel sorry for her but she is a disgrace.
I found myself here because I used to know Alex personally but she went completely off the radar so when searching for her I came across this thread and thought you may want to know a few facts (if you didn't already know)
She used to do my makeup when I was a model. She has always been weird.... she was so rude and stuck up and thought she was better than everyone else. She was bitchy and slagged everyone off. She even used to be jealous of the models and slag us off to each other saying she could do a better job and she would flirt with the male photographers. She would arselick the boss of the companies and make friends with the top girls so she could use them to get into high profile events - such as Demi Rose. She used Demi so much. They were "best friends" until many people made Demi finally realise Alex was just latching onto her for fame and followers... this was way before love island!
she was always desperate to be well known and popular / famous but always just the boring makeup artist with no personality behind the scenes who no one cares about so she started doing cringey attention seeking things... she took her top off at shoots and parties and would get drunk and shout stupid things thinking she was crazy and funny and bang on about how she was meant to be a professional dancer but hurt her knee bla bla. but she was just embarsssing. She tried to get with footballers, models, reality stars, dj's. She was always hanging around! we got on ok at first because she sucked up to me on the first few shoots and told me how pretty i am and that we should go out and asked for my number etc. but when she found out I am just a normal model with a husband and family who doesn't go out much anymore - she realised I wasn't any benefit to her, so changed her tune and lost interest and barely spoke to me because she knew I could see through her fake ness!!... until she realised i was going to be on the cover of a well known magazine so begged me to do my makeup and credit her for it but i already found someone else instead!
she was already into drugs, she'd come to all of the parties coked up and asking for drugs in the toilet. she'd always be trying to get photos with celebrities and she'd be at the after parties taking pills and getting with z listers, girls used to hang around with her purely to get free hair and makeup styling from her. she had no genuine friends. she was always a hungover mess and cried at the photoshoots saying she felt fat and ugly and wish she could be a model or dancer. she was soooo annoying!
she only got onto love island through an agent who managed the models. When she fell out with demi she couldn't cope being a nobody again so begged him to get her on there and then started trying to be an influencer / youtuber
on love island everyone thought she came across so well and when i told people i knew her and she's not a nice person, no one believed me! and said she seemed really lovely and down to earth.... she is very good at presenting herself and pretending to be sweet innocent and polite but really she's a mess
I don't know anything about all this personal stuff with her family dying so can't comment on it but seems like she's fully lost the plot. I don't wish bad on her or anyone but in a weird way I'm glad her true colours are coming out. she's not a genuinely nice person... she's mean. she's uses people. she doesn't care about anyone it's all about her. she's very selfish! she fell out with demi because she got jealous that people loved demi and would comment how pretty she is all the time and she couldn't cope with being second best. she's so toxic! hope she gets some proper therapy and sorts herself out as all this spiritual jumbo jumbo and drugs doesn't seem to be helping her at all! weird
She used to do my makeup when I was a model. She has always been weird.... she was so rude and stuck up and thought she was better than everyone else. She was bitchy and slagged everyone off. She even used to be jealous of the models and slag us off to each other saying she could do a better job and she would flirt with the male photographers. She would arselick the boss of the companies and make friends with the top girls so she could use them to get into high profile events - such as Demi Rose. She used Demi so much. They were "best friends" until many people made Demi finally realise Alex was just latching onto her for fame and followers... this was way before love island!
she was always desperate to be well known and popular / famous but always just the boring makeup artist with no personality behind the scenes who no one cares about so she started doing cringey attention seeking things... she took her top off at shoots and parties and would get drunk and shout stupid things thinking she was crazy and funny and bang on about how she was meant to be a professional dancer but hurt her knee bla bla. but she was just embarsssing. She tried to get with footballers, models, reality stars, dj's. She was always hanging around! we got on ok at first because she sucked up to me on the first few shoots and told me how pretty i am and that we should go out and asked for my number etc. but when she found out I am just a normal model with a husband and family who doesn't go out much anymore - she realised I wasn't any benefit to her, so changed her tune and lost interest and barely spoke to me because she knew I could see through her fake ness!!... until she realised i was going to be on the cover of a well known magazine so begged me to do my makeup and credit her for it but i already found someone else instead!
she was already into drugs, she'd come to all of the parties coked up and asking for drugs in the toilet. she'd always be trying to get photos with celebrities and she'd be at the after parties taking pills and getting with z listers, girls used to hang around with her purely to get free hair and makeup styling from her. she had no genuine friends. she was always a hungover mess and cried at the photoshoots saying she felt fat and ugly and wish she could be a model or dancer. she was soooo annoying!
