hi AliceWe know this is true though - sure, Simon is a smug twit and Clemmie is Clemmie (I don't actually dislike her that much - I read through a LOT of posts and she didn't say anything that bad compared to what we say about them) but it is hard when the kids get older and protest more and you of get less and less time to be a couple and have an evening. We all go through it, it's hard.