I know Ella and Tim are to blame for this so I want to make that clear I understand the kids aren’t to blame but omg they have made Heze a very selfish , entitled , spoilt rotten , attention seeking , demanding and rude child and that’s not something to be proud of! the way he sits there sulking speaking bluntly and with a selfish attitude is sad. It’s a horrible way to be and they’ve made him become this way. He thinks the world revolves around him and you know what I don’t blame him at all for thinking that because he’s been made the golden child of the family all these years with everyone feeding his ego so it’s no surprise he expects special treatment and attention all the time cause it’s all he’s ever known. He expects everything to be the way he wants and for everyone to follow the routine that he likes all the time which is very controlling and he’s become a mini Tim.
Heze sadly has no personality he’s dull, judgmental cause he thinks he’s better than everyone and he doesn’t know how to chill out and have fun. He’s like a robot he shows very little emotion which is concerning and he can’t stand it when someone else is getting attention. In my opinion he has some mental health problems too that seriously need addressing because I could see those problems getting worse. All he cares about is football and it’s one thing to love something but he’s unhealthily addicted and Ella said he makes the whole family sit down every day to discuss their training plans wtf. These siblings don’t bond in a normal way of just chilling together watching a movie or playing together. Everything has to revolve around football and Tim is running his own little cult.
Would of it of killed Heze to be happy for Hosanna having fun for her birthday? Ella and Tim should of used that moment to do the right thing for once and properly put Heze in his place and tell him not everything is about you and how you want it. Unfortunately they’ll never do that because he’s their favourite child and in past videos they both have basically said he’s their favourite and Heze knows it. When Tim was asking Heze does he ever have fun and Heze said no and was just talking about football being his life and the way he talks he clearly looks down on kids who act like kids and have fun cause he thinks he’s so mature for his age when he isn’t at all! it’s sad he thinks the way he acts is normal and a decent parent would see that’s messed up that their kid takes everything so seriously and doesn’t know how to have fun and relax.