Victoria Emes

[rosieflowers]

Yes her dad was big time! She's def a champagne socialist.

Agree she is so stereotypical of the oliver bonas, slummy mummy but not really, bought their houses with inheritances, English degree, desperate to be edgy, private adult ADHD diagnosis, elder millennial mum crowd

 

[Itchy of Itchington]

A family member sent me a link to Victoria and said "she's so funny you'll love her" and now I'm wondering if my family know me at all! Should I cut off contact?

 

[skronkywildcat]

What does she think is so amazing about Brighton? Why is it the 'only' place? Does no other town in the UK have a shitty shingle beach and a drug problem?

 

[Duchesspink]

We don't need a new thread. I think she even bores us as what is there left to say about her?
She is a shite parent, she detests spending time parenting the children she brought into the world. She can't cope at all and needs to go to some parenting classes or get on the valium.
All of the sad sacks that comment agreeing with her, need a kick in the fanny too.
She bares her teeth like shergar, her stupid voice is overdone, her house is like an explosion in a paint factory and she dresses like an oversized toddler.

That's it in a nutshell. Welcome to the thread

 

[Duchesspink]

Let's face it, if she can't slate her kids/husband or talk about her tits or minge, she hasn't got any content.

Her whole persona is built on the frazzled mum with unruly kids with knackered body who just about gets time for a quick Masterbate occasionally.
If her account is about anything else, please enlighten me as I've not noticed any other content.

The donkey snarl and stupid gurning really boils my piss.

 

[Duchesspink]

Kids don’t want a rebel mum they want a nice mum, a bag of haribo and a trampoline.

Kids just want a mum that doesn't call them cunts to hundreds of thousands of people and doesn't tell everyone what wankers they are

 

[FrannyGallops]

Can’t stand her. I’m no prude but I find her absolutely rank. All that talk about cheesy nipples and arseholes and minges. The only good point is that she doesn’t show them (unlike the equally vile Knee Deep In Life) so there’s always that, I suppose.

 

[Bunbun1]

To be honest when I saw that reel earlier I got so far as "suspected adhd" and my eyes rolled back so far in my head that I was unable to see the rest.
I've just gone back and watched it through and I can honestly say that no, I cannot believe that seeing a task needs to be done, and doing that task, is now a symptom of ADHD according to social media? It's just doing a task. Not procrastinating is not hyper focus.
If you google DSMV you will see that a diagnosis of ADHD requires that symptoms negatively impacts directly on social and academic/occupational activities.
Gathering what is needed to complete a task, setting up a tripod to film yourself, completing the task, and editing and uploading a video of you completing the task, all in a timely manner, is not negtively impacting you on any level.

 

[FrannyGallops]

I unfollowed ages ago as it was just too negative for me and I couldn’t speak about my kid like that, sure she tests me and annoys me but I’d never call her a twat or any kind of swear word tbh in private or on social media. It’s like she’s got so used to being in a negative mindset and she can’t break out of it now. She’d probably be better with a different job that doesn’t involve talking about her kids in a negative way. Maybe she would appreciate them more then.

I’ve probably said it before, and I’m sure many others on the thread have said it already but if this was a working class mother calling her kids little shits and twats in the pub beer garden, someone would be calling social services on her. At the very least, she’d be getting snotty judgemental looks from other people. But because VE is a middle class mummy influencer, broadcasting to thousands over the internet, she gets showered with ‘yass Kween!’ comments and brand partnerships.

 

[Bunbun1]

Hi Vic!!! I see you've been reading here!

Parenting can be hard. My kid doesn't always behave the way I want. Sometimes we are so close to leaving for school and she suddenly pulls out her hair bobble and starts undressing. Sometimes she runs away from me when I go to pick her up. Sometimes she's just being very loud when I already have a headache, and a million and one other things. But none of these things define her, they don't make her a dick, they're all just age appropriate behaviours. And that doesn't diminish how hard they are to deal with, or prevent me from discussing it with other mums, but I would never call her a dick, knob, any of that, because she isn't. And because I don't want her discovering years from now this archive of videos of me saying that she's a knobhead, but just being a kid.
Yes you can love your kids and call them dickheads, but that doesn't negate the damage you are doing.

 

[Gentlemensrelish]

Why does the wholllle of Insta think they're beyond reproach?

Five hundred other shit mums 'yasssss queen, your kids are cunts' and one small voice saying '...that's...not very nice?' causes a tantrum.

It's pathetic. Stop slagging of your kids and get a real job.

One of them isn't even school aged, is she?!

 

[heretoreaditall2019]

I think this behaviour is really disturbing and must be damaging to her kids. You don’t whinge and complain about anything this much esp not your own kids and not have it impact on your relationship with them. I think Victoria needs to go on a parenting course ASAP as well as start some therapy. I understood the ‘slummy mummy’ back lash where mums weren’t scared to admit they weren’t all organic hummus and carrot batons snacks and only educational tv - but the level of anger, distaste and resentment for those two little kids raises some massive red flags to me. She made those kids and is raising them (mostly). If she thinks they’re that bad BE A BETTER PARENT!

I saw a thread on Mumsnet that spoke on this wave of like… anti children content and said do you think it in any way contributes to this wave of child killings. I don’t think it’s that clear cut an issue but it’s definitely interesting, kids are treated like second class citizens and it’s okay to violate their well-being in ways we simply wouldn’t do to adults (cry it out = emotional neglect, the naughty step = forced isolation, non consensual sharing of images or stories on social media, etc etc) and this content forms part of this slippery slope? Anything you simply wouldn’t post about an adult without them going eh? don’t post about your children. Mothers need support and an outlet (and trust me I know, we have no family nearby!) but creating bizarre songs calling your kids wankers and projecting it out to the entire of Instagram isn’t it.

And I don’t understand how ppl don’t see this as a form of abuse really. It’s publicly shaming, it’s violating, it’s a digital imprint they can’t get rid of, it is abuse. But because it’s filmed on an iPhone X Pro in a mortgaged property sandwiched between #ads it isn’t cause for concern? Safeguarding is all our responsibility esp after the recent horrible news and she’s such bad vibes red flags.

 

[Smell_my_cheese]

These instamums really annoy me when they assume that they can churn out whatever content they fancy and instantly jump on someone who has a differing view.

She happily calls her own children every name under the sun, slags them off, moans about them incessantly, and makes out she has it so hard. Then the second someone sends disagreeing view back she allows everyone to pile on whilst also bringing in that “it’s not that easy if you have neurodiverse children”.

I’m a parent to neurodiverse children but I don’t use it as an excuse to cover up my own shoddy behaviour. She brings that out purely because she’s been pulled up on her oversharing and use of her children for social media content.

 

[Shawads]

I’ve just been sent a link to this woman today, in a group chat.
she reminds me of every middle class academic ‘cool l’ mum I’ve ever met who has slightly changed their accent to sound less middle class but it still shows through.
The graduates who take their kids to have wild-ish times at festivals and have dinner parties where they might smoke some weed or do a bit of coke at the end but all earn loads of money in professional jobs now.

I don’t know her at all but watched some of her videos, if she’s filming from her house then she’s definitely middle class and well off, which is her real accent? Watched something where she was speaking in a posh voice , a poem or a rap then she was in generic ‘London’ mode.
The group she was shared in all loved her and joked about it but it left me cold, I swear all the time so it’s not that, it felt a bit gratuitous as though swearing to keep up the swear count as though it’s expected of her?

 

[chomper]

She used to make me laugh even though her interior decorating 'style' is peak changing rooms (in all the bad ways) but lately I just cannot cope with her face looming at my phone screen like Munch's Scream, but saying minge every 5 seconds. And those collars... what in the cromwell roundhead army is going on . They actually make me angry they are so foul.I have unfollowed her but my algorithm hasn't caught up yet.

 

[Skewbedu]

I started following her years ago because the decor in her old house was quite nice. That's what got her a lot of followers I think. I noticed this week she says she started a second account because the original one was now a "comedy account"
Is it comedy though? Calling your kids bellends and doing the same old dance in every post?

The absolute nonsense in this post too. Why do your kids need to be in kids clubs all summer? Where is the "work"? You can make crappy reels of you waving your foufou around when the kids have the lego out. Her whining while mums doing actual full time jobs have no choice but pay £000s for this. Hush now.

 

[cb76xx]

She thinks shes funny because shes middle class and says 'slags' and 'clunge' and 'minge' and thrusts her fanny at the camera at every opportunity. Wow. Breaking the internet she is!

 

[Lovely_rita]

I really hate this new trend of being so mean about your kids. I am childfree myself, but I grew up with parents who would say mean things, and it hurts. It isn't funny, it is abusive behaviour disguised as 'banter.

Funnily enough, my parents cannot hear a crumb of criticism, and they go mental if anyone insults them. It is always the ones who can't take it who dish it out the most.

 

[Cabbagepatch]

Can’t stand her. I’m no prude but I find her absolutely rank. All that talk about cheesy nipples and arseholes and minges. The only good point is that she doesn’t show them (unlike the equally vile Knee Deep In Life) so there’s always that, I suppose.

Agreed.

Sought this thread out to have a moan about her latest post and stories. So she’s dancing about like a dick in her mum jeans, pulled right up her crack. Making herself look a twat. Fine. That’s fine. If you want to make yourself look a twat, you go right ahead. But in stories her little boy can be heard saying mummy don’t do that. It’s silly. Poor kid is cringing probably. But she’s clearly making him feel uncomfortable and I can see why. So she puts it on stories and calls him a knobhead. Nice.

I suppose it’s an improvement on calling her kids a pair of cunts for waking her up at 4:45am last week.

I used to like her but this year she’s clearly trying to be more controversial for more engagement. Nope. Not for me. I’ve unfollowed

 

[Notenoughgin]

Complaining that someone has messaged about the way she continuously posts how much she hates being with her kids. It’s what we’re all thinking Victoria…