Tom had loads of people over for his birthday. This was in 2019. The gals were setting up the Chinese food and he once again stuck his grubby little fingers right into the salt and pepper chicken - that everybody else has to eat - and grabbed himself a piece. The man has no sense of “others.”
He also did this recently, I believe, when they were at Wes and Becky‘s house with the Chinese food that they had ordered

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Isn’t this considered very poor manners in the Chinese culture that he seems to be so enamoured with? I know that you’re supposed to use a different set of chopsticks for serving than the ones that go in your mouth. But Tom bypasses all that by just shoving in his hand right into the communal dish of food.
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