I’ve followed Tammy for years and do like her but I don’t know why she rushed everything with Matt (engagement, baby)

their daughter is of course gorgeous but I can’t help but feel like she put so much pressure on herself by rushing their relationship along
I think although he was an athlete that he likes a party. I’m just wondering whether they fell out a lot because of him being out/ using drugs or something. That could explain his dad liking the comment about her being controlling. Kind of ironic if it was that because Tammy went through her proper party era after Reece but she’s probably grown up slightly since then and wanted someone a bit calmer?
sorry if someone’s said this before I’m just catching up on the thread

so do we think Matt and Tammy have split/ ended their engagement? I think they have but are trying to keep it on the low because they’re new parents and have enough to stress about and work out privately f Tammy and Matt's first hookup was high on coke at Nikki and Lucys housewarming party. They were also both high as kites at her function at Fashion Week for Saski, pupils as large as dinner plates and a staff member kicked them off Hamilton Island because Tammy was caught doing lines in the restaurant toilet (2020) Both liked to party and had coke in common. Where it went wrong, was when she fell pregnant and expected Matt to slow down (understandable) and stop the lifestyle they both enjoyed. And although it looked like he slowed down and only wet out with Tammy, the cracks were showing when resentment turned up its ugly head and his outlet was drinking with the boys again. Probably also for some manly advice as most of his friends are married with kids. Dont forget that Matt also had to take on another mans kids, so thats a huge adjustment BUT he should have thought about all of this BEFORE even considering a child with her and then that brings me to.......did she purposely get pregnant when he could have told her he wanted to wait?????? Could the resentment be coming from that? I feel bad for them all, esp the kids but Tammy is a great mum and she has a huge family behind her. I am pretty sure their anniversary is coming up in a few weeks, so that will be interesting. I think they will both drag it out so everyone isnt in shock, like Reece and London have done. After a while, we just accept it. Makes it easier for them too. They could also be trying to work things out but I dont think Matt will ever bow down to her needs, whatever they may be. I think he's very selfish but I also see Tammy as being very demanding. He's so layed back and she's so the opposite. Was never meant to be unfortunately. 2023 will be interesting, thats forsure.