I watched Kathy Burke: Money Talks last night, I find money and the social impact of wealth fascinating. Purely on monetary terms (inc. assets and income) what do you see as being rich? To me, I would say over £2mil in assets and cash.
Guarantee you majority of people on Instagram are not as rich as they lookYep so many people these days like to look rich but aren’t interested in actually being rich! Spending lots on fancy things to look like they’ve made it, but it’s all debt or financed.
I was actually just thinking about this today because I saw a girl shopping around at some fancy department store earlier this afternoon. She had two massive Chanel shopping bags (more than likely carrying bags / shoes), was carrying the classic flap and was dressed all black. She was literally holding those two huge bags like this (OK, this is not a shopping bag, but you get the idea).Yep so many people these days like to look rich but aren’t interested in actually being rich! Spending lots on fancy things to look like they’ve made it, but it’s all debt or financed.
Couldnt agree with this more, people with real riches don’t need to show off as they are content enough with actually being rich. I remember once going to a department store and I got completely ignored too because I wasn’t in designer things by the sales assistantsI was actually just thinking about this today because I saw a girl shopping around at some fancy department store earlier this afternoon. She had two massive Chanel shopping bags (more than likely carrying bags / shoes), was carrying the classic flap and was dressed all black. She was literally holding those two huge bags like this (OK, this is not a shopping bag, but you get the idea).
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While some people may envy someone who can buy various luxury bags and items, for me, this is not it. These Chanels / Hermes / LV bags are not the bags of the "elite" like they used to because they've become so popular that people are willing to get into debt to get one. Besides, given the amount of fakes out there, carrying a Chanel bag isn't proof to anyone you've made it. It screams nouveau riche. Same goes with those people who think their Tesla is a testament to their success.
For me being rich is a mix of various things:
I'm a regular single woman working in finance (not rich by any means), but it's quite funny when I go to department stores not dressed super stylish (but good quality non-fast fashion clothes), no makeup and an iPhone with a broken screen in hand (I'm keeping it this way on purpose because at least, no one will want to steal it or anything else from me), the sales assistants completely ignore me. I'm rather petite and look like a college student (I'm 31). They completely ignore me and almost bow to the obvious 20-something girls next to me who show up with an LV bag and the new iPhone in hand. Now, I don't care because I don't like to be bothered when I'm shopping, but it's funny how people attach so much importance to appearing rich. Those 20-something are probably using credit cards or draining their accounts to pay for that expensive pair of shoes or that £500 coat.
- Financial freedom: Being able to pay your bills / rent without even thinking about it or worrying about what you'd do if something were to happen (sickness, temporary loss of income etc..). It's being able to be secure in the idea that you're financially safe no matter the circumstances because you've a) saved enough money b) you've made wise investment moves.
- Owning property: Being able to own your own property and have another one (or a couple) that you're renting out to generate some extra-revenue.
- Legacy: Knowing that the day you leave this earth, you will have accumulated enough wealth to secure your dependents or family or whoever you want to leave your money to.
- Financial acumen: There is a difference between being rich and appearing rich. Of course, there are tons of nouveau riche who purchase luxury bags / shoes / entertainment items to plaster them all over, but truly rich people (we're talking old money), generally like to stick to classics, certainly know the value of money and remain conservative with frivolous purchases. It's understanding where your money goes and making a sound distinction between assets and liabilities (people love cars and boats, but those ultimately depreciate in value - maybe not boats maintained, but cars certainly). Rich people don't spend their money on luxury items they're going to eventually write-off for whatever reason. Truly rich people increase their assets while faux-rich people increase their liabilities.
- Ego: A truly rich person is secure within who they are to the point where they don't need to buy fancy items or eat at Michelin rated restaurants on the daily to prove to others they've made it. They don't need other people to validate them because they know they are wealthy.
The upkeep on them is huge. Unless they have cash flowing then they become a money pit. this is why so many are now owned by the state.Those people who own manor houses in the countryside. They must be rich as heck.
Yeah that's true. I was reading about this old guy who owned a big estate in the countryside. He had no children, so decided to pass on his estate to the gardener who he had befriended over the years. The gardener is only in his early 30s too, I think. That's gotta feel great for the gardener, how fortunate is that.The upkeep on them is huge. Unless they have cash flowing then they become a money pit. this is why so many are now owned by the state.
Just having things doesn't make you rich. I would be considered poor by many but I have everything I need and don't owe anyone a penny.