she only got onto love island through an agent who managed the models. When she fell out with demi she couldn't cope being a nobody again so begged him to get her on there and then started trying to be an influencer / youtuber
on love island everyone thought she came across so well and when i told people i knew her and she's not a nice person, no one believed me! and said she seemed really lovely and down to earth.... she is very good at presenting herself and pretending to be sweet innocent and polite but really she's a mess
I don't know anything about all this personal stuff with her family dying so can't comment on it but seems like she's fully lost the plot. I don't wish bad on her or anyone but in a weird way I'm glad her true colours are coming out. she's not a genuinely nice person... she's mean. she's uses people. she doesn't care about anyone it's all about her. she's very selfish! she fell out with demi because she got jealous that people loved demi and would comment how pretty she is all the time and she couldn't cope with being second best. she's so toxic! hope she gets some proper therapy and sorts herself out as all this spiritual jumbo jumbo and drugs doesn't seem to be helping her at all! weird
arabellaElle
Member
She’s as bad as a guy I went on a date with a few weeks ago, a guy who knows I’m chronically sick & have had cancer 6 years ago. He told me I shouldn’t tell anyone I’m fully vaccinated, modern medicine is a myth & money making scheme. Apparently there’s a natural alternative to every medicine and a natural cure for every single illnesses that are all man made. I clapped back with “yeah, death...” but I’m wrong. I’ll just tell my doctor I’m gonna stop taking steroids and use plants to replace cortisol I don’t produce to keep me alive. Then he said young people who get cancer bring it on themselves, chemo is a “rubbish waste of time, it doesn’t even cure it”, I explained chemo is not a cure and it often gives people time they desperately need and some quality of life.
I asked him wtf he was getting af and he said “young people obviously don’t look after their bodies and pretty much ask for it.” Brilliant, I’ll tell my team I wanted cancer at the age of 20 when I didn’t drink because I couldn’t tolerate it nor did I smoke then shall I? I’m sure they’ll agree I wanted it. I’ll ask if I can have the 3/4 of my pancreas that’s missing back with the cancer as well as my spleen and gallbladder. The same man enjoys going to raves and ingesting Coca-Cola, K & various forms of pills that he doesn’t know exactly what’s in them but it’s ok bc modern medicine is only there to keep pharma companies on business and fund the Freemasons. Im gonna tell him that he should slide in Alex’s DMs, they’d get on great with their warped and offensive views. pair of fucking idiots. He keeps asking to see me again, said it wasn’t a good idea because he might catch a chronic illness from me. She is dangerous and is going down a slippery slope here
I asked him wtf he was getting af and he said “young people obviously don’t look after their bodies and pretty much ask for it.” Brilliant, I’ll tell my team I wanted cancer at the age of 20 when I didn’t drink because I couldn’t tolerate it nor did I smoke then shall I? I’m sure they’ll agree I wanted it. I’ll ask if I can have the 3/4 of my pancreas that’s missing back with the cancer as well as my spleen and gallbladder. The same man enjoys going to raves and ingesting Coca-Cola, K & various forms of pills that he doesn’t know exactly what’s in them but it’s ok bc modern medicine is only there to keep pharma companies on business and fund the Freemasons. Im gonna tell him that he should slide in Alex’s DMs, they’d get on great with their warped and offensive views. pair of fucking idiots. He keeps asking to see me again, said it wasn’t a good idea because he might catch a chronic illness from me. She is dangerous and is going down a slippery slope here
Sickofinstacrap
Well-known member
I said this earlier on her her thread but she’s the definition of jumping on the band wagon. First she was all body posi because she was a size 12, god forbid, then she did that whole skin thing telling everyone her progress with her face falling off her, then it was the weight loss app thing, then the home account, then the travel blogger thing, then the launching her own brand of primark knock of leggings where you can see your knickers through the fabric, and now she’s all spiritual and going through grief and back to body posi and bloated belly hugging. I, myself, have a mother with a terminal illness, never in my wildest dreams would I be putting up videos of myself crying, AGAIN telling other people (who might relate) how they should be feeling. I know everyone grieves differently but to me, my grief is very personal and only my therapist and my boyfriend actually see me go through the motions. Her mum does NOT need to see videos of her daughter crying to 1.2m people or aluding to her illness. I can’t cope with these influencers trying to make a buck out of anything even something as sacred as their parent becoming terminally unwell.
Gamu
VIP Member
Why do all z listers scream about their mental health or reference Caroline Flack whenever they’re called out or rightly criticised for something? Alexandra is not qualified to advise people on weight loss, I’ve seen her ’what I eat in a day’ videos and its pretty clear she lost weight through eating less than 1200 calories and over exercising, not through 10 minute HIIT sessions.
champagnemami99
Chatty Member
Hi guys, I hope this is not too long-winded and hopefully someone actually reads it and this situation has more eyes on it.
If you agree with my email, I strongly encourage others to send the same email, I am happy to paste the text for you to copy and amend yourself.
Please let me know if I have missed something.
As I said in the email, we are living in a world where mental health is crumbling, and mental health support in the NHS is completely over-subscribed. Let's do something to stop these influencers making profits from and encouraging eating disorders, it is 2021.
If you agree with my email, I strongly encourage others to send the same email, I am happy to paste the text for you to copy and amend yourself.
Please let me know if I have missed something.
As I said in the email, we are living in a world where mental health is crumbling, and mental health support in the NHS is completely over-subscribed. Let's do something to stop these influencers making profits from and encouraging eating disorders, it is 2021.