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Lol why are people in her comments saying we're refusing to consider that Olivia could be a troll? Of course she could be. We've said that so many times 😂 Said it about John before Olivia showed up too. I'm just also open to the idea that she could not be. I like puzzles, sue me.
Some creators are being extremely childish. Have I thought olivia might be Sam? Yes of course but I also think she might be an 18 year old who is going through it right now and I won’t add to that. They are also running with the idea that we think Olivia is the dead baby which is what I posted earlier as I couldn’t remember the dates of that. We quickly cleared that up tho! My friend had a baby at 15 and no1 outside her immediate family knew until baby was 6mths and she was comfortable with every1 knowing so it’s very plausible.
 
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Some creators are being extremely childish. Have I thought olivia might be Sam? Yes of course but I also think she might be an 18 year old who is going through it right now and I won’t add to that. They are also running with the idea that we think Olivia is the dead baby which is what I posted earlier as I couldn’t remember the dates of that. We quickly cleared that up tho! My friend had a baby at 15 and no1 outside her immediate family knew until baby was 6mths and she was comfortable with every1 knowing so it’s very plausible.
Exactly! Do I want it to be true? No, of course I don't want any child to have been through that! Have stranger things happened? Yes. Do lots of kids start looking for their birth parents at 18? Yes.
 
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Exactly! Do I want it to be true? No, of course I don't want any child to have been through that! Have stranger things happened? Yes. Do lots of kids start looking for their birth parents at 18? Yes.
It’ll be a very sad ending if it is true. Bangor wants to know if I’m going to criticise the Alzheimer’s society now aswel and yes Bangor why didn’t they do any checks? €100,000 grant and no checks on Cjw🤔 Come on!
And yes why didn’t the mum do any checks before leaving her children in the care of a stranger and letting her live with them? Those children were very lucky Sam didn’t harm them!
 
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It’ll be a very sad ending if it is true. Bangor wants to know if I’m going to criticise the Alzheimer’s society now aswel and yes Bangor why didn’t they do any checks? €100,000 grant and no checks on Cjw🤔 Come on!
And yes why didn’t the mum do any checks before leaving her children in the care of a stranger and letting her live with them? Those children were very lucky Sam didn’t harm them!
Yeah the Alzheimer's society should absolutely have done their due diligence. I can see why someone might read that comment as victim blaming but it would appear she was actually stealing funding from disabled people. Just my perspective as a disabled person idk. Sam seems incredibly manipulative so I won't criticise people who bought from her for falling for it. There were obvious red flags for me with her assistive tech/programming stuff which everyone can't be expected to pick up on, but the charities funding her? They should have. I've tried explaining it to two programmers and both said it obviously wasn't possible. Same as with the 3D printing.

To be fair to the parents we don't know what their background checks were like or what documents she showed them. They might have ducked up on safeguarding, they might not. I'm sure they've learnt from it either way.
 
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The state she is in is there a added reason why Olivia flipped out a year go into this real mental health state, is there anything horrible she found out about her biological father, on top of her mother?

For someone Olivia barely knows she has extremely strong opinions of Carrie/Sam
 
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Yeah the Alzheimer's society should absolutely have done their due diligence. I can see why someone might read that comment as victim blaming but it would appear she was actually stealing funding from disabled people. Just my perspective as a disabled person idk.

To be fair to the parents we don't know what their background checks were like or what documents she showed them. They might have ducked up on safeguarding, they might not. I'm sure they've learnt from it either way.
Yea absolutely they should have. There’s not enough money for disability services in Ireland it’s a fight everyday even to get services for children😕 It’s just brutal here.
I know plenty of families who do no checks at all just want a cheap worker. Now I know that may not be the case here but it’s frightening ppl opening up their homes and children to complete strangers. Ireland’s a small place she clearly wasn’t great at her scams, leaving the “notebook” and email for mum. Rebecca was rumbled over in cork so I think it’s fair to say if people had of actually done background checks she might not of gotten away.
The surrogacy couple no I can’t blame them, 2 people who desperately wanted a baby, that was cruel.

If the creators stopped talking about it now they wouldn’t be brought up. Some are coming across very badly and only taking snippets from here to suit their narrative🙄 2/3 months max is all these ppl were in contact with Cjw for😳
 
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Olivia has deleted all her tiktoks. I don’t know what to believe anymore! Olivia needs to be upfront and put all speculation to bed, or get off tiktok and heal from whatever she has been through. I have a lot of compassion for her. She needs a hug and a real-life qualified person to talk to.
 
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This is a tangent I know as we are filling in all sorts of gaps with speculation, but I know a bit about children in care from work and there’s some lobbying to increase the age for young people to track their parents - 18 is not the right age as biologically brains are just not fully formed until early 20s. For many it’s a really disruptive experience if it doesn’t go how they hoped.
 
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Olivia has deleted all her tiktoks. I don’t know what to believe anymore! Olivia needs to be upfront and put all speculation to bed, or get off tiktok and heal from whatever she has been through. I have a lot of compassion for her. She needs a hug and a real-life qualified person to talk to.
I think she deletes them because her videos are being reported and she’ll lose her account. Who is reporting her? She’s not hurting anyone posting her cryptic msgs, no1 can even figure them out

This is a tangent I know as we are filling in all sorts of gaps with speculation, but I know a bit about children in care from work and there’s some lobbying to increase the age for young people to track their parents - 18 is not the right age as biologically brains are just not fully formed until early 20s. For many it’s a really disruptive experience if it doesn’t go how they hoped.
Yes it’s a very bad age to find out, I know 2 people who were adopted and didn’t find out until their late teens both went completely off the rails. It was awful and their adoptive parents couldn’t work it out as they’d given them a great life. I meet 1 a few years ago in Dublin, he was homeless and begging on the street. I’ve often wondered could it all have being avoided if he knew earlier (young child) or older
 
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on the surrogacy scam it states she had forged paperwork to show she was a social worker with honours and there was a surrogacy contract 'amount other things' (whatever that means) on her laptop so I assume she was pretty decent at forging and making a calculated backstory. She probably did something similar for the au pair jobs - it says in the article for the surrogacy she provided references from another 'grateful mother'. I can't imagine how the family felt after finding out she was a fraud and letting her stay in their home and look after their kids!

As for the Alzheimer's Society I mean... god knows! you would have thought the depth of knowledge they have and the depth they would vet someone they would have found something. It will be interesting to see if they take it further
 
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My point was anyone can forge documents none of these people actually looked into it or checked out her references. Here you can get your employee Garda vetted and it’ll show all the names you’ve had( if changed legally) all previous addresses and any criminal convictions. Im not victim blaming, these people were stupid to not check her info out properly.
The fact people believed her statement about her evil sister says enough🙄😂 that statement was laughable. People should learn a lesson from this and not believe a stranger on the net.
 
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My point was anyone can forge documents none of these people actually looked into it or checked out her references. Here you can get your employee Garda vetted and it’ll show all the names you’ve had( if changed legally) all previous addresses and any criminal convictions. Im not victim blaming, these people were stupid to not check her info out properly.
The fact people believed her statement about her evil sister says enough🙄😂 that statement was laughable. People should learn a lesson from this and not believe a stranger on the net.
Thanks that's really useful info. I'm English and don't have kids so happy to admit I know duck all about that stuff 😂 The au pair industry seems so shady.
The evil sister thing will never not make me laugh. Such a terrible and blatant lie. I struggle to believe she'd go to this much effort to invent another child tbh.
 
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Thanks that's really useful info. I'm English and don't have kids so happy to admit I know duck all about that stuff 😂 The au pair industry seems so shady.
The evil sister thing will never not make me laugh. Such a terrible and blatant lie. I struggle to believe she'd go to this much effort to invent another child tbh.
Yea it’s very easy it’s like €20 to get someone vetted but plenty don’t bother. It is extremely shady, shocking that so many put their children at risk.
The likes of the Alzheimer’s society will never comment and admit that massive error from them🙄 there would be uproar and rightly so! Services are basically non existent. I fight that fight everyday for my child and it’s soul destroying and them ready to hand over €100,000 without checks🤔

Yeah that statement 😂 and the people believing it😳😂 you can’t fix stupid🥴
 
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I honestly cannot believe that anyone still thinks Olivia can be Sam’s child, like I understand we don’t have proof of stuff but the fact everyone seems to be like ‘it is possible and stranger things have happened’ people have spoken to Sams mum and sams mum has confirmed she wasnt pregnant as a young teen.
I hope whoever Olivia is she gets help
 
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I honestly cannot believe that anyone still thinks Olivia can be Sam’s child, like I understand we don’t have proof of stuff but the fact everyone seems to be like ‘it is possible and stranger things have happened’ people have spoken to Sams mum and sams mum has confirmed she wasnt pregnant as a young teen.
I hope whoever Olivia is she gets help
Who spoke to sams mum? Who’s to say she’s not lying? Do you know the amount of young girls who are still shamed/forced into giving up/aborting their babies? Why hasn’t sams mum contacted the relevant authorities here to report her daughter as being a fraud? Why did Sam run away and stay here all this time? Is her mum just as bad as her or even worse than her?

Truth is no 1 here or creators on tt actually know the full truth.

Does no1 else find it strange that a former employer kept this notebook & paper with an email address on it that turns out to be sams mums🥴 all these years and then suddenly finds Krissie on tt and contacts her.
 
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No I don’t find that weird because it’s such a creepy note that I think it would be something you would think about knowing you let this woman look after your children and I’m not sure she kept the physical notebook - she may just have kept the photos of the notes.
And I don’t think she randomly found Krissie - the air bnb story went viral, it was being spread on fb and tiktok to tons of people and Ireland is not a huge country - it was obvious what part of Ireland she was based in and can easily spread from there- it made Irish news sites before they took the articles down
 
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I honestly cannot believe that anyone still thinks Olivia can be Sam’s child, like I understand we don’t have proof of stuff but the fact everyone seems to be like ‘it is possible and stranger things have happened’ people have spoken to Sams mum and sams mum has confirmed she wasnt pregnant as a young teen.
I hope whoever Olivia is she gets help
Don't believe this one's her daughter
Do believe that one's her mum

Right.
 
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we need an updated timeline of events, I feel like I've spun around in circles for too long haha

Was just looking at the first page again with the list of therapies the guests gave.. replacement emotional support animal... gets me every time
 
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Who spoke to sams mum? Who’s to say she’s not lying? Do you know the amount of young girls who are still shamed/forced into giving up/aborting their babies? Why hasn’t sams mum contacted the relevant authorities here to report her daughter as being a fraud? Why did Sam run away and stay here all this time? Is her mum just as bad as her or even worse than her?

Truth is no 1 here or creators on tt actually know the full truth.

Does no1 else find it strange that a former employer kept this notebook & paper with an email address on it that turns out to be sams mums🥴 all these years and then suddenly finds Krissie on tt and contacts her.
Sam’s mum was spoken to by Krissie. However, according to Olivia the family have erased her so it’s still a rabbit hole.

With regards to the employer thing (someone brought it up somewhere) and the family not checking her out properly - they did. But Sam is a practised scammer who creates multiple references etc. even a basic DBS check won’t bring up much regarding her past because she doesn’t have anything unspent. She made up all sorts of lies about being an au pair to the super rich in LA. Also remember that au pairs are not traditionally checked within an inch of their lives, unlike child minders they are usually young people looking for experience so don’t have any childcare qualifications.
 
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I posted the comment in here then took it down. I think it’s nonsense. It’s too much of a coincidence that the person allegedly in these photos would see them in a tiny account on TikTok. It’s highly unlikely.
Olivia also posted a couple of talking tiktoks. Which is why I don't think she's stealing some girls photos? 🤔
 
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