I’d feel bad for the kids if so, but I feel bad for the poor work horse kids now anyway so what’s the differenceI really wouldn’t be surprised if they’ve broken up.
I was surprised tbh, not so much the racism and public disgracing element but with the huge fall in income, it’s a lot for any marriage to withstand. My husband knows quite a few men who’ve been stung in a same but different way, you know when all these ridiculous tax setups people use got rumbled it left a lot of these men owing a LOT, a lot of them ended up divorced or just now with women that hate their guts. Not shaming the women here as I’d feel exactly the same, like whether you’re conning the taxman or being a racist ultimately you’ve binned your family’s very comfortable financial situation for stupid antics that show such a lack of judgment? I can’t imagine how you’d recover from the feelings of betrayal alongside all the additional stress it incurs now you have to live off less etc etc? I do think love conquers all but I’d need therapy to help