A rare one from me. I know he thinks we are terrible people, however I was actually very moved on their live on Saturday when Paul briefly talked about his childhood abuse. I sincerely believe him on this one, and think it explains a lot. When my children were 11 I knew exactly where they were and who they were with. They certainly didn't know what a stripper was
. In my opinion he was neglected and possibly drawn to the attention other adults were giving him regarding his obsession he had with them
.
None of that excuses his behaviour but does give a valid reason for it.