TashaCharlotte99

[LurkyTheLurker]

Anyone else seen this young girl? She seems really obsessed with having a baby.

Before meeting her current partner she'd had 4 miscarriages, got pregnant after being with him a few weeks lost that baby and again lost a baby today (from her posts on tiktok) she seems to do a trying to conceive journey, was looking into adoption but was told no as she'd just met her partner.

It is really sad I feel so bad for her but she announces straight away when baby isn't even a few weeks old yet then has to tell the world she's lost again, she's a young girl it's so sad but she seems very very in need to have a baby.
Ive seen a few people say she may be best to give her body a rest and wait to hear back from the doctors regarding blood tests etc to see if they can find why she keeps miscarrying.

Feel so bad for her, anyone else come across?

 

[gimm3more]

Anyone else seen this young girl? She seems really obsessed with having a baby.

Before meeting her current partner she'd had 4 miscarriages, got pregnant after being with him a few weeks lost that baby and again lost a baby today (from her posts on tiktok) she seems to do a trying to conceive journey, was looking into adoption but was told no as she'd just met her partner.

It is really sad I feel so bad for her but she announces straight away when baby isn't even a few weeks old yet then has to tell the world she's lost again, she's a young girl it's so sad but she seems very very in need to have a baby.
Ive seen a few people say she may be best to give her body a rest and wait to hear back from the doctors regarding blood tests etc to see if they can find why she keeps miscarrying.

Feel so bad for her, anyone else come across?

I do feel sorry for her but she really needs to wait until she’s gone through all her investigations with her fertility team before TTC. she said she was going to continue anyway. She could be doing more damage to her body unknowingly

 

[LurkyTheLurker]

I do feel sorry for her but she really needs to wait until she’s gone through all her investigations with her fertility team before TTC. she said she was going to continue anyway. She could be doing more damage to her body unknowingly

It's so sad for her but she needs a break i think physically and mentally,

 

[gimm3more]

It's so sad for her but she needs a break i think physically and mentally,

Definitely. I can’t believe it’s her second with her current partner too, they’ve only been together a few months.

 

[Bora Bora Local]

I agree with the above, I feel desperately sad for her and wish she’d just wait for the test results to come back before trying and putting her body through this. The fact they now say they are looking into adoption / ivf etc. etc. it’s like you are 22, you’ve been together 7 months, enjoy yourselves, speak to some Dr’s and try in a year or two.

 

[gimm3more]

I agree with the above, I feel desperately sad for her and wish she’d just wait for the test results to come back before trying and putting her body through this. The fact they now say they are looking into adoption / ivf etc. etc. it’s like you are 22, you’ve been together 7 months, enjoy yourselves, speak to some Dr’s and try in a year or two.

I know she’s been through a lot of trauma in her life, from her acct and her reborns acct. but I completely agree. There’s been comments saying she should lose some weight too which I agree with, excess body large in women massively impacts your hormones including those associated with conception. If I was her I’d stick to getting answers from her specialists, get to a healthy body weight and try in a few years. God bless her she’s only 22 she’s got a solid 10+ years to have children! I get it as I fell pregnant unplanned with my 1st at 19 and miscarried. I was devastated and desperately wanted a baby for a good year and a bit after but after lots of therapy have decided to wait til my 30s (27 now)

 

[Becclo44]

I feel sorry for her but she seems very hasty. A new guy every few months, a new house every few months (why does she move so much?!) and then getting pregnant with every guy she meets. She announces as soon as she gets the positive test which always seems very premature.

I hope she gets a baby one day but I do think she needs to grow up a bit first. I do feel like she’s just very desperate for attention too. I really don’t think she’d be considered for adoption either.

 

[Bora Bora Local]

She 100% would not be considered for adoption. I used to work on the legal side and the bar for adoption is set very high, everything is scrutinised from money to accommodation. I had someone question someone for having a sky subscription. It’s bloody hard to adopt.

 

[gimm3more]

I feel sorry for her but she seems very hasty. A new guy every few months, a new house every few months (why does she move so much?!) and then getting pregnant with every guy she meets. She announces as soon as she gets the positive test which always seems very premature.

I hope she gets a baby one day but I do think she needs to grow up a bit first. I do feel like she’s just very desperate for attention too. I really don’t think she’d be considered for adoption either.

I’m glad the adoption thing fell through because that was a really bad idea to be honest.

 

[Ljb1984]

I have followed her for a while I think she seems very sweet, naive but sweet. But I also agree with everything everyone has said on this thread. She’s very young, she’s not been with her man for long, I think she needs to find her answers to the recurring miscarriages prior to trying again. If you ever read this Tasha enjoy your early twenties hun. Get to know your man properly, make a life for yourself you have so much time. Don’t pressure yourself on the TTC journey it’s hard long and lonely.

 

[LurkyTheLurker]

Going to be TTC again after this cycle so the giving her body a break isn't happening, she needs to lose 3% of her body weight to get IVF on the NHS apparently but it will take too long. She is still so young has all the time in the world to get healthy

 

[Bora Bora Local]

I think she desperately needs to look into therapy to really work through her feelings and grief before jumping into having a baby…

 

[gimm3more]

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Going to be TTC again after this cycle so the giving her body a break isn't happening, she needs to lose 3% of her body weight to get IVF on the NHS apparently but it will take too long. She is still so young has all the time in the world to get healthy

I still can’t believe she “accidentally” got pregnant with her new fella after 2 weeks of being together and now they’re discussing IVF and adoption when they’ve not even been together a year! She won’t be able to get IVF privately at that weight either. I think she needs to prioritise losing weight and getting a stable home first before TTC again

 

[LurkyTheLurker]

She's now set up her go fund me for £8000

 

[gimm3more]

She's now set up her go fund me for £8000

She really does need psychological help like this should not be a priority. She should spend the rest of the year losing weight, save up for a house and then get back to TTC. she’s only bloody 22!

 

[Becclo44]

The faces she makes when she dances make her look really harmless

 

[LurkyTheLurker]

She's another that does the stupid dancing videos when explaining something, I've kit also she's another with big news that she can't possibly tell yet and you need to wait

 

[LurkyTheLurker]

So she's now doing a private adoption from a family she knows through social services? She's only live just now after buying a load of clothes for them and she has been told she might not get BOTH of them in July?!? Not been accepted yet and going through process she is so obsessed with having a child. Hasn't she just been with the guy two mins

 

[Becclo44]

So she's now doing a private adoption from a family she knows through social services? She's only live just now after buying a load of clothes for them and she has been told she might not get BOTH of them in July?!? Not been accepted yet and going through process she is so obsessed with having a child. Hasn't she just been with the guy two mins

this sounds really strange, but to be honest I think she’s a bit of a fantasist - a lot of the things she says are happening and she gets really excited about, all for her to say later on that things changed and they’re not happening now. She gets too ahead of herself.

 

[Becclo44]

Really starting to doubt this girl now and wonder if she’s a bit of en exaggerator. Getting approved for adoption is far from as easy and straightforward as she’s making out it is. All very odd.