Therapy search

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For people who have had positive experiences with therapy, has the age of the therapist played any sort of role?
 
I've only ever seen middle aged women so don't think I can help much but I would probably suggest seeing a therapist that you can relate to. I'm a woman so I would only see a female therapist
 
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I wouldn't like to see someone younger then me. How I felt in therapy with him or her would be the main thing.

My last therapist was around 11 years older. I always found it easier to talk to a male therapist.
 
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I’ve seen three therapists, two were older women and one was a woman a year or two older than me. I felt a much better connection with the one who was around my age because I felt they were able to relate to what I was talking about - the first therapist I saw would always give me examples relating to mothers and as I’m not a parent it all felt a bit bizarre!
 
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I’ve seen three therapists, two were older women and one was a woman a year or two older than me. I felt a much better connection with the one who was around my age because I felt they were able to relate to what I was talking about - the first therapist I saw would always give me examples relating to mothers and as I’m not a parent it all felt a bit bizarre!
Haha okay, so maybe the mid-forties woman I was considering might not be great? I think I’m going to have to “date” a couple of therapists. I used to go straight for older people because they have lived through so much. I am not sure that their experience will be as helpful anymore in the age of tinder.