Twinsandme #32

[sophiasstories]

I always found it very strange that he hangs out with Julie and her mam so much…my brother is same sort of age and he does his own thing and has to be dragged to any family things. Sean is a loser

Wow I think that’s very unfair. All my family would holiday together every year, lots of families do it. They seem to have had regular family holiday prior to covid. I think it’s lovely and shows he’s a good guy. He’s like a father figure to the twins and he’s helping his Mam through the loss of her husband. I think he seems a really good young fella, certainly not a loser.

 

[itsnotmeitsyouok]

Are people fighting over a thread title! fuck my life. Babies dying in the Ukraine and this is a big deal. Anyway here to book my spot for the new car unveiling with a big bow and shannen there cheering her on!

 

[Onreal]

And I looks out the window of the plane and sees a robin on the wing

 

[Frilly Milly]

it was in response to couples doing better than Julie
Taken it out of context isn’t on

You think Julie waking kids up at 1am, completely pissed, drinking since 11am that morning, is good parenting?
You think it's good for the kids to see Julie hammered every weekend?
You think it's good for the kids to grow up under the table of a pub?
You think it's good for Julie to threaten to run away from them?
You think it's good that Julie laughs and records those kids to say mother fucker?
You think it's ok for Julie to record themselves for TikTok doing role play of dealers with white stuff?
You think it's good for the kids to have a mother drive them places on a Sunday morning, literally sometimes less than 4 hours after her last drink?
You think it's good parenting for Julie to leave her kids on tablets and phones hours on end, and admitting she uses them for babysitters?
You think it's ok for those kids to sit with Julie to watch adult themed movies?
That's just a few instances I remember without looking at her grid posts.
You may have studied child development, had some qualifications, but I can categorically say, without a doubt, that you haven't clearly done your research and findings in a real life setting!!

 

[Orlsie]

What did I just watch? Did she just scratch her fanny at the start?

 

[sron]

I am a mother of ASD children so don't start getting at me. I have 2 ASD ,now adults and 4 NT

Fionn doesnt like getting his hair cut like lots of boys. His mother records him hysterical instead of distracting and making it easier for him. No wonder then he gets upset every time.


My point is, she has never mentioned meltdowns after school but now she is following pages that addresss sensory issues telling us how informative it is.

Children constantly have their faces in phones so not surprised if they have bad social skills. Monkey see, monkey do.

Julie puts their lives up on IG, we would have been subjected to after school meltdowns if there were any.

Julie needs another cash cow and this could be it.

If i thought for one minute she was bringing awareness to silent disabilities Id be thrilled but that is not what Julie does.

I think the way Fionn carries on is because Julie is rubbish at actual parenting.

 

[Lovelula]

Calling herself a plonker because Fionn wouldnt talk to her in the cafe and had his head in her phone.... eh he's 4 Julie,he cant talk full stop...what did she expect him to do pick up the Irish Examiner and read out what's happening in Leinster House

 

[Sleep_deprived]

Right, I have to say this. Im a single mam, my child’s dad up and left when they were really young. Nothing was ever said about him from me and I waiting till the questions came. Simple answer I gave - he wasn’t ready to be a dad. No bashing or bad mouthing, simple answer and I told them that once they were older If they wanted they could try and find him. They said they won’t. But it’s still an option. I’m very open about it all and we’ve chatted a lot about it.

Now getting away from that part, what damage is Julie doing to 4 year olds. Making fun of them, giving them no privacy, and literally bad mouthing them every other day just to get some content for a stupid page on insta. Like what the actual fuck, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again - I hope she can find a good therapist in a few years cos the online content she’s using them for right now will end up being worse than their dad leaving them. She blames everything but herself for the anxiety etc that the kids have. She needs to look closer to home for that.
There needs to be a law brought in to protect kids like this cos it’s fucking disgusting that kids are used online like that.

 

[Puffin]

Not to keep beating the drum and not to derail but here's my own experience. I grew up in a 2 parent household. My relationahip with my mother was not great but it has gotten better. She was for most of my life a very detached person who used alcohol as a crutch and did not like and talk of emotions of feelings , all done very discreetly and it was only as an adult that I realised what was going on.

I had two parents who were always physically present and I had all my basic needs taken care of except when I didn't. No food in fridge when I came home from school, locked out of the house cos she forgot to leave a key out etc etc., sent to the pub to guilt my father into coming home, hiding bills that my mother had lied about being paid . I got very good at lying with out flinching and great at being a people pleaser

I see alot of similarities between my mother and Julie and I can tell you I spent a lot of time in therapy for other things but ultimately it all stemmed back to my mother. I am in no way defending the twins father as it takes a lot more than sperm to be a father but Julie is also doing a lot of harm to those kids. Just some food for thought on a Sunday and this isn't a woe is me post just a different perspective

 

[TikToc]

What an absolute cunt! Reason they're afraid your not coming back is because you keep fuck8ng telling them you're running away and not coming back. Cop the fuck on and stop trying to pretend you're Mother of the year.

