What are your plans or goals for 2021?

Nebbymoo · Dec 27, 2020

For me it has to be said I'm the master of making plans and setting goals then achieving none of them!
The only 2 things I'd like to do this year are to live a more minimal life and cut down what I spend/purchase.
I want to stop focusing on stuff and start living more in the moment and appreciate time/experiences instead.
What's your goals/plans for 2021?

plymouthbloke1974 · Dec 28, 2020

To ditch the deadwood from my life. You know... the people who send you a Christmas card but only because you sent them one first.... pisstakers...... also to be more direct with people and stopping being polite to rude people. I feel a rebirth is going to happen!!

Bubblesandflowers · Dec 28, 2020

I have quite a few financial goals this year. They're easy wins such as save X amount, earn X amount extra, put X into pension.

Personal goals -

1) Read 12 books. I wanted to read 26 this year but sadly only managed 14.

2) Positive mindset - "I get to" is something I saw online and I quite like. It helps you think of the positives in life. I get to have a warm home, I get to have food in my fridge, I get to show how good I am leading a project etc etc.

3) Maintain exercise/swimming 3 times a week minimum (this will be easier when Tier 4 ends! lol)

Ef27 · Dec 28, 2020

-I want to get in a proper healthy eating and workout routine again like I was in summer

-I also want to pass my driving test as I failed a few months ago

-Save up some money

-Try and spend more quality time with family and friends whenever things improve

-Travel again and move away like I had planned to pre covid

Nebbymoo · Dec 28, 2020

Well good luck all

I'm determined to actually stick to something this time.

Fancyfeathers · Dec 28, 2020

My plans are:-
Diet
Kick my ass into gear with language learning
Improve my life in all areas
Get back into journalling
Do more things for me

Dxmon · Dec 28, 2020

My plans are:
- Mainifest/journal everyday
- Exercise at least twice a week
- Put serious effort into looking for a new job (hopefully things are a bit better in 2021 so the job market is more stable)

watermelon sugar · Dec 28, 2020

Lose weight
Be the best Mum I can be
Put myself and my son first
Stop letting people walk over me

mochibean · Dec 28, 2020

Get a bum. It's so flat since I lost weight!
Eat healthier, less sugar.
Live more freely, covid has been so restrictive and I know it won't go away just yet but I want to live my life as much as possible!
Pass my 2nd year of uni.
Up my level in Japanese.
Keep a positive mindset.

Mulholland Drive · Dec 28, 2020

Give up the alcohol
decide where my future lies - England or South Africa
decide whether my recent engagement with my g/f will work out, depending on point 2
Take more IT qualifications/Certifications
Take up a new hobby like jet-skiing
Ignore MSM
Ignore social media other than Tattle
Try not to swear quite so much
Run more marathons and try for a top 100 finish
Love Life and duck negativity

bolimepipi · Dec 28, 2020

the main goal is to stop smoking!!
other than that, i want to decide what to do career-wise, i've been completely destroyed on that plan this year

i also want to get more into healthy eating, exercising and healthy living in general - not just to lose a bit of weight but to feel better
ideally i'd like to limit the use of my phone and laptop and live more in the moment
and keep my cat happy and satisfied :3

birdiefly246 · Dec 28, 2020

- do the splits (random I know but I've been learning to dance and I'm close)

- give up fizzy drinks again

- eat more. Got into a bad habit of only eating 1 meal a day and snacks. Need to get back to eating properly.

- look after my mental health a bit more. Sometimes I let myself suffer or do things that are bad for me but I think "oh I'll just suck it up". I don't want to do that anymore.

- put more distance and boundaries between me and some of the people in my life. I've made some really positive steps but I'm hoping I can disengage a bit more and focus more on me.

SavvyBee · Dec 28, 2020

Clear old credit cards and overall spend (and waste) less
Lose some weight and feel more confident in my body
Hopefully have a baby

Feel less guilt over things I really don’t need to feel guilt about

Elbow80 · Dec 28, 2020

1. Get to one year sober in June
2. Save some money and stop wasting it on stuff I don’t really need
3. Stick to doing yoga regularly - I started a while ago but it dropped off and I miss it

Misbehaving · Jan 20, 2021

Exercise especially yoga i have a few boderline serious health problems heart defect/boderline diabetic/terrible period pains and i find they are all having an impact on my mental health.
Basically i don't want to die early but i want to live not just survive.

Meditate access some internal space/peace

Start to find some pleasure in life again last year was so traumatic thats it made me realise just what i've been missing out on and how precious life is

This is the biggest one for me though and its to start being less needy.
I have been quite often very harsh on myself and also looking to others for validation and support and its left me really out of sorts and drained...
Its a bit chrushing to feel raw and yet you can almost feel people rolling their eyes again like oh no not her again...
I've got this really unhealthy thing though of seeing others through rose tinted spectacles and then feeling small and insignificant about myself.
So my number one goal is to listen/be kinder to myself?