TheRelaxedMumma

[Amyx1518]

“Homeless” but is having monthly facials and laser hair removal this woman boils my piss

 

[Loulouj]

I've always thought her setup was a bit strange. I don't really understand what or who she is influencing. She's posted some fairly dangerous posts around her second child. I'm relieved he's here safely but she was suggesting things like inductions were never ok etc (I know higher risk of interventions but they aren't all bad, I had one which was fine) which could have been really damaging to people expecting a baby. I commented on her post and she blocked me.

I used to find her quite amusing but now I find her incredibly dangerous. All that birth stuff really triggered me, if I’d have ignored the doctors and refused induction and intervention my baby wouldn’t be here right now.

If you look on her personal instagram (it’s public) you can really see the kind of person she is. This whole beige and neutral thing is part of her attempting to build a brand. She moved to Dubai a few months before she got pregnant with Henri, which makes me think it wasn’t planned. She strikes me as someone who is spoilt, likes her own way and thinks she knows everything, when actually I don’t think she is very intelligent.

I’ve got a really strong dislike for her, because of how toxic she is to mums.

Anyway rant over

 

[Smiles265]

I mean I know I’m just an outsider looking in but I always thought it wouldn’t really work between them once she moved over there. It seemed she was full time looking after the boys, solo parenting basically, whilst he lived in Cyprus so he didn’t really have a clue what it was like to take care of young kids and how full on it can be.

 

[Yumyumbumbum]

Apparently she's going to be homeless. So insulting to leople who actually experience homelessness. She's moving to Cyprus and living with her partner. That's not homeless? Also she was slagging off living in Stevenage. She acts like she's posh or something.

 

[Underthetabletop]

I’m a bit lost, she was harping on about being back in the UK- she’s clearly not baby daddy appears to be there too? So what’s the crack with it all? I wish people would give over just posting crap

 

[Bluebellpainting]

She has been quiet again for a while. Must be having a difficult time getting back settled here. I do feel a bit sorry for her as it must tricky with two little ones packing up her life like that and it sounds like her slow transition plan suddenly fell through. But posting an ad and promising to tell all soon. It is still all about the engagement. I definitely suspect that her life even in the last few months isn’t what she depicts (staying in luxury hotels all while trying to sort this mess out). If she has had any sense she would have used those 4 months to sort the transition back properly and prioritise her children. But then again she does give out dangerous advice.

 

[Loulouj]

Have her and her partner split up I wonder? She’s back in the uk with the babies and posting cryptic stories… I don’t love her content tbh but I do feel sorry for her if she’s uprooted her entire life to move to Cyprus for her already extremely vacant husband, for it to then not work out

It certainly sounds that way.

Agreed I don’t love her content, but I also feel sorry for her and for the boys. She’s been through a lot since the littlest has been born and I don’t think she has been coping well.

 

[Loulouj]

Her stories never add up. She sticks with a theme for a while and then tries another one to see what works best to gain followers. She tried the whole solo parenting 2 kids for ages, but she was never actually solo parenting.

She’s clever, but she tells so many lies. I noticed ages ago she will delete a previous post if she chooses a new narrative so she can’t be caught out.

I get the impression she isn’t a very nice person and comes across as quite spoilt. Tries to be relatable, but is anything but

 

[Loulouj]

I've never seen any influencer gifted as many prams lol. Must be about nearly 10 and most are from the same shop

It’s ridiculous! But also she makes out she’s a regular at that shop but she lives nowhere near them. They are based in Stoke and Wigan.
Stoke is not far from me, might pop in and see if they will gift me one

 

[Sunlifeover50]

Who is this woman? She just came up on my for you page saying she’s homeless but eating food from M&S make it make sense?? It’s insulting to the people out there actually struggling!

same- she came up on mine too. I initially felt sad for her but I watched a few more videos and it was like “yeah just been to view a house but I can’t fit a dining table in so it’s a no”. I mean really? Surely you’d just be happy it was in a safe area??

 

[Loulouj]

I’m so glad someone has started a thread on her! I thought it was just me who had these thoughts about her.

She definitely comes across as someone who thinks she knows everything about parenting. Telling mums to just book spa days and fly off for a spa day without their kid. I’d love to, but the reality is most mums don’t have the childcare or the funds to do that. I don’t think most mums would be able to relate to her.

I think she comes across as quite immature and spoilt.

All this stuff about the second pregnancy, and the issues she is having, she doesn’t exactly seem to be taking the best care of herself and is disregarding what the doctors are saying because she knows better!

Also that latest reel she has posted about the 25 week midwife appt ending up in a hospital trip. I thought it had happened at her 28 week appt?

 

[Loulouj]

She seems to hide him a lot, I think she loves him but he’s not interested in her at all

I can imagine she’s quite difficult to be with as she appears very high maintenance.

I still stand by her not saying what has happened is to up her engagement

I’d love to know how’s she affording the lifestyle she lives because there’s no way she makes that much from instagram

 

[ShhItsASecret]

What was her point here?

She likes to make out she’s ALPHA MUM- and knows everything about motherhood.
It’s just utter bullshit. She’s reads and article or sees someone else’s post and regurgitates it.

 

[nalala]

Something is very off about this girl. She is clearly lying about her life. If you look on her old insta before she made the relaxed mamma one she has been jet setting to 5 star resorts around the world from 18. Her 18th birthday she’s pictured with a Louis Vuitton bag. Did her social worker buy her that obviously not so who did? The family who abandoned her? Pictures with selfridges bags on shopping trips. Trips to Maldives. Who funded all this before she was making money on social media? I think she is lying about her family. She’s already said they had good jobs and a big house. I don’t think her family abandoned her atall and I think they’ve been funding her life prior and she was more than happy to take their money. No child who was a care leaver has a life like that. It’s the very opposite not fancy holidays and designer handbags. She’s lying.

 

[Loulouj]

Another ‘competition’ to up her engagement, that will never be mentioned again

 

[Smiles265]

The fact she can save 20k in two months is crazy isn’t it! That’s about half my yearly wage

 

[Loulouj]

Is anyone else sceptical about her buying this house?

Buying a £400,000 house on her own, self-employed, debt and a bad credit score?
Also find it really odd that she’s not mentioning interest rates or how they’ve changed with everything going on in the world.

 

[Loulouj]

Another day, another article she’s plagiarised as her own!
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She’s an actual joke. I get the impression she isn’t actually that bright. I can’t wait to see her update later after her growth scan about whether or not she’s allowed on holiday. I’m sure her update is going to anger me though!

 

[Yumyumbumbum]

Thank you for this. I’ve had four full term births. Ranging from extremely ptsd level traumatic and baby nearly died to easy with apgar of 10/10. Position of baby is super important and more important than size imo as to how your labour goes. I was told after my first to have caesarians (went on to have heavier babies just fine, but they were positioned the right way round).
How health professionals treat you is paramount. Who you have with you matters. Feeling safe matters. But if your baby is wrong way up and someone assaults you in labour for example, there isn’t any positive-mind-setting your way through it. She’s a stupid child. I wouldn’t wish her or her future babies ill, she’ll just never understand until it goes badly and there’s no making it okay with love laugh live.

I'm sorry to hear of your bad experience. Yes you are right that she is a stupid child. She has zero life experience.

 

[ShhItsASecret]

I want to unfollow, but she’s addictive. It’s now a hate follow.

Everything annoys me!!
-The spelling and grammar errors in her POV posts (Well, all posts actually!).
-The privilege of not having to work (and that post where she told others to do the same got a lot of backlash!)
-Booking into spas and beauty treatments constantly (including flying to a spa for 2 nights as it was cheaper than a UK spa- FUCK OFF!)
-Eye fucking herself in every video
-She clearly has to set up her camera on a shelf in a shop, to get her ‘content’ and it comes across as so desperate.
-Constantly tagging companies in posts until they end up giving her freebies.
-The ENDLESS freebies- does she pay for anything?
-BEIGE!