If it's true, we already predicted this waaaay before her marriage huh? It was very very rushed and sudden and remember she didn't even wear a dress she liked? Do you guys remember when she first posted that clip idk on tt or her IG when they had a dress fitting? We all pretty much loved all the looks and in the end she was wearing something completely different, a look she said she didn't even really liked (much). I still think she looked really nice on her wedding day but remember we all thought it was sad she wasn't allowed to wear a dress she loved no matter the style? That was already a huge red flag for me.
Her family already was very controlling then, and also before do you guys remember? When she still lived at home and bought new clothes and tried them on and showed her family (keep/not keep), I remember Chloe often telling her it was too revealing when you could barely see any skin at all!
I think now her husband is probably in many ways also controlling her. I don't know in what ways but he does seem to want to make a lot of decisions for her/them. Also like wasn't she always sitting in the cold at home not turning on the heating system? I don't know if it was her own decision in order to save money or it was him telling her it would be a great way to do so, but it still gave us a bit of an ick didn't it? I mean, i also sit in the cold all winter and it does save me a LOT of money so I'm totally on board but it did seem like she wasn't on board that's the big issue.
I also don't think she's capable of having a proper conflict. I think she never learned to have a good conflict at home and how to problem solve things like that. Everybody always "ruled" over her, she never truly got her way/say and I think that affects her relationship right now.
I grew up in a household where we had a lot of conflicts, we argued, cried and raised our voices a lot - yes, those time were really really tough for me and in those ways my house was often an "unsafe" space for me. Not physically but mentally. But I did learn a lot from it and we also grew very very close over time because we pushed each other, set boundaries, learned about each other, listened, talked, argued, and in the end we always resolved our issues one way or another. Yes, arguing and a conflict is tough, but also important because you learn what your personal boundaries are, how to set them, how to ask for them and you also learn those of someone else, how to respect them and how to compromise. I don't think she's capable of that at all and I think that is really affecting her mental health. The shine off the wedding preparations + the wedding wore off and it lost it's novelty/freshness the reality is really hitting her I think~