 

[sron]

Has anyone noticed all the insinuations anout Fionn recently needing extra care?

The asthma
Needing something from home to get his hair cut
This morning sharing a page thars discussing sensory meltdowns after school.

All pointing towards additional needs/ asd.

When has she ever mentioned the meltdowns after school ? All of a sudden she is randomly sharing.

A towel bought from home. Where did she get that little nugget.

I swear if she says that child has ASD i will blow a fuse because we all know , its lack of support/ attention from his mother is what causes all his behavioural issues.

 

[bingobrenda]

A child is seriously impacted by a parent simply abandoning them. It affects many areas of their lives & it caused untold harm in their adult lives & their future relationships. The idea children bounce back & get over things easily is untrue. Those children will suffer today & they will suffer their whole lives because their father has left them.

i actually think they’ll suffer more because their mother constantly says she wants to run away from them while she’s infront of them, she also goes out most weekends at some stage, and when she’s there the phone is shoved in their faces to perform like circus clowns

 

[Drama queen]

Why is this yoke buzzing its friday everyday is the weekend for her. She doesnt work she barely cooks and eats out regularly during the week guzzles wine during the week. What separates her weekdays from weekend??

Side note I know its illegal/frowned upon to give a child a slap on the arse but jesus christ that wee girl needs some manners put into her. I got a slap and it hasnt done me any harm fully functioning adult with no issues that knows my actions have consequences.

 

[FairyCake37]

The holiday went from 3500 to 3200 to 3100 to 3000 within 5 stories she couldn't lie straight in the bed

 

[FairyCake37]

I recently had an interaction with Julie, nothing major but from which I gather from her she's a very cute and cunning person. She knows very well how to manipulate a situation and although everything we say here has been justified, she'd def playing everyone. I think all her stories are aimed at creating a badmom opinion of her, she plays every scenario so tattle will talk about her. Honestly I'd go to say there's def a mental health issue at heart here where she's thriving on the fact she's got 30+ threads on tattle. Her interactions with Sean show he's uncomfortable going along with the carry on of her , her mam seems to love the attention too. I think if tattle stopped talking about her tomorrow, she wouldn't know what to do with herself. Her page is no longer for followers, she's def out to bring out the 'trolls'. It suits her narrative, poor single mom to twins being bullied by trolls on tattle. Even that article she admits she does stuff to rise people. I think I need to unfollow, by watching her its almost supporting her mistreatment of those poor children.

 

[TeaAndABun]

And I looks out the window of the plane and sees a robin on the wing

The pilot is 100 years old and celebrating his final flight.All passengers get a care package of a loaf,litre of milk and a fiver in case they find themselves hanging.There was supposed to be a Sweets King bag but it's arriving next month.She gets chatting to the Air Hostess,a fellow single mom going it alone who don't need no mans.The tannoy system plays Destiny Child's Independent Women as Julie starts a Mexican wave.Security try to be discrete as they escort the mother smoking from the lav....

 

[Get off my chest]

Being abandoned by a parent & being created by love & carried by someone else is completely different.



While all that is true , a parent abandoning a child is one of the most damaging things you can do to a child. How the twins behave is how children who have been abandoned behave & they will suffer their whole lives because their father didn’t step up . I think more people need to be aware how much harm this does & then maybe it would happen less.



oh it is, a child abandoned will face many issues due to the abandonment

I'm sorry but how the twins behave is 100% down to how Julie deals with them....she is erratic,drinks ALOT of alcohol,talks awfully in front of them, films them cursing and laughs, etc etc etc . harsh but true I'm sorry.


Completely disagree with you

 

[FairyCake37]

Well Julie love if you can't afford to live in 2022 I don't know what hope the rest of us will have. New car , holidays in 3 weeks another hen this weekend. Out all last weekend and every other weekend since restrictions lifted. The kids are never in the same clothes twice ..so fk right off trying to be relatable

 

[itsnotmeitsyouok]

So I’m there this morning minding my business changing fucking beds so in a right humour and my fool comes out after his 3rd daily shite and says” read a thing there on the internet about a one in cork and all the trouble she goes through and how she is getting bullied by people all the time” don’t you read that tattle page? Seems a bit lousy!”
So I caught him by the arm, dragged him next to me showed him her stories on WAI and I shit you not he’s a quiet man but he says “fuck me she’s a scumbag and I feeling sorry for her!” I nearly drop kicked him down the stairs! So that shows how she is lying and lying her way through life to get views. She had my fella feeling sorry on her. I could have no head and he would say what’s for dinner?

 

[Get off my chest]

The neeeeeckkkk of this wan sayin she was catfished .. Good lord above