Wee Belfast Chick #2

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Someone ask on the thread did she let UC know she was away …has she a hidden disability someone said above her car is on pip
 
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Like I’m not criticising anyone who has children and goes out from time to time but this expectation that mums like Lauryn can have a baby and still choose to go out and then take a whole day or more to recover, blows my mind.
When you have kids you grow up - especially when you’re her age. She’s not particularly young to have kids.
Neither my husband’s parents or mine, were able to look after our kids. His parents were older than mine. His dad has a really bad stroke when our eldest was 6 months. My MIL went to the Nursing Home every day to be with him. They needed our support, rather than us having theirs. My dad still worked and my mum had poor health. Both of our siblings didn’t live in NI.
As a nurse, I worked mostly weekends to keep childminding costs down and my mum occasionally was able to manage her for a few hours.
There was nobody to have them for nights out - even if we’d wanted to.
When you have kids all of that stops. We never would have drank at home when they were small. We just didn’t think it was right.
I don’t know know if the rumours about her doing other stuff is true. I hate drugs. I really do. If you’re a parent, for me, there’s just no room for that kind of stuff in your life.
She’s always yapping on about Storie being her whole life - well what happens to your whole life if you go out and take something and it all goes wrong.
if you’re only responsible for yourself, it’s your choice. When you’re responsible for another life, it’s pure selfishness - especially if you’re a single parent.
She clearly doesn’t rate her ex as a dad. Would she want him to have Storie full time if she wasn’t around?
 
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Like I’m not criticising anyone who has children and goes out from time to time but this expectation that mums like Lauryn can have a baby and still choose to go out and then take a whole day or more to recover, blows my mind.
When you have kids you grow up - especially when you’re her age. She’s not particularly young to have kids.
Neither my husband’s parents or mine, were able to look after our kids. His parents were older than mine. His dad has a really bad stroke when our eldest was 6 months. My MIL went to the Nursing Home every day to be with him. They needed our support, rather than us having theirs. My dad still worked and my mum had poor health. Both of our siblings didn’t live in NI.
As a nurse, I worked mostly weekends to keep childminding costs down and my mum occasionally was able to manage her for a few hours.
There was nobody to have them for nights out - even if we’d wanted to.
When you have kids all of that stops. We never would have drank at home when they were small. We just didn’t think it was right.
I don’t know know if the rumours about her doing other stuff is true. I hate drugs. I really do. If you’re a parent, for me, there’s just no room for that kind of stuff in your life.
She’s always yapping on about Storie being her whole life - well what happens to your whole life if you go out and take something and it all goes wrong.
if you’re only responsible for yourself, it’s your choice. When you’re responsible for another life, it’s pure selfishness - especially if you’re a single parent.
She clearly doesn’t rate her ex as a dad. Would she want him to have Storie full time if she wasn’t around?
I wasn’t much older than her when I had my daughter and we didn’t have much help either. My husband worked 10/12 hr shifts, my mum lived too far away and my MIL worked FT, defiantly didn’t have anybody to take her and be out partying every weekend even if I wanted to. My mum would have hit me a slap and told me to wise up and grow up, her mum obviously enables her. You’ve a child and responsibilities now you need to knock it on the head. If you still want to be out doing that every weekend then don’t have kids, considering she had planned to have a baby, if you aren’t prepared to grow up and make life changes you aren’t prepared to be responsible for a child. Yes completely different now and again and not saying she doesn’t deserve a break but dumping your child on your parents or family every weekend to go on the lash isn’t it. If the drug taking is true the child should be taken off her sorry, don’t care if she’s not taking it round her. She needs to grow up, life changes when you’ve kids, if you aren’t prepared for that don’t have them. Ditching your kid every weekend to go do drink and drugs is awful.
 
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It’s written all over the child’s face that she isn’t getting what she needs. Lauryn really does need to knock it in the head, but she’s so far gone
 
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It was actually really obvious on holiday when she was with Zoe. She is much more relaxed.
There was a picture of them on the flight to New York and she was sleeping on Zoe’s shoulder and she looked so much more natural with her.
 
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They are way too thick and the girl can do nails as derarbhlas nails are always well done by her
 
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She actually isn’t. I have wondered if she isn’t saying things to wind people up but I actually don’t think she is 🤷‍♀️
 
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Anything to occupy her so Lauren doesn’t have to.. my 7yr old has asked Santa for a tv for her room but I’ve already told her he can’t bring it b/c she’s to young for that..
 
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