I understand where your going with that but as the mom of a child who is autistic, I had to give up work to be her carer, I would give every single cent back and then some for her not to struggle the way she does. I totally get that people abuse the system but that makes it harder for people who have no alternative but to claim carers, especially with the perception that we are getting money for nothing. Also, carers covers fuck all. I'm not having a hop of you but it does get infuriating at times x