I’m glad I didn’t know about it either. The thought of it would have terrified me! But now I know that it’s true when they say the stuff you spend all your time worrying about is never actually as bad as you think it will be when it does happen.
I’d tell myself to not wait until next year to move house, book a winter break in Thailand over a European summer trip, and keep a couple of packets of pasta aside
I'd tell myself to not put up with any bullshit from people. Lord I've had enough of it this year to last a life time!
Regarding lockdown etc I'd say just keep your head down, do what you're doing and use the time off work to develop my skills ready for when the economy 'opens' again.
At the start of 2019 I would of told myself that you can allow yourself to be happy.
Don't let the words and actions of a domestic abuser ruin your future.
Now in 2020 I have a lovely boyfriend who is also a great role model to my son. He has supported me through so much and together I know we have a future.
I’m so happy for you. I’m still waiting on my happy ending. I though 2020 would be THE year but it’s just meh and I Didn’t think Anything could be worse that 2019