I don’t think anyone will ever know the full story to be honest. It seems to me that this person, whatever her name, has some deep rooted mental health problem like Munchausens, Scitzophenia, or any other thing I can’t spell. No, I am not diagnosing her, but I’m seeing multiple personalities that are/have lived very strange scenarios out and that although there may be truth in certain aspects of what she is portraying, it seems to me that she really believes she is being honest, when I’m fact she’s just creating her own narrative that puts her in the spotlight as a victim.
I hope I have not offended anyone by saying that. I realise I have not explained myself too well. But anyone ever had a friend or partner who’s a pathological liar? They aren’t consciously making stuff up, it just becomes part of their persona over time. I hope someone steps in and helps because she has put herself as risk and is in too remote/specific a place to protect herself.