Zoe Hague #2

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I get the impression with zoe that perhaps the novelty of being an “influencer” has worn off, she left her job didnt she to do it and it feels like she doesnt massively enjoy the fitness stuff / goes through phases with it so struggles to actually fill her days with things and that is recently reflecting in the vlogs. She has such a lovely life (as far as we see) but seems to lack a lot of umph and would maybe benefit from having more structure. Or maybe i am wrong
 
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I follow a girl who gave up her job to be a conte creator and eventually went back to her 9-5 job and still creates content on the side.
She said she couldn’t cope with the lack of structure/routine and also complained about how lonely it was.
I guess if you are used to going to an office or other work based environment and having conversations with people/after work drinks etc to being alone most of the time and talking to your phone & having to film yourself making porridge, it must feel a bit weird 🥴
It’s no wonder they all have mental health issues!
 
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I get the impression with zoe that perhaps the novelty of being an “influencer” has worn off, she left her job didnt she to do it and it feels like she doesnt massively enjoy the fitness stuff / goes through phases with it so struggles to actually fill her days with things and that is recently reflecting in the vlogs. She has such a lovely life (as far as we see) but seems to lack a lot of umph and would maybe benefit from having more structure. Or maybe i am wrong
Think this is exactly it. All her friends who she seems to be obsessed with (fern, Lydia, Saskia) all have jobs & commitments and full lives and manage to do their fitness and content bits on the side (bar fern who is private) whereas zoe seems to live a very nothing-y existence in comparison. I’m sure them girls probably look at Zoe’s life with envy sometimes when they’re trying to make it to Friday with their sanity intact like the rest of us🤣, trying to meet deadlines and keep all the plates spinning etc. but there is ALOT to be said for what having a consistent, fulfilling job (that you’ve wanted or worked for) where you’re needed, valued and you make a difference (to your team/colleagues/students/clients/patients not bringing about world peace lol) does for you subconsciously more than anything probably. Self esteem/self worth (which she is lacking a lot at the min), socialisation, routine, stimulation, freedom, confidence etcetcetc
 
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I can’t take influencers seriously at all. An ad for jacket potatoes????? Are ya joking
 
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From a mega meaningful, important, respectable career path in the British Army Medical Corps, with previous dreams of being on the frontline (she has said this in interviews), to advertising jacket potatoes as an influencer. I simply cannot.
 
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Feel like her YouTube video today just highlights that shes a bit lost / unsure of herself. Also found it interesting that she kind of indirectly said that she isnt as close to midas as bambi because molly doesnt need her this time.
 
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I wonder if she is missing the army and the fact that your life is organised for you when serving. You’re told where to go, what to do and it has strict parameters. Civvy life doesn’t have that and also influencing is such a vacuous life that maybe she is struggling with this.
I grew up in Colchester so a garrison town and we had a lot of ex squaddies there who also found once out of the army they didn’t quite know what to do with themselves and the lack of camaraderie when out.
 
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I wonder if she is missing the army and the fact that your life is organised for you when serving. You’re told where to go, what to do and it has strict parameters. Civvy life doesn’t have that and also influencing is such a vacuous life that maybe she is struggling with this.
I grew up in Colchester so a garrison town and we had a lot of ex squaddies there who also found once out of the army they didn’t quite know what to do with themselves and the lack of camaraderie when out.
I was going to basically write this about day to day routine but you’ve summed it up perfectly.

I remember being made redundant once and I got a decent lump of money so wasn’t too worried about getting another job. The first couple of weeks were wonderful, floating around and doing whatever but after a month or so I just felt kind of lost and like I was missing out on daily life and interactions.

I kind of feel that’s where she’s at.
 
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Feel like her YouTube video today just highlights that shes a bit lost / unsure of herself. Also found it interesting that she kind of indirectly said that she isnt as close to midas as bambi because molly doesnt need her this time.
I find that kind of sad. The only reason molly ever has her round is to do stuff she cba to do herself
 
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Asking the dog what’s his problem is first thing in the morning.. perhaps it’s coz the dogs 11 months old been stuck in a crate all night and probably been waiting to get out of it whilst you get yourself changed as you didn’t come down to get him out first .. might have something to do with it
 
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Feel like its a nice dress but doesnt fit her properly. Feel like she doesnt know how to dress for her frame or figure & always wears just boxy outfits. Fair enough if that what she likes, dont know if she is influenced by Molly’s style of covered up clothed rather than anything more figure hugging etc.
 
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Just watched her new video why is everything Danny this Danny that?! She is such a simp for him and never thinks of herself.

Got a pergola coming for over the bbq because it’s in sunlight and Danny burns, isn’t sure on the orange dress but then Danny likes it so she now likes it, doesn’t like the blue dress because Danny doesn’t like it, having the BBQ in an hour even though she was hungry then because Danny wants to, and that’s just what I can remember off the top of my head!
 
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Just watched her new video why is everything Danny this Danny that?! She is such a simp for him and never thinks of herself.

Got a pergola coming for over the bbq because it’s in sunlight and Danny burns, isn’t sure on the orange dress but then Danny likes it so she now likes it, doesn’t like the blue dress because Danny doesn’t like it, having the BBQ in an hour even though she was hungry then because Danny wants to, and that’s just what I can remember off the top of my head!
I just think it shows how controlling he is tbh
 
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Feel like its a nice dress but doesnt fit her properly. Feel like she doesnt know how to dress for her frame or figure & always wears just boxy outfits. Fair enough if that what she likes, dont know if she is influenced by Molly’s style of covered up clothed rather than anything more figure hugging etc.
The top part is just so ill fitting it looks awful
 
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