I've been seeing a therapist for a few weeks due to low self esteem and anxiety issues. I wasn't really sure what to expect but thought she would look at why I feel the way I do and how to change my outlook on myself, and maybe some work to do each week.
The session consists of her taking 5 mins to open the door, then she will go and feed her dog. I've talked about my childhood and my current thoughts. The therapist has spent 2 sessions completing an online anxiety test. (The same test but 2 weeks apart). She has said that I'm "difficult", she feels its like a job interview when speaking to me and that if I thought I would be a more outgoing person after 2 weeks I was mistaken. She said I'm not doing any work outside the session but I have no idea what I am supposed to be doing? I think about the session but I end up over thinking it and feel stupid about what I'm worried about. Which isn't helping with my anxiety.
Is this normal? Were my expectations incorrect? Any thoughts, options, etc would be super helpful! X
The session consists of her taking 5 mins to open the door, then she will go and feed her dog. I've talked about my childhood and my current thoughts. The therapist has spent 2 sessions completing an online anxiety test. (The same test but 2 weeks apart). She has said that I'm "difficult", she feels its like a job interview when speaking to me and that if I thought I would be a more outgoing person after 2 weeks I was mistaken. She said I'm not doing any work outside the session but I have no idea what I am supposed to be doing? I think about the session but I end up over thinking it and feel stupid about what I'm worried about. Which isn't helping with my anxiety.
Is this normal? Were my expectations incorrect? Any thoughts, options, etc would be super helpful